06/11/2026
How can you spot a Vindictive Narcissist?
⭐️Easily offended, unless the are the offender, then it is okay.
⭐️They hold grudges and harbor resentment, until the time is right to get even, or make you pay for what you said or did.
⭐️They are usually angry or upset with someone.
⭐️They blame everything on someone else, they never take responsibility, even if they are responsible.
⭐️They don't know how to work through conflict. It is their way or no way and then you are punished.
⭐️They have a "get even" mentality. Whatever it takes, they will do it.
Once they have enough power, status, or ego, public or private, the mask they wear slips more and more. Victims become more accepting of this behavior as the narcissist conditions you to accept it through different stages of abuse patterns.
⭐️They are liars.
⭐️They weaponize Information, for their benefit and to get the attention they need to be number one.
⭐️They belittle others to feel bigger. Name calling, insults, digs.
⭐️They have a mean, cruel and sadistic side.
⭐️They use, abuse, and then discard people. When you are no longer needed or beneficial to the relationship, whatever relationship it may be, you get tossed aside. Hopefully unharmed or lucky enough to escape first.
If any of this resonates, reach out to a professional. There are many types of therapies that help abuse survivors. Mindfulness and meditation can lead to awareness of ourselves, our environment and situations that once baffled us. Open hearts, leads to open minds, open minds lead to freedom.
Mindfulness With Miss Lisa
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