06/03/2026
Mourning, Autism, and Supporting Our Loved Ones Through Grief
HAACO Ontario would like to ask our parent community, supporters, and friends to please keep our Founder and Director, Susel Munoz, and her family in your thoughts and prayers as they mourn the loss of their beloved dog, Rockie.
For many families, pets are much more than animals—they are companions, confidants, and cherished members of the family. The loss of a beloved pet can be a deeply painful experience, especially for children and youth who have formed strong emotional bonds with them.
As an organization that advocates for autistic individuals and their families, we also want to acknowledge an important conversation about grief and mourning within the autism community.
Everyone mourns differently, and being autistic does not change the fact that a person experiences love, attachment, loss, and grief. However, grief may be expressed in different ways. Some individuals on the spectrum may openly cry and express sadness, while others may become quiet, seek additional comfort from loved ones, ask repetitive questions, withdraw, display changes in routine, or process their emotions in ways that may not be immediately recognizable to others.
It is important for parents, caregivers, educators, and family members to have honest, age-appropriate conversations about death, loss, and grief with autistic children and youth. Clear and direct language is often helpful. Creating a safe environment where questions can be asked, emotions can be expressed, and memories can be shared allows individuals to process loss in a way that feels meaningful to them.
There is no "right" way to grieve. Grief is personal. It can look different from one person to another, and it can be especially unique for individuals on the autism spectrum. What matters most is providing understanding, patience, reassurance, and support throughout the process.
Today, we honour the memory of Rockie and recognize the impact that beloved pets have on the lives of the families who love them. We also stand with all families who are helping their children and loved ones navigate the complex emotions that accompany loss.
From all of us at HAACO Ontario, thank you for your prayers, kindness, and support during this difficult time.
In loving memory of Rockie.Forever loved. Forever remembered.🐾