06/19/2026
Some history on how children’s grief programs got started…
Happy birthday to Dougy Center Founder, Bev Chappell!
Dougy Center’s roots began when Elisabeth Kübler-Ross asked Bev to check in on a boy named Dougy who was sent to OHSU, a hospital in Portland, for treatment for an inoperable brain tumor. Bev and her husband Allan, a pediatrician, had become friends with Elisabeth after attending her lectures.
At age 13, Dougy started corresponding with Elisabeth, knowing she was a key person in the dying and death field. He wanted to know why people wouldn’t talk to him about the fact that he was dying. In his brief time at OHSU, he made an indelible mark with staff and kids his age, encouraging them to share their hopes, dreams, and fears.
Their time with Dougy inspired Bev and Allan to open their home to families who were anticipating the death of a family member, or who had a family member die. From that first small meeting in their home in 1981, Dougy Center has grown into the leading U.S. peer grief support center in the field, with more than 500 programs across the country and around the world based on The Dougy Center Model.
We truly appreciate all Bev has done for grieving children and families!