09/01/2026
Letโs talk about being a TNR volunteer without being pushy.
First and foremost, if someone isn't interested in TNR, ๐ฃ๐ฆ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ฑ๐ถ๐ด๐ฉ๐บ ๐ช๐ด๐ฏ'๐ต ๐จ๐ฐ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ค๐ฉ๐ข๐ฏ๐จ๐ฆ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ช๐ณ ๐ฎ๐ช๐ฏ๐ฅ. Sometimes, no amount of explaining, persuading, or educating will change someone's position. ๐ซ Unless there is a way to trap the cats from an adjoining property where you have permission, there are times when you simply have to move on.
But sometimes, not pushing is exactly what allows someone to eventually come around and here's a successful example for you... ๐๐๐
In the summer of 2020, we trapped at a location where there were 5๏ธโฃ cats. On our first attempt, we caught 2๏ธโฃ of them. After we released those two, we were told by the property owner that she didn't want us to trap anymore cats there. We respected her wishes, but we had a plan. Muwhahaha!
She was on a fixed income so we continued our visits to bring her food donations. We didn't lecture her. We didn't pressure her. We simply stayed present. Then, naturally... this conversation happened!
Me: How are your kitties doing?
Her: They are doing really, really good. I didnโt see them for about a week and I thought they werenโt coming back or that maybe they had gone off somewhere to die, but you know what? They both came back and they eat here everyday.
Me: Aw, thatโs great!
Her: And you know what else? The male one you caught, you know, the black and white fluffy one? He used to leave all the time and now he always stays right out front on the porch. He used to fight with that big yellow cat and now he donโt pay him no mind.
Me: So, is it okay if we come back and get the rest of them?
Her: Yes, thatโll be fine. You know, it gets lonesome here sometimes and when the weather is nice I like to sit on the front porch with them.
Me: Iโm so glad they have you and you have them.
TNR advocacy is sometimes about planting a seed. ๐๐ค๐ข๐๐ฉ๐๐ข๐๐จ ๐๐ฉ'๐จ ๐๐๐ค๐ช๐ฉ ๐๐๐ซ๐๐ฃ๐ ๐จ๐ค๐ข๐๐ค๐ฃ๐ ๐ฉ๐๐ ๐ค๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ค๐ง๐ฉ๐ช๐ฃ๐๐ฉ๐ฎ ๐ฉ๐ค ๐จ๐๐ ๐ฉ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ง๐๐ฃ๐๐ ๐๐ค๐ง ๐ฉ๐๐๐ข๐จ๐๐ก๐ซ๐๐จ.