06/23/2026
Happy Tuesday, Farm Friends.
I have a confession to make.
I am a little obsessed with this donkey.
Every morning, Clementine is one of the first faces I look for. Those ears are over 13 inches long and somehow manage to communicate an entire conversation before I’ve even had my coffee. If you know her, you know exactly what I mean. She talks with those ears.
Over the last year, many of you have met Clementine through our Equine Assisted Learning programs. She’s spent time with all kinds of humans, and one of the things I love most about her is that she teaches without trying.
Spend a few minutes grooming her and she’ll teach patience. Take her for a walk and she’ll teach focus. Show up distracted and she’ll notice. Show up present and she’ll notice that too.
When Clementine arrived here, she carried a lot of history with her. She had spent years with her bonded sister and experienced significant grief after losing her. When she came to Madison Grove Farm, we decided not to choose her herd for her.
Instead, we gave her time.
For much of her stay, Clementine lived in a paddock near the main barn. From there she could watch the daily rhythm of the farm, meet the horses, donkeys, mules, dogs, volunteers, and visitors, and decide for herself who she wanted to spend time with. We weren’t in a hurry. After everything she’d been through, it felt important to let her settle in at her own pace.
Over last year, she spent time with the horses, mules, donkeys, and minis. She became a trusted friend to Abbie while Abbie was here. She learned our dogs weren’t nearly as scary as she first thought. She explored the farm during liberty time and built relationships with humans and animals alike.
Eventually, she made her choice and settled in with the mini herd.
Not just the miniature horses, but the miniature donkeys too. In particular, she seems to have become smitten with our teeny tiny donkey, Hugo. Watching the two of them together, you’d think he was her baby. He absolutely adores her, and she seems pretty fond of him too.
We know donkeys form deep social bonds, and we see every day how important choice can be.
Standing out there watching Clementine these days, I don’t need anyone to tell me how she’s doing. She greets me every morning, spends her days helping humans learn, and then heads back to Hugo, the minis, and the little herd she chose for herself.
She looks settled, comfortable, and at home.
After everything she’s been through, that’s exactly what I hoped for her.
With gratitude,
Marla and the herd