10/31/2026
Young People Do Not Need Less Responsibility. They Need More Opportunity.
Every generation has heard some version of the same complaint: “Young people today do not want to work.”
I do not believe that is the whole truth.
Certainly, young people need guidance. They need to learn punctuality, good manners, financial responsibility, work ethic, and the importance of keeping their word. But they also need something just as important: a real chance to prove themselves.
Too often, adults look at a young person’s lack of experience and decide that person is not ready. But how does anyone gain experience if no one will give them an opportunity?
Most of us can look back and remember someone who gave us a chance. It may have been a teacher who saw potential, an employer who offered a first job, a coach who demanded more, a pastor who listened, or a neighbor who showed us how to solve a problem. That person may not have realized it at the time, but a little confidence and responsibility can change the direction of a young life.
Young people do not need to be protected from every challenge. They need adults who stand nearby, set reasonable expectations, offer wise counsel, and let them learn.
A first job teaches far more than how to earn a paycheck. It teaches a young person to arrive on time, speak respectfully, follow instructions, handle disappointment, work with people who may be different from them, and take pride in doing a task well. Those lessons cannot always be learned from a textbook or a telephone screen.
Our local businesses play an important role. Whenever possible, hire a young person for an entry-level position. Offer an internship. Let a student shadow someone for a day. Teach them the basics of customer service, sales, bookkeeping, inventory, marketing, construction, farming, technology, or any other useful trade or profession.
An employer who takes time to teach a young person may be doing more than filling a position. They may be helping to build a future employee, business owner, civic leader, parent, or community volunteer.
Civic organizations, churches, schools, and nonprofits can also open doors. Invite young people to serve on a committee. Ask them to help plan an event. Give them meaningful work, not just a seat in the audience. Let them see how a meeting is run, how a budget is balanced, how a project is organized, and how people work together for the common good.
They may make mistakes. So did we.
The point is not to hand young people responsibility without instruction. The point is to give responsibility with encouragement and accountability. Tell them what is expected. Correct them when necessary. Praise them when they do well. Show them that character matters, effort matters, and a person’s word ought to mean something.
We should also teach practical life skills that too many young people have never been shown. Teach them how to prepare for a job interview, write a resume, balance a checking account, change a tire, make a simple budget, cook a meal, speak respectfully to customers, and understand the difference between wants and needs.
These are not small matters. They are the building blocks of independence.
It is easy to criticize the next generation from a distance. It takes more effort to invest in them up close. But that investment can pay dividends for a lifetime.
Valdosta and Lowndes County have bright, capable young people. They are in our schools, churches, neighborhoods, and families. Some are eager for an opportunity but do not know where to begin. Others may need a patient adult to see beyond a rough edge or a lack of confidence.
Let us be that adult.
If you own a business, consider opening a door. If you are retired, consider mentoring a young person. If you have a skill, teach it. If you have influence, use it to introduce a young person to someone who can help. If you see promise, say so.
A young person trusted with real responsibility often rises to meet it.
The future of our community will not be built someday by someone else. The young people we choose to encourage, prepare, and include are shaping it right now.
They do not need less responsibility.
They need more opportunity.
Burton Fletcher, JD, MBA, appears on Saturdays in the Valdosta Daily Times. A retired attorney, professor, and active community volunteer, he frequently writes about life, leadership, faith, and service in South Georgia. To reach Burton, you can email him at [email protected] or [email protected], or send a text to 229.560.8180.