06/15/2026
“Honoring the Father”
(Eph. 6:2) “Honour thy father and mother; which is the first commandment with promise.”
What a wonderful holiday we have in “Father’s Day” and what a day we need to recognize too. Praise the Lord for those fathers who seek to remain faithful to their family and desire to train them up in the fear and admonition of the Lord (Eph. 6:4). Home is a huge part of the foundation of our nation's society. It is what separates our nation from all other nations. God ordained marriage and the home, so that parents, who are born-again believers, could train up their children in the ways of God (Prov. 22:6), and teach them how to serve the God who created them and provides all that they have from birth to death. But we are living in a time where our present generation has forgotten God’s faithfulness and where men do not want to commit to relationships with women to enter the bonds of marriage to father the family they are responsible.
The Bible teaches us as believers that the Ten Commandments are not the norm for New Testament living, but it doesn’t mean we can break them. Here, Paul reminds us of the commandment to honor our father and mother, and with this commandment comes a promise of a long life to those who choose to keep this commandment (Ex. 20:12). All the other commandments promise something if they are not kept, but do not promise anything if they are kept.
When we think of biblical examples, Samson and Absalom were two sons who failed to keep this commandment, and their lives were cut short. Samson, a judge, died when he was a young man. Absalom rebelled against his father, David and was killed.
A flagrant disregard of this divine law to honor father has in it the seeds of frustration, violence, and degradation. A violation of it will produce in the children of mischievous self-assertion and a bitter resentment of all authority. So, one of the preventions of juvenile delinquency is to honor the father and accept his headship in the family.
Disrespect, ingratitude and neglect toward father is a deadly force that destroys individual character, which in turn pulls down our whole social structure; for the family is the cornerstone of society. Affection, devotion, and respect to father are cardinal virtues, and a society divested of them cannot long survive.
Now for a little confession. A father deserves much more honor than we could appreciate when we were you. Youth have to grow up. Time is an effectual teacher. The years are wrought with strong opposition and staggering blows from a world that youth thinks is easy to conquer. Sons and daughters may not learn this until the father is either old or dead, but there is one thing for sure: they will learn.
And all the while, nature is planning a sure reversal of the order. By and by, those children will grow up and have children of their own, and the drama of parents and children will be re-enacted all over again.
We as fathers must be encouraged today not to listen to the world’s strategy but to trust the Word of God. The first lesson we must teach our children is to listen and respect authority. Once they have learned to listen and respect authority, they will be able to grow up and become a father/mother on their own to know how to raise their children properly. Because the victories of a Christian life are won in the home. If you will remember when Jesus was a boy, he went with Mary and Joseph into Nazareth, and the Bible says Jesus was “subject unto them” (Luke 2:51). Fathers, even in our best attempts, we must remember our children have a free will to do what they choose to do. But if we place Jesus before them daily as they are growing up (Deut. 6:4-7) and train them up in the way they should go, when they are old, they will not depart from it. But when we choose to allow them to make their own decisions and not to be fathers who lead our children through discipline, we see the lowest form of lawlessness that will occur in the last days: “disobedient to parents” (2 Tim. 3:2).
Father, I don’t know about you, but one thing that I determined to do when God blessed me with my two girls was not to allow them to make the same mistakes that I made in life. I was not going to allow them to be targets of Satan. Therefore, I did all that I could do to give them Jesus from the time they could understand, until the time they left home. That meant living Jesus out in my life before them, so that my two girls would know what true love was from a man. I can testify today that God has honored that! Both of my girls have been born-again. Both have found their prince of a husband, who I can say loves them almost as much as I love them. Ha. Ha. So, Father be encouraged, God is faithful to His promise to do exactly what He said He would do. If you want to see your children live long upon this earth, then start training them how to honor you as a Father and also start training yourself to live a life for Christ that can be honored!
We love you,
Preacher and Mrs. Wendy