10/13/2025
IT IS WITH GREAT SADNESS THAT WE MUST REPORT THE PASSING OF THE FOUNDER OF OUR FOUNDATION. HE WILL BE GREATLY MISSED
Obituary Vincent P. Grimm 1937 t0 2025
Vince was born and raised in Pottstown Pa. After High school he entered the US Army at age 17 and was assigned to intelligence in Korea in 1957. After the army he held many jobs all the while studying engineering at the local library. He worked in developing thermo couplers for heating system and lighting for outdoor events. During this time he met his future husband Will Kratz. Togther they created a group called the XYZ club in the 1960s in Reading and produced and performed in many entertaining drag shows that the entire community enjoyed.
Vince and Will moved to Cape May County in the 1990s after having had a vacation home in Cape May Beach since 1964.. Vince became active in the GLBT group GABLES and was appointed its executive director, a post which he held until his passing. Vince spent 100’s of man-hours working to get Domestic Partnerships, Civil Unions and finally Same-Sex marriage in New Jersey. He supported many LGBT events and served on several boards. He also published the Rainbow Directory which encouraged gay tourism for
Cape May County. This publication received the Governors award for excellence.
Vince and his husband were world travelers having visited 72 countries. His second home became Hanoi,Vietnam where they saw a need and created NXQVW charity to help fatherless children in a village. The charity has helped over 200 students with their education and now is assisting the blind and orphans. Vince’s husband passed in 2017.
Vince’s last public event was the Ocean City Pride parade in May. He was made the Grand Marshall.
A celebration of his life will be celebrated later in the new year. Contributions to the charity can be made at the Nguyen Xuan Quynh vincewileducation foundation at PO Box 205, Villas, NJ 08251 or on the website NXQVW.org