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08/07/2018

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12/28/2017

As the brrrr....cold season is here Charleston's homeless are in need of warm shelter please help us to help others on your behalf. make a donation of any amount to offset operating expenses. We at Nailah's House, Shelter wishing you a Happy New Year 2018

We are campaigning to raise funding for our newly created residential transitional housing shelter. Our organization is named Nailah’s House Shelter. We work with individuals for a six-month period to acquire safe decent housing, obtain maintain employment, assist individual to apply for quali...

05/19/2017

TRAUMATIC 4

Trauma-Informed Approach to Care
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Trauma-Informed care approach would include a psychologist an social worker, along with a host of other concerned practices, doctors, social workers, spiritual profession, along with the utilization of person now called trauma-survivors that can give articulation from lesson learned regarding a person’s ultimate behavioral health and wellness, in addition to other settings that have the potential to ease or exacerbate an individual’s capacity to cope with a traumatic experience, a desired goal is to build a framework that helps systems “talk” to each other to understand better the connections between trauma and behavioral health issue.

My traumatic experiences which started early in life, continued from a childhood,adolescent,way into my adult life, not knowing how I was supposed to live a happy life going forward, I had not really understand the weekly meeting in the group home with the psychologist and social worker at the age of (9)for a period of a year, My family never attended any of those meeting, reasons could had been because they lived so far away, my mother was a single parent with the responsibilities to raise (7)of my brother and sisters. But I do remember the group home would arrange for my visit home once during the whole time I spent there.
The behavioral health systems are better at acknowledging a person stressful situation, and or their environment from which they came from, Trauma-informed care approach seeks to resist re-traumatization of a person or staff that often inadvertently create stressful or toxic environment’s that interfere with a person recovery, the well-being staff and the fulfillment of the treating organizational mission. Staffs who work within a trauma-informed environment are taught how to recognize ways to treat situations that may trigger painful memories and re-traumatize people with trauma histories. This approach to care has grown from keeping families hush-hush secrets and the unavailability to talk through traumatic situations, or what to do to cope and move on with your life.

A big instance that played an important part in my life is the spirituality aspect that co-exist with recovery from a traumatic life experiences often time the guilt and the shame would beset me to think, that I’m less worthy to be loved, or the feeling of inadequacies too give of myself and not to be self-center in a relationship, as I continue on to my young adulthood life looking, longing for what was missing in my life I so desperately desired a family, my family where I would give love and received the love back. But life has different venues of paths we travel down also known as trial and tribulations; this life occurrence in itself could be very traumatic, for those who are believers knows to hold to his hand God’s of unchanging hand, and that if you believe, it won’t always be like the traumatic hard times, he’s perfecting things that concerns in you and sooner or later it will turn in your favor, if you just hold on an keep the faith

My new family would never experience what I did growing up the physical, sexual abuse that partial robbed me of a good sense of self-worth and self-confidents, although I stumbled and felled in numerous attempts to fulfill a self-less need, and to learn not to return to self-centeredness behaviors just to satisfy my needs, there was really no know one I could really talk to about my deepest secrects,for without fear of rejections, Trauma-Informed Approach focus on six key principles; safety, trustworthiness and transparency, peer support, collaboration and mutuality,empowerment,voice and choice,cultural,historical,and gender issues
How does a person begin to open up and share a life traumatizing event?
Where does a person begin?
If you’re already in treatment for traumatic issues and concerns and have develop an good rapport with the organization who is providing you care of services, start to become open and honest with yourself, it won’t be easy because of fear factory’s, remember the end result is to live a life whereby you have develop new coping skills, to be able to move on with your life.
In closing of this post please submit any comments to the questions that might be able to help someone going through a traumatic event; because sharing is also a good remedy to learn new coping skills.

04/30/2017

TRAUMATIC


Concept of Trauma

Desiring a concept that could be shared among the many constituencies groups, practitioners, researchers and trauma survivors have all agreed that individual trauma results from an event, series of events, or set of circumstances that is experienced by an individual as physically or emotionally harmful or life threatening and that has lasting adverse effects on the individual’s functioning and mental, physical, social emotional, or spiritual well-being
Most times trauma is not known to an individual who has been going through, just enough to survive, thinking hoping will the pain ever end? For me dark times has been the times that I felt no one cared or would you imagine me, as a trauma survivor, even I myself did not know I was a survivor of traumatic life experiences, which had me uneducated that there was help for easing my feeling of shame, low self-esteem, and self-worth, I managed to complete high school upon spending several years in a group home for emotionally disturb youth, even the tag has stigma written all over it, after leaving the group home setting at age (14)I had the responsibility to help my mother raise my four brothers and sisters.
Could you imagined my situation, I believe my traumatic life started at the age (5) my first traumatic experience was when I was hit by a car while racing across the street with a friend to the neighborhood park, the incident placed me in a coma, for six months but thank God, had it not been that the accident happen in front of our family Pastor, home and how he came visit me hospital which seem like everyday, he prayed me out of the coma, words could not express my gratitude for him having an unshakable faith, with head injuries so sever I slept in a baby’s crib until age (6),and another two year without the ability to talk, but when I started again talking, my next incident with trauma was the physical abuse from my father, who beat me untiled I bled, I still bear the lingering scares on my body today, also being sexually molested by a family member. These instance of trauma, are still hurtful to talk about, but if it had not been for the Lord on my side, I could have been the one who wanted to take his life, but God, is a healer, delivered, and his son Jesus, told me he love me, while the times I was locked up in seclusion rooms, or in prison, I know the power of God, and the sacrifice of his only begotten son Jesus, he love me, I’m writing to start a dialogue to share story’s on how it’s possible to overcome, from brokenness, console a wounded spirit, have victory even in the midst of the storm, more importantly to let others know they are not alone, Please leave comments

03/12/2017

To God be the glory, for allowing me to explore my destiny and seek my expected end, I've experienced a share of trials and tribulation as a person of color growing up amidst chaos, dysfunction of a traumatic childhood which lead to bringing unaddressed baggage into adulthood, but through God’s grace and mercy, I've overcome the adversity’s, and have accomplish very meaningful testaments thus far in my life, I'm starting this blog to share information with others on how to improve your self-esteem, self-worth, and self-confidences, understand their destiny and expected end for their service to the lord, learn new thoughts toward the improvement of new behaviors all the while loving the skin you’re in, Upon research of information related to people of color trauma experience from childhood to young adulthood , to my surprise very little information and research has been done oppose to their school years and having the unaddressed baggage carried to their adulthood, wrecking many issues and situations for the lack of un understanding, lack of what could be appropriate coping skills.

03/12/2017

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To God be the glory, for allowing me to explore my destiny and seek my expected end, I've experienced a share of trials and tribulation as a person of color growing up amidst chaos, dysfunction of a traumatic childhood which lead to bringing unaddressed baggage into adulthood, but through God’s grace and mercy, I've overcome the adversity’s, and have accomplish very meaningful testaments thus far in my life, I'm starting this blog to share information with others on how to improve your self-esteem, self-worth, and self-confidences, understand their destiny and expected end for their service to the lord, learn new thoughts toward the improvement of new behaviors all the while loving the skin you’re in, Upon research of information related to people of color trauma experience from childhood to young adulthood , to my surprise very little information and research has been done oppose to their school years and having the unaddressed baggage carried to their adulthood, wrecking many issues and situations for the lack of un understanding, lack of what could be appropriate coping skills.

The need to address trauma is increasingly viewed as an important component of effective behavioral health service delivery, although many people who experience a traumatic event will go on with their lives without lasting negative effects, others will have more difficulty and experience traumatic s...

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If you don't design your own life plan chances are you'll fall into someone else life plan, And guess what they planned for you, NOT MUCH

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