Widowed Carnivore

04/29/2026

Confession time!!!

I am 53 years old. I am a widow. I haven't dated since I was 17 years old. And I look at these hot young guys, not too young.

They're not 17.

They're not babies. I'm not doing that.

But I look at these guys who are probably in their 30s.

And I'm like, man, I would do him.

But then I come back, and I look at myself in the mirror, and I'm like, what the hell happened?

When did this happen?

Anyway, good confession.

04/29/2026

When Bill and I were dating, he once said he didn’t want me to end up as heavy as my mom. It wasn’t kind — but he was young.

Fast forward through many pounds and many years, he loved me completely. All 215lbs of me.

But I never did.

Since I was twelve, I’ve been on a diet. Never enough. Never quite willing to accept myself as I am.

I’ve grown so much since losing him. I love who I’ve become — what I’ve survived, what I’ve built, what I know now that I didn’t then.

But, I don’t accept myself completely. Not yet. Because when dating enters the picture, I’m not enough.

04/29/2026

Bram — 75 years old, widowed five months ago after 56 years of marriage — left this in the comments. He gave me permission to share it.

Why do we have so many rules?

Bram says:
“Because you feel guilty about something you should not feel guilty about.

Having s*x with and being in love with can be two different things.

S*x is healthy. Good for your brain and good for your heart.
It’s religion who tells you that you shouldn’t.

We personally lived every day and didn’t think about saving for when we retire. Sometimes we said to each other, that’s not smart.

My wife of 56 years is now gone for 5 months and I’m 75. So glad we didn’t save for later.

Right now I have a close female friend that I love — just not the same as I love my wife. She’s late fifties and we have a great time in and out the bedroom. Both no desire to move in. Just close friends with benefits.

Go ahead. You are on earth. No reason to live in misery.”

If you see this Bram, thank you!!

05/27/2024

I have never heard it explained this way.
https://www.facebook.com/watch/?v=1100153950916272

05/18/2024

Two years ago, I embarked on a diet so strict that even cavemen would say, “Dude, chill.” No grains, seeds, vegetables, fruits, processed foods, sugar, or beans.

So, what do I eat?
Eggs, goat butter, liver, steak, salt, pickle juice, coffee, and now raw milk. I just added raw milk a week ago, and let me tell you, I’m doing the happy dance like I just won the lottery.

Why?
Because my digestion is now running smoother than a well-oiled machine, inflammation is down like it’s been grounded, my brain is processing faster than my Wi-Fi (and that’s saying something), and my kidneys are throwing a party. Oh, and I lost 5 lbs in seven days.

Read more: https://meathealedme.com/2024/05/18/raw-milk-ancient-superfood-for-hormonal-balance-and-brain-health-because-why-not-drink-unfiltered-cow-juice/

05/03/2024

Hey all,

We had a lovely Carnivore coffee chat this morning and I thought I would start sharing the key takeaways. If you have any questions, please give me a shoutout.

1. Kelly is sharing her fat/protein calculator in our FB MeatHealedMe group and the carnivore app.
2. I will send out information about the book club on "The Source" by Dr. Tara Swart.
3. We discussed using iodine for energy. Dr. Brownstein’s videos are very informative.
4. Some of us use magnesium spray for cramps and sleep. However, my son and I are highly sensitive to it and have stopped using it. It causes neuropathy symptoms in both of us. For cramping, spray on multiple parts of your body to get the maximum effect.
5. Prepping and eating beforehand is key when going out.

I REALLY love our groups and look forward to seeing you on Tuesday! Look for the Zoom link on Monday. If you want to join our Sunday Night Chats, rsvp here. https://meathealedme.com/2024/01/08/sunday-night-carnivore-chats/

You know when all parts of you light up when you are doing something you love? That’s what happens on our Sunday night chats. We talk about how wonderful this way of life is, we share insight…

04/30/2024

04/25/2024

Eat the fat. Meat is your happy pill. Meathealedme.com

Proof: In 2014, researchers embarked on a groundbreaking investigation to explore the association between cholesterol levels and su***de mortality in Japanese women. Contrary to prevailing beliefs, the study uncovered a surprising correlation: higher serum total cholesterol levels were linked to a reduced risk of su***de mortality. This finding challenged long-held assumptions about the role of cholesterol in health outcomes and sparked a reevaluation of established paradigms.

🥩

04/19/2024

love, s*x, and carnivore

I miss it. The unconditional love. My late husband did not care about surface things. That I was overweight. That I was getting older. He accepted me. Loved me. Wanted me. Flaws and all.

He encouraged me to live, to sit in the sun and ground. He noticed when I needed to go to the beach and would take me to catch the sunrise. He scouted out places for us to explore—old, run-down places—because he knew I would love to photograph the falling signs and decrepit buildings.

He encouraged me wholeheartedly when I first started carnivore. He loved how light and carefree I quickly became. And, when I did not think I was losing weight, he noticed the differences.

Read more: https://meathealedme.com/2024/04/19/love-s*x-and-carnivore/

03/27/2024

What’s your morning routine today? Here’s mine so far 😉

✔️Lymph drainage
✔️Sauna
✔️Cold Shower
✔️Affirmations
✔️Morning time with Connor
✔️Hide go seek with Dude
✔️Dehydrating ribeyes
✔️Coffee and jerky
✔️Iodine, selenium, & fulvic acid

I still need to rebound, vacuum, brush Dude, talk to my attorney & start on taxes???, find a rec yoga class and hopefully play PB.