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Agoraphobic 16-28yr, followed by 44 yrs of Panic disorder.

Working to help sufferers of these horrific fears & disorders, I may not be able to help everyone to heal, but we can love them & try!

Hello, free info. from near healed 44yr. Agoraphobia sufferer, living to help others find truths to help with their batt...
09/22/2026

Hello, free info. from near healed 44yr. Agoraphobia sufferer, living to help others find truths to help with their battles, please feel free to copy & share any info. from the pages that you would like. as this is free for everyone, I truly hope it helps

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09/16/2026

Many of the symptoms during “no known reason” or “Adrenaline Fueled Nervous System Disruptions” are from a powerful rush of Adrenaline, trying to protect the body, after a “perceived” threat, that the brain received, from some negative thoughts, about basically harmless feelings e.g. dizziness, rapid heart rate, hot flash, shaking etc. These sudden feelings caused a thought of a threat; of fainting, insanity, death etal. & this led to the stress hormone release, which magnified all the symptoms/ feelings beyond belief, as it routed more blood to the muscles, raised the pulse & BP, changed breathing & body temp, while causing shaking, trembling etc. all of which are normal, harmless feelings, that can be controlled with Structured Breathing & Grounding techniques, as long as this is one of the Adrenaline induced disruptions, disrupting Tens of millions of lives worldwide.
Of course you will need to have been seen by your Dr., to rule out the possibility that there is not a deeper medical condition causing the anxiety e.g. Thyroid, Cardiac etal. before following the Adrenaline fueled disruptions, healing process.
Grounding refocuses & quiets the brains fear center, allowing rational thinking to see that you are actually safe & works by shifting your focus away from negative distressing thoughts & bringing your mind, body & thoughts to the safe, physical present now moment, outside your head & its lying thoughts, as your mind cannot be doing positive intervention outside your head & creating negative thoughts & fears inside your mind at the same time.
The Structured Breathing is extremely important to start using daily, as it helps to balance chemicals & to calm the mind, letting it know that you are safe, so that it can learn to stop the Adrenaline dumps, when unneeded, reducing the fight/ flight response & increasing overall health.
So, Breath in deeply, slowly, through your nose, into your stomach, not chest, to a count of 4, hold for a count of 4, breathe out slowly through pursed lips to a count of 6, count to 4, repeat.
There are many good Grounding Techniques, one of which is a 5-1 senses test. Name 5 things you see, then touch & name 4 things you can touch, close eyes & name 3 things you can hear, then 2 things you can smell, then try 1 thing you can taste, something sour, or spicy works best, to bring your mind into the here & now & out of the “what ifs” in your head.
Grounding Techniques can be mental, physical, sensory & whatever can get your thoughts out of your head, while placing the full focus on things you can see, touch, hear, smell, taste, like hold an ice cube in each hand & think about the feeling, or putting cold water on the face, or hands in cold then warm water, paying attention to the feelings. Math problems work good; Count backwards from a hundred by 7’s, or? Start multiplying in your head 2x2 is 4, 2x3 is 6 etc. name items & colors around you e.g. I see a blue box, a red shirt etc. Try humming “HMMMMMMMM” stimulating the Vagus nerve. Pick up something & think about its weight, texture, density, what is good for? The object is just keep thinking about things outside of your head & seeing & thinking about all the things around you that you normally wouldn’t notice & keep it up, especially when feeling some nervous system disruption coming on.
Of course movement & exercise of any kind is always a plus in reducing Adrenaline.
Practice grounding often to prevent stress from building & to improve an overall sense of wellbeing. Blessings To All, a recovering 44 year sufferer of .

09/13/2026

Unhappy today? Satan wants people to believe they are unhappy due to what is going on around them, but the truth is they're unhappy due to what is going on inside them, you must face the truth that it’s the things that you choose to think about & believe, that make you unhappy or not, so it's actually your choice of which thoughts you choose to entertain that are making you unhappy, or stressed, or depressed etc.
You need to spend some time “thinking about what you're thinking about” & make some needed adjustments to Philippians 4:8 The things that are true, honest, just, pure, worthy of love, of good report, if there be any virtue, or any praise, think on these things. So quash or throw out all thoughts that don’t make you, your best you, don’t give them power over you.

09/09/2026

When fear tries to take over, remember that you are safe & you are not alone, as if what you’re feeling is from an “Adrenaline fueled sudden onset nervous system disruption” that set off the fight/ flight response, there are tens of millions who are feeling & who have felt the same exact thing, that you are feeling. Now though this intense feeling is beyond scary, it is not dangerous, is not abnormal & is controllable & it will pass, with proper breathing techniques. So take a long deep slow breath in, through the nose into stomach, not chest & a long slow breathe out through pursed lips. Try a grounding tech., start naming & thinking about things you can see & things nearby that you can touch, to bring the focus back to the present, as you cannot think inside your head, where the scary thoughts are & outside your head, where reality is, at the same time. Try counting backwards in your head from 100 by 7’s or? E.g. 100 minus 7 is 93 minus 7 is 86- 7 is? Etc. Numbers & math prob.’s make good grounding techniques, but anything that you can do to be thinking about things outside your head will help. If you have it really sour candy helps, as does an ice cube in your hands, or humming “MMMMMMMMMMM” which stimulates the Vagus nerve & parasympathetic nervous system for its calming hormones release can find out more on my free nonprofit You are not alone you are amazing website.

09/03/2026

Biggest problem of Panic Disorder is lack of info.
If the ones who prescribe all different kinds of pills for something they don’t understand & that may help short term?, or may hurt short, or long term, would fill the more important part of the need, more people WOULD be healed. So what is the primary need?
How about some info. on what possibly causes these feelings, for many? Like a misinterpretation, where the brain feels a normal bodily feeling, feels it is a threat & floods the body with stress hormones & prepares for fight or flight & causes most of the scary symptoms of fear, that are actually normal, non harmful feelings, for physically healthy persons.
What’s the probable primary cause? Like the flood of Adrenaline & Cortisol that causes racy heart & breathing, dizziness, sweating, shaking etc. for the fight/ flight mode, for a threat that doesn’t exist, which causes “what if” thoughts to start flooding the brain?
So what could be done to get out of the scary fight/flight mode quicker, other than pills? There is no magic pill! But the body releases calming hormones, that the sensitive nervous system needs help with, through relaxation, for them to work best, which is done via proper slow deep belly breathing, through the nose, slowly breathed out & grounding techniques, to take you out of your head & all the crazy thoughts & ground you back to the here & now, as you cannot concentrate on safe things here & unsafe scary thoughts in your head at the same time. Grounding is thinking about things that you can see, hear, touch, smell, taste etc. e.g. Quietly name 5 things you see, name & touch 4 things, name 3 things you are hearing, 2 things you smell & 1 that you taste, which sour candy helps the brain with this too. If you can shake out your arms, tense & release muscles & or do some quick exercise movements, it will help to burn of residual adrenaline.
What about explaining that all the scary symptoms, that stop us dead in our tracks, are actually all very normal nonharmful feelings, with logical explanations of why they are doing what they’re doing & how to help relieve them. These feelings include shaking, can’t breathe feeling, hot flashes & cold skin, chest pain, tunnel vision, bathroom issue, nausea etc. & as an e.g. on 1 that always scared me the worst “Tunnel vision” which Tunnel vision happens, as the body’s survival response (stress hormone release) dilates pupils to let in more light, to spot threats quickly, so the brain can focus on the (perceived) threat. The brain narrows visual processing, to the center, cutting off peripheral vision (side), so you can lock onto danger. So you can see this is not as bad as we may think & we can use relaxing techniques, breathing & grounding, while informing the brain that this is a normal, helpful, response that will not harm us & will end quickly.
So the point here is that Agoraphobia can be overtaken with education, understanding, a lot of baby steps through exposure, while grounding oneself. The worst fear for me was lack of knowing & understanding what this was, what was it going to do to me? Was there any way to battle it? & believing that it was a mental illness, from a “chemical imbalance”, to which there is not one Psych. In the world who can show any proof that there’s any such thing as a brain chemical imbalance causing anxiety, or depression & that is fact, as it doesn’t exist & probably never will, as they know very little about inside the brain, which may make you wonder how they prescribe so many med’s to change the brain, when they cannot honestly tell you why, can only tell you what they were told & may even believe? Good luck & Blessings, I truly hope this helps someone & will have new post in a day or so. Mike; youarenotaloneyouareamazingcom which will be updating with lots of helpful info. soon, please freely print, copy, share any of my knowledge, posts, website, with all who are suffering so that we can get all the info. possible out there helping the 100 million people suffering daily with these issues.

08/29/2026

Feeling Stuck in Fight/ Flight mode is horrifying & exhausting, but it can be controlled, by you.
Unfortunately the longer we live with panic & not being taught what it really is & that we can learn to control it, the more stress our nervous system takes & without us knowing what to do, it can get stuck on high alert, which takes education, time & work, to calm it down.
If you feel exhausted, but anxious, like your heart is racing, even when sitting & feel constant muscle tension, as well as stomach, sleep & resting issues & if you often feel like something is going to happen to you, to the point that your jumpy & irritable & easily annoyed & have hard time with memory & focusing, then you need to learn how to start calming your nervous system down.
Plan on taking it slow & steady, as you learn that only you, can do this for you, there is no magical cure, only education, patience, work & a willingness to believe in & trust yourself again, as you can do this, with an I can attitude.
Fight/ flight mode is started when some feeling you are experiencing, is interpreted as a threat by the brain, which starts an Adrenaline dump into the system, to give you extra strength, by increasing heart rate & breathing & other normal symptoms of panic.
Now the nervous system also dumps calming hormones, to help once the threat has passed, but if your thoughts keep you stuck in a high anxious state, then they cannot do there job & the system stays in high anxiety mode.
So you have to help to get your nervous system calmed down, so that the calming hormones can work. Now once you get out of fight/flight mode, for many, the nervous system can still have that feeling of lingering tension which will take time to ease, but with calming & grounding techniques, worked on daily, you can achieve relaxation again.
Getting out of fight/ flight mode: The most important tool is your breathing. It must be belly breathing, not chest which causes hyperventilation. Breath in deep, slowly, through your nose to a count of 4, hold for a count of 4, breathe out slowly through pursed lips, to a count of 6, count to 4, repeat.
You also need good grounding techniques to get you out of your mind, by stopping the negative scary thoughts. There are many one of which has name 5 things you can see, 4 things you can touch, 3 things you can hear, 2 things you can smell, and 1 thing you can taste to bring your mind back to the present, which sour candy also helps with.
To lower heart rate quick, you can put your face into a bowl of ice water, or hold onto something cold, place it on face, neck etc., or try humming low “mmmm” which stimulates the vagus nerve in throat, to get nervous system to release calming hormones. Also yoga, exercise, eliminate caffiene, nicotene & alcohol are all good to help ease stress.
Above all keep positive, keep telling your brain “I can do this” as your brain listens to you & knows & eventually believes what you tell it, so if you keep saying I can’t, then you never will. Every single one of us tens of millions, has felt like they can’t, but that is a lie. If your goal is to back out in the world, then you have to take 1 step at a time to get out there, as there is no magic pill, or therapist that can do that for you. If you’re afraid to get started, then you get started afraid!
I will b back tomorrow with more relevent thoughts.

08/29/2026

Agoraphobia; one of the biggest life stealing liars out there, which will take time, patience, education & most importantly the force, which I will explain, too overcome. We have been battling one of the scariest things on earth & we’re still here, which is proof of how strong we are & you can beat this challenge. For many, whether you believe it or not, this debilitating power of fear comes from one’s own thoughts & feelings, from an adrenaline rush to protect the body, that was unneeded.
e.g. You feel a lil dizzy, or any physiological feeling (e.g. sweaty, shaky, fast heart or breaths) that you once felt during a threat, real or not & your brain views this as a threat & sends an alarm to release adrenaline & Cortisol into your system, which starts the fight/ flight response to prepare you to fight, or run. This hormone rush speeds up heart rate, to pump blood faster to get more oxygen & energy to muscles, breathing increases, to get more oxygen into body for quick action, senses increase, pupils dilate to take in more light to spot danger, non essentials like digestion slow, to focus all power on surviving & all this going on inside your nervous system to protect you from a threat, that is not there, which sets the thoughts into hyperdrive.
So your nervous system & body mistakenly detected a threat, from a feeling & sent in the armies, but nothing is there to fight, or run from, to burn up the hormones, which is where the false thoughts take over, “oh my god, I’m going to die” which fills another part of the brain with “a false fear, that is real” & terrorizes individuals.
There is no magic pill to end fear, recovery can only come from proper exposure, think about this sensibly, your goal is to go out & about & the only way you can learn to do this, is by doing it, but properly, with baby steps & your terms, as long as it includes taking a few steps forward.
So now, about the force, the one thing that must be part of your plan. You must stop saying I can’t, because you must “FORCE” yourself out that door. Pick the time of day that is most comfortable for you, talk to & reassure yourself, that of course you can do this, you’ve done it a great many times. Take a couple steps outside the door & just stand there, keeping your mind busy, check my grounding tech. post. Stay a couple minutes & if fear comes, that is good, stay right there grounding yourself until it passes & your calm, this is how your brain learns that it is safe. Keep doing this, until comfortable, then go 3’-5’ from the door, until the same happens, then go 8-10’ & so on, don’t rush it, don’t run from it, any fear that comes will calm in 3-20 minutes, then you get to go back inside. Again this priority 1, regardless of what your brain tells you, you can do it & yes I know how impossible it feels, I was full Agoraphobic 12 yrs & 44 years battling irrational fear, hourly.
I will cut off here & be posting tomorrow about being stuck in fight flight mode. Best wishes, I pray many take this to heart & give themselves this chance at healing.

08/27/2026

Mental grounding distracts your mind, redirecting thoughts e.g. memory games, categories, or talking, to help you refocus on the now. Think about & make a mental list of some favorite things; e.g. people, foods, bands, songs, movies, books, places etc. Eating something very sour, or spicy, helps ground you in the now, by taking your mind off of racing thoughts & stimulating the nervous system, to get you out of your head & back into your body. Thinking about math & numbers can be good for grounding. Count backward from 100 by 3’s, or?. Try this & figure it out for 30 days; If I gave you a penny today & doubled it every day for 30 days, e.g. 2 cents tomorrow, 4 cents the 3rd day, 8 cents the 4th, how much would I give you on the 30th day?

The main thing here is to start telling your brain that you absolutely can & are going to be doing exposure therapy. When your born, U can’t walk & U don’t start by running, baby steps get U 2 where U want 2 B. Don’t pay attention 2 feelings & thoughts that say U cant as they are liars, as yes U can with baby steps. If U want to go out, its not going to happen by hoping, wishing, praying, crying which arent bad things, but you have to add work & baby steps to them, while working on training your brain to know that you can do these things, just as you once did.

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