Becoming Collective

26/10/2026

Imagine your best friend came to you feeling overwhelmed because she missed a deadline, fell off her routine, or hadn’t figured out the thing she thought she would have figured out by now.

Would you tell her she’s lazy? That she’s failing at life? That she should be embarrassed?

Probably not.

You’d probably remind her that she’s human. So why do we think shaming ourselves is somehow going to make us better?

Shame has a way of making us want to hide, give up, or avoid the very things we’re trying to improve. It can make taking the next step feel even harder.

You can hold yourself accountable and still have compassion for yourself. You can want to grow without making yourself feel terrible for where you are right now.

You’re totally allowed to be a “work in progress” without treating yourself like a problem that needs to be fixed asap. 🤍

Listen to the complete podcast episode on The Higher Self Hotline Podcast by Zoey Greco

23/10/2026

I recently got sick, and it reminded me of something I wish I’d learned a whole lot sooner. 🤍

Iyanla Vanzant says God throws pebbles, and then God throws bricks.

The pebbles are the little signs we tend to brush off. The exhaustion we keep pushing through. The feeling that something needs to change. The quiet nudge telling us to slow down.

Sometimes we keep going until life forces us to stop.
I’ve learned that part of listening to ourselves is noticing those little signs before they become impossible to ignore.

Your messy middle might be trying to tell you something, too.

What have you been brushing off lately that might deserve a little more attention?

21/10/2026

I spent years in a financial plateau.
 
I was working hard and making decent money, but still stuck in situations where I was undervalued. I had multiple instances of finding out what other people made and realizing damn… they are wildly underpaying me!!! As a smart businesswoman, how did I let this happen?? 
 
On the one hand, my intrinsic self worth wasn’t high enough to speak up and claim more – without it being proactively offered to me. And when have you EVER seen a boss do that?!
 
On the other hand – I still identified as “working class” and in the “service industry.” Wealthy people didn’t feel like “my people”  so I was unconsciously blocking myself from becoming one of them…

It wasn’t until I started doing ancestral trauma healing that my life started to shift in profound ways. This healing doesn’t replace grounded financial actions and it will not magically solve systemic inequality but – it creates the space for the actions you DO take to be impactful and lasting.
 
While the topic of “healing” can feel vague and hard to quantify, Systemic Constellations work is NOT. It’s a clearly defined system that can work quickly AND be accessed with relative affordability. That’s why I’m inviting my teacher Emily Blefeld Seeing with Your Heart who is a recognized expert in this field to speak with you all this afternoon.
 
If you’re wondering why I’m talking so much about MONEY in a spiritual coaching container, this quote by Dr Faith Wokoma*only page sums it up best:
 
“Survival mode silences spiritual perception. When the nervous system is overwhelmed, the body scans for threats instead of listening for God. Discernment requires peace.”
 
I want you to make money so your nervous system can get out of hypervigilance. And from that state – your soul can be freed to flourish.
 
We don’t need multi-millions to do this. But we DO need enough.
 
Come start (or accelerate) this process with us today 10/21 at 12pm EST!

Comment “CONSTELLATIONS” to join us today or — receive the replay recording.

20/10/2026

Sometimes, the money stories we carry started long before we ever had money of our own.

🍂 Maybe someone in your family had to sacrifice everything to survive.

🍂 Maybe spending money felt unsafe, or being financially secure meant working yourself into the ground.

These beliefs may have been passed down with the best intentions. Someone was trying to protect their family using what they knew at the time.

But what if you have different choices available to you now? ✨

What if part of honoring the people who came before you is allowing yourself to experience the freedom they worked so hard to create?

🤍 Let’s explore this together.

Tomorrow, I’m hosting a free live conversation with my teacher, Emily Blefeld, (Emily Blefeld) LICSW, founder of Seeing with Your Heart and practitioner of Alchemical Constellations.

We’ll explore how ancestral patterns can shape our relationship with money and abundance, and how Family Constellations can help us understand what we may have inherited.

👉 Wednesday, October 21
👉 12 PM EST | Live on Zoom, free to attend

✨ Comment CONSTELLATIONS and I’ll send you the RSVP link.

19/10/2026

Your version of RICH can look completely different from mine. There’s no one-size-fits-all version of an abundant life. You get to decide what richness means to you, and you’re allowed to want more while appreciating what you already have. 🤍

But Have you ever stopped to wonder where your beliefs about money, success, visibility, freedom, or worthiness actually come from?

What if some of the ways you relate to abundance were shaped long before you were born?

On October 21, I’m hosting a free conversation with my teacher, Emily Blefeld - Emily Blefeld, LICSW, founder of Seeing with Your Heart and practitioner of Alchemical Constellations, to explore the ancestral patterns that can quietly shape what we’re able to create, receive, hold, and enjoy.

We’ll talk about how ancestral patterns can show up in our relationship with money and abundance, what Family Constellations actually are, and what we may have inherited versus what we’ve consciously chosen.

We’ll also explore why sometimes knowing what you want isn’t enough to actually let yourself have it.

And, of course, there’ll be space for your questions, whether you’re curious about family patterns, money wounds, or whatever has been coming up for you lately.

It’s free, open to everyone, and live on Zoom.

Wednesday, October 21 | 12 PM EST

Comment “CONSTELLATIONS” and I’ll send you the RSVP link. ✨

15/10/2026

12/10/2026

Brianna Wiest wrote in her book “The Mountain Is You” that your new life is going to cost you your old one, and whew, does that hit.

And while there’s truth to that, I think there’s so much more to the statement than we realize.

Because spiritual growth can take YEARS. It’s a long, messy process of shedding old identities, questioning what you thought you knew, and learning to sit with the discomfort of not quite knowing who you’re becoming.

There will be moments when you wonder if any of this work is actually working. When you feel like you’ve taken two steps forward and three steps back.

But once you’ve had a glimpse of what’s possible on the other side, something in you knows you can’t keep living the way you used to.

Keep going. Give yourself some grace. And find people who can walk alongside you through it.

You don’t have to figure it all out alone. 💕

07/10/2026

Somatic practices like thymus breathing give us a way to slow down, tune in, and reconnect with what’s happening beneath all the thinking.

And this is the kind of work we do together inside Becoming Collective.

Every month, we gather around a new theme and explore it through somatics, mindset work, reflection, community, and practical tools.

This September, we’re beginning Becoming Abundant, our 3-month program exploring your relationship with money through:

🤎 September: THE PAST
Your money story, family patterns & ancestral beliefs.

🤎 October: THE PRESENT
Self-worth, somatics, mindset & getting honest about your actual numbers.

🤎 November: THE FUTURE
Manifestation, receiving, big goals & creating material abundance.
Three months of doing the inner work and the real-world work.

If you want to join us for Becoming Abundant, comment “ABUNDANT” and we’ll send you the details.

05/10/2026

Which rich girl are you? 👀

Abundance can look VERY different depending on who you are.

Maybe yours involves a brownstone. Maybe it’s a garden, a passport full of stamps, a wildly successful business, or simply having enough time to enjoy a Tuesday afternoon.

Your rich life gets to be specific to YOU.
Tell me your archetype in the comments below👇

03/10/2026

🌌What if your relationship with money isn’t entirely yours?

What if some of the ways you relate to success, visibility, freedom, worthiness, or even your ability to receive were shaped long before you were born?

📆On October 21, I’m hosting a free conversation with my teacher, Emily Blefeld, LICSW, founder of Seeing with Your Heart and practitioner of Alchemical Constellations, to explore the ancestral patterns that can quietly shape what we’re able to create, receive, hold, and enjoy.

We’ll talk about:

→ how ancestral patterns can show up in our relationship with money and abundance
→ what Family Constellations actually are
→ what we may have inherited vs. what we’ve consciously chosen
→ why sometimes knowing what you want isn’t enough to actually let yourself have it
→ and your questions — family patterns, money wounds, whatever’s surfacing for you

It’s free, open to everyone, and live on Zoom.

Wednesday, October 21
12pm EST

Comment CONSTELLATIONS and I’ll send you the RSVP link.