06/22/2026
"We will never be abstinent from compulsive overeating as long as we just "Talk about It". We will forever sit on the sidelines and long for what others have, feeling flawed and inadequate ourselves! Abstinence is an ACTION. To have what "they" have, we have to be WILLING. We have to reach out. We have to ACCEPT. We have to find out, and do, what "they" did. And if we see someone drowning in our midst, too overwhelmed by life to utter the word, HELP, we can throw out the lifeline.
Does abstinence come overnight?? For some, yes; but for many of us gaining it is a process."
--Abstinence, page 71