01/03/2022
A question for those who attended the B&B...
We had a new mechanism this year around dance cards. The ladies did not necessarily know who stewarded their dance cards. The change was intended to give a certain value and to create a mechanism to avoid a possible harm. However, I've heard from some ladies, my wife included, that they get a lot of value from knowing who took on the mantle to care for them. She wishes to have the opportunity to honor the man who stewarded her card, and to thank him.
On the other hand, I'm a believer in not shifting a commitment once given. The gentlemen were told that they do not have to tell the ladies who they stewarded, or may do so on their own time in their own way. I would not want them to have that set up, and create a situation which pressures them into changing a plan they made, presumably with some degree of intention.
So with that preamble complete, here's the question to the Ladies. If you don't know who stewarded your card, do you want to? Is it important to you? - (Please Reply Below, whatever your answer.)
Understand that the man may have a good reason not to, but I'd like to make a way for him to know, without tipping his hand. Your answer on this post could help both men, women, and future ball planners. Thank you.
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Zach Stambaugh
