31/05/2024
is 💯 When life throws lemons@ u ask for pineapples too.😇Because the deeper the wound the bigger the blessing ! I never understood the quote Trust the Process/Journey when I was sitting in the dark drowning in misery, giving the enemy power over what He "thought woulddestroy me but The Lord said to me I will cut off the branch that bears no fruit my dear Child, Vengeance is the Lord's !!!! Don't get me wrong it was nowhere near easy, I tried to cry for help indirectly but no1 understood what I was trying to do, next thing I know here I am attacking a school mate(which turned out to be a very Close friend of mine till this day 🥺😊💯🙏my Dear friend was just @ the wrong time & place & for no reason he got caught in the middle.😔To cut a long story short I was still in primary school when I was sexually abused, I can't really describe how I felt no words can express that part my innocence was stolen, I was physically and emotionally scarred 💔. My whole world came tumbling down due to The sexual abuse that was happening in class right under everyones nose. (please don't ask me the name of the School & teacher's information 🙏👍 so moral of the story: *Boundaries are very important * Let's learn to be open & honest with our kids about private body parts, their right. * Even if it means having a code name for being uncomfortable that you & The Child can communicate using to alert You the trusted person that they feel safe if the perpetrators is a close family member ,friend, Dad,uncle Aunt Mom, neighbor, Step-Mom or step Dad cousin etc.whoever this could be!!! Our Kids need to be reminded regularly that 1)You will not blame them if they confide in you 2) You will believe what they have just told you & follow up on it having the childs best interests @ heart Also making sure that you go to the clinic/hospital and the police station to gather all the information/evidence that's needed to build a solid case. Child sexual abuse/Sexual abuse affects all of life 🧐
