08/29/2026
Your value is not determined by the way you look, how much money you have, what kind of car you drive, the home you live in, how successful your career is, or how many likes and views you get on social media.
Your value is much deeper than that.
One of the beautiful things God wants to do in your life is reveal to you just how valuable you are to Him.
So many unhealthy relationships and destructive behaviors are rooted in looking to other people to tell us what we are worth. But you should never give another human being the authority to determine your value.
Not a boyfriend or girlfriend.
Not a husband or wife.
Not your children.
Not your parents.
Not your pastor.
Not your friends.
Not social media.
When our sense of worth depends on someone else’s approval, we become vulnerable to manipulation, control, codependency, and people-pleasing.
God wants to set us free from that.
He wants us rooted in HIS opinion of us—His love, His grace, His acceptance, and the identity He has given us in Christ.
I love looking at the transformation we see in Mary Magdalene. Scripture tells us that Jesus delivered her from seven demons, and she became a devoted follower of Christ. She was there at the cross when many had scattered, and she was among the very first witnesses of the resurrected Jesus.
Think about that.
A woman whose past could have been used to define her became someone entrusted with announcing the resurrection!
That is restoration.
And we see this same freedom beautifully illustrated in the woman who came into the Pharisee’s house and washed Jesus’ feet with her tears. Everyone in the room had an opinion about her. They knew her reputation. They judged her past.
But she was more conscious of JESUS than she was of their judgment.
That is freedom.
When you become secure in the love of God, the opinions of people lose their power to control you.
You can walk into rooms where people misunderstand you, judge you, remember your past, or try to label you—and still keep your eyes on Jesus.
You don’t have to live with your head hanging down because of yesterday.
Jesus restores dignity.
Jesus restores honor.
Jesus restores innocence.
Jesus restores identity.
Jesus restores worth.
When you truly understand your value, you begin removing things from your life that are beneath what God has called you to.
You establish healthy boundaries.
You stop begging for approval.
You stop allowing manipulation.
You stop building your identity around someone else’s opinion.
You begin seeing yourself through the eyes of Jesus.
And that freedom is not given so we can live selfishly. We are set free so we can LOVE.
“For freedom Christ has set us free.” — Galatians 5:1
“Where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is liberty.” — 2 Corinthians 3:17
God wants to remove the labels that shame, rejection, poverty, failure, religion, and other people have tried to put on you.
Your past does not determine your value.
People’s opinions do not determine your value.
Your failures do not determine your value.
Find yourself in the eyes of Jesus.
See yourself the way He sees you.
Walk with dignity.
Walk with courage.
Walk with purpose.
Where you have carried shame, God desires to restore honor.
You are deeply loved, greatly valued, and worth what Jesus was willing to give to redeem you.