08/09/2026
Even though I've lived with a disabilty for over 30 years but I've come to realise that I could never be qualified to speak on behalf of every person who has a disability...Our experiences vary and differs so much...it's impossible to represent each and every experience around disability issues...but we share the same hardships, prejudices, injustices, discriminations and all that Bulsh*t..but our disability experiences are way way different for many reasons,I cannot explain in one single post..
But I'm grateful to have taken a decision a few yrs back, to associate myself with other people with disabilities in chat groups and other social media groups in order to engage,argue and fight over certain issues that concern us.. like I always argue over the use of the word "normal" when they use it to differentiate themselves to people without disabilities,I thought they were looking down upon themselves but I've since realised that some use it unconsciously as a spoken word, without attaching a meaning of normal vs abnormal..so I have lost the battle and accepted that it is what it is..😅😅😅 somehow they grew up whereby the word was used carelessly without a thought and it stuck with them,i accept that for better or for worse..
I have also came to realise the desperation and the fears that stem from seeing life pass-u-by like u don't exist..it's complicated, but i also understand the territory we live in as people with disabilities it's difficult and there has been no attention nor assistance given to help tread this difficult terrain and it saddens me a lot that such a large part of our country's population (2 million + people)have been relegated to charity and left to grow old at home without being assisted to be productive members of the society when they actually have so much brains, talent and learning capabilities to offer the country but they are just pushed to the back of the production line and regarded as useless unproductive charity cases...but I hope some day we will have a government/leadership who will not required people with disabilities to be activists in order to be heard.
Department of Sport, Arts and Culture
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