20/01/2025
There are so many unfair situations that occur in life, I mean If life was fair we were all going to be living our best soft life 🤷🏾♀️. I for one recieved a large dose of the unfair situation syrup and I became a victim of it, feeling sorry for myself, hiding behind it when validating why I'm not chasing my dreams (kalok ndihlelwe yile or I was born into this situation) and waiting for someone to come rescue me (no one came, granted as people have their own lives to live which comes with its own challenges). How I wished there was a call center you could call into and report how life has been unfair to you, you get a ticket number and they call you back/send you an email once they have rectified the unfairness done to you by life😁. It was up to me to decide what were the next steps I wanted to take (do I wallow in my self pity about the unfortunate things that have happened to me or do I accept they happen and move on?, I chose the latter). I started using them as fuel for my successmobile😜. Into ikuwe(it's up to you), you can either choose to rise above what life throws at you and ride it out or you can choose to let it railroad you into a life of unhappiness with constant regrets which creates a bitter hateful heart. Again this is a process( it requires time and patience with one's self) you don't just wake up and everything is clear as day, you work through things in your own way until you see a way out that works for you (it's not a one size fits all situation).
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