Stillpoint Family Resources

Stillpoint Family Resources CHANGING LIVES, STRENGTHENING FAMILIES, SHAPING CULTURE by empowering special needs people.

Dr. Ross Porter founded Stillpoint Family Resources in 1998, in response to the gratitude he felt for God's gift of a son who has Down syndrome, but also in concern for the many families who fall into crisis because of the birth of a special needs child. upwards of 85% of couple with special needs child divorce, and Dr. Porter believed that his organization could help decrease those numbers. But m

arriages are not the only part of the family system that needs support. Siblings, grandparents, and other extended family members need to be embraced as well. Since then, Dr. Porter and his staff have dedicated much time, work, and care toward empowering special needs people and those who love them, through enrichment programs, advocacy, books and blogs, and podcasts. To learn more about Stillpoint’s work, please go to:
www.StillpointFamilyResources.org

I was a big fan of Dolly, the person. What a generous soul. May she rest in peace, and rise in glory.❤️
08/26/2026

I was a big fan of Dolly, the person. What a generous soul. May she rest in peace, and rise in glory.❤️

On this date in 1619, the first documented enslaved Africans arrived in what would become the United States.  They were ...
08/20/2026

On this date in 1619, the first documented enslaved Africans arrived in what would become the United States. They were on a pirate ship named the White Lion, and docked at Point Comfort, Virginia. The 20 men, women, and children had been taken from Angola, and were traded to the Governor for food.
And Jesus wept.💔

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“On July 31, 1968, a young, black man was reading the newspaper when he saw something that he had never seen before. He ...
07/31/2026

“On July 31, 1968, a young, black man was reading the newspaper when he saw something that he had never seen before. He started running throughout the house, calling for his mom. He would show his mom, and, she would gasp, seeing something she thought she would never see in her lifetime.

What they saw was Franklin Armstrong's first appearance on the iconic comic strip "Peanuts." Franklin would be 50 years old this year.

Franklin was "born" after a school teacher, Harriet Glickman, had written a letter to creator Charles M. Schulz after Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. was shot to death outside his Memphis hotel room.

Glickman, who had kids of her own and having worked with kids, was especially aware of the power of comics among the young. “And my feeling at the time was that I realized that black kids and white kids never saw themselves [depicted] together in the classroom,” she would say.

She would write, “Since the death of Martin Luther King, 'I’ve been asking myself what I can do to help change those conditions in our society which led to the assassination and which contribute to the vast sea of misunderstanding, hate, fear and violence.'”

Glickman asked Schulz if he could consider adding a black character to his popular comic strip, which she hoped would bring the country together and show people of color that they are not excluded from American society.

She had written to others as well, but the others feared it was too soon, that it may be costly to their careers, that the syndicate would drop them if they dared do something like that.

Charles Schulz did not have to respond to her letter, he could have just completely ignored it, and everyone would have forgotten about it. But, Schulz did take the time to respond, saying he was intrigued with the idea, but wasn't sure whether it would be right, coming from him, he didn't want to make matters worse, he felt that it may sound condescending to people of color.

Glickman did not give up, and continued communicating with Schulz, with Schulz surprisingly responding each time. She would even have black friends write to Schulz and explain to him what it would mean to them and gave him some suggestions on how to introduce such a character without offending anyone. This conversation would continue until one day, Schulz would tell Glickman to check her newspaper on July 31, 1968.

On that date, the cartoon, as created by Schulz, shows Charlie Brown meeting a new character, named Franklin. Other than his color, Franklin was just an ordinary kid who befriends and helps Charlie Brown. Franklin also mentions that his father was "over at Vietnam." At the end of the series, which lasted three strips, Charlie invites Franklin to spend the night one day so they can continue their friendship. [The original comic strip of Charlie Brown meeting Franklin is attached in the initial comments below, the picture attached here is Franklin meeting the rest of the Peanuts, including Linus. I just thought this was a good re-introduction of Franklin to the rest of the world - "I'm very glad to know you."

There was no big announcement, there was no big deal, it was just a natural conversation between two kids, whose obvious differences did not matter to them. And, the fact that Franklin's father was fighting for this country was also a very strong statement by Schulz.

Although Schulz never made a big deal over the inclusion of Franklin, there were many fans, especially in the South, who were very upset by it and that made national news. One Southern editor even said, “I don’t mind you having a black character, but please don’t show them in school together.”

It would eventually lead to a conversation between Schulz and the president of the comic's distribution company, who was concerned about the introduction of Franklin and how it might affect Schulz' popularity. Many newspapers during that time had threatened to cut the strip.

Schulz' response: "I remember telling Larry at the time about Franklin -- he wanted me to change it, and we talked about it for a long while on the phone, and I finally sighed and said, "Well, Larry, let's put it this way: Either you print it just the way I draw it or I quit. How's that?"

Eventually, Franklin became a regular character in the comic strips, and, despite complaints, Franklin would be shown sitting in front of Peppermint Patty at school and playing center field on her baseball team.

More recently, Franklin is brought up on social media around Thanksgiving time, when the animated 1973 special "A Charlie Brown Thanksgiving" appears. Some people have blamed Schulz for showing Franklin sitting alone on the Thanksgiving table, while the other characters sit across him. But, Schulz did not have the same control over the animated cartoon on a television network that he did on his own comic strip in the newspapers.

But, he did have control over his own comic strip, and, he courageously decided to make a statement because of one brave school teacher who decided to ask a simple question.

Glickman would explain later that her parents were "concerned about others, and the values that they instilled in us about caring for and appreciating everyone of all colors and backgrounds — this is what we knew when we were growing up, that you cared about other people . . . And so, during the years, we were very aware of the issues of racism and civil rights in this country [when] black people had to sit at the back of the bus, black people couldn’t sit in the same seats in the restaurants that you could sit . . . Every day I would see, or read, about black children trying to get into school and seeing crowds of white people standing around spitting at them or yelling at them . . . and the beatings and the dogs and the hosings and the courage of so many people in that time."

Because of Glickman, because of Schulz, people around the world were introduced to a little boy named Franklin.”

Another of my Heroes You Should Know:  Kate MungerWhen asked about how the Threshold Choir came to be, Kate Munger first...
07/29/2026

Another of my Heroes You Should Know: Kate Munger

When asked about how the Threshold Choir came to be, Kate Munger first recalled a happy childhood, where her loving mother would often sing lullabies to her and her four siblings each night at bedtime, and to campfire songs with her fellow Girl Scouts as an eight year-old. But as its name reveals, the Threshold Choir is about more than happy times. And Kate remembers facing down her own fears by singing for the first time at the bedside of a dear friend who was dying of AIDS. That was in 1990.

In March of 2000, Kate gathered fifteen friends at a home in El Cerrito, California---fifteen women who believed that for too long our society had distanced itself from the reality of suffering and death, and that compassion should have a voice.

And the first Threshold Choir was born.

Within a year Kate had founded chapters, always made up of volunteers, in Marin, San Francisco, Santa Cruz, and Sonoma Counties. And today there is a network of over 125 a ca****la Threshold Choirs---connected typically though the internet and consisting mostly of women’s voices---comforting those at the threshold of time and eternity in the United States, Canada, Australia, and Cambodia. Their mission is simple, and profound.

“…To sing for and with those at the thresholds of life.”

The word ‘threshold’ is associated with crossing over or passing through, but Kate also chose the word because the threshold is the place through which one passes from outside to inside---to join with others.

Threshold Choirs sing to those in a coma, and those who are dying. But they also sing to newborns and children in hospitals, and women who are incarcerated. Whether it be the beautiful voices, the songs, or the gift of presence, the fruit of this work is peace and love.

The Threshold Choir’s repertoire consists of some 400 songs, and includes everything from spirituals and hymns to lullabies and soft pop songs that are fifty, sixty and seventy years-old. They can even work in an occasional Beatles ballad or a less raucous version of “Take Me Out To The Ballgame” if there’s an interest. Kate reports that family members and friends will often join in.

“We like to think of our work as kindness made audible.”

Making kindness audible---“So shines a good deed in a weary world.”

Kate Munger is a hero you should know.

Another of my Heroes You Should Know:  Christian de ChergeFr. Christian de Cherge was the Prior of the Monastery of Our ...
07/21/2026

Another of my Heroes You Should Know: Christian de Cherge

Fr. Christian de Cherge was the Prior of the Monastery of Our Lady of Atlas, and his tragic martyrdom was presented in the movie Of Gods and Men.

But he is a hero for how he lived, not how he died.

Born into a French military family, Christian first met Islam when he was five and his family was stationed in Algeria. He was moved by the prayer life of the Muslims around him, and his mother taught him to respect their search for God.

As a twenty-three year old seminarian, de Cherge returned to Algeria in 1959 to complete his compulsory military service. Technically a French soldier fighting against the Algerians, Christian formed an unlikely friendship with a Muslim police officer named Mohamed, a father of ten. They would take long walks together and discuss religion, politics, and life. But on one of these walks the two men were ambushed by Algerian rebels. De Cherge, dressed in his military fatigues, would have been killed on the spot but for Mohamed interceding and convincing the men to let the young Frenchman go free. “I will pray for you,” was all de Cherge could say to his friend. The next morning Mohamed was murdered for what he’d done.

From then on, Christian committed himself to peacemaking in Algeria. He was a brilliant student, and the hierarchy had him pegged as a rising star in the Church. But Christian wanted the lonely desert of Algeria, not Paris. After ordination, he studied Arabic, Islam, and the Quran, and eventually had his request to return to Africa granted in 1971.

There, in Tibhirine, Algeria, in the shadows of the Atlas Mountains, he would become the Prior of the Trappist monastery. For decades he and his fellow monks lived with their Muslim neighbors in peace. His form of evangelism was to offer the locals employment, medical care, and literacy tutoring. De Cherge also organized an annual interfaith conference to foster Muslim-Christian dialogue, and even invited Muslims to stay at the monastery as his special guests.

But as the relationship between the Christian monks and the Muslim community grew, the radical Islamist group GIA became more agitated. Several times Fr. Christian and his monks were advised to leave, but after prayer and reflection they decided to stay as witnesses to the reality of the peaceful Christian-Muslim co-existence that had been established.

Just after midnight on March 27, 1996 twenty heavily armed GIA soldiers broke into the monastery and took seven of the monks, including Fr. Christian, hostage. One month later, after the French had refused to negotiate, the extremists released a letter stating that they had beheaded the monks.

After news of her son’s fate reached Christian’s mother, she opened a letter he’d given her two years earlier, “to be opened in the event of my death”. In it, he predicted that he would die at the hands of extremists, and then closed his letter by addressing his ‘friend of the last moment”—his murderer:

“…Yes, I want this thank you and this good-bye to be a ‘God Bless’ for you, too, because in God’s face I see yours. May we meet again as happy thieves in Paradise, if it pleases God, the Father of us both.”

The cause for Fr. Christian de Cherge’s beatification has been opened. He is a saint for our troubled times; a true peacemaker who loved beyond human limits.

Christian de Cherge is a hero you should know.

I love this picture of the great Charles de Gaulle at the beach with his beautiful daughter Anne. I know this look. 💙💛
07/18/2026

I love this picture of the great Charles de Gaulle at the beach with his beautiful daughter Anne.
I know this look. 💙💛

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