Band of Brothers Tulsa Area

10/19/2026

WEEK 5 | SERVANT LEADERSHIP | BAND OF BROTHERS – BROKEN ARROW

Leadership isn’t about a title, a position, or how many people follow you. It’s about who you’re willing to serve.

What a powerful night at Band of Brothers as Gabe Sherman challenged our men to rethink what it means to lead like Jesus.

Gabe shared about a season of his life working at NASA, carrying tremendous responsibility and navigating incredible challenges. But in the middle of leading professionally, he came to a painful realization.

He was giving his best to his career while his wife and children were struggling at home.

120 days into that season, he had to ask himself a question:

“Who am I serving?”

Man, what a challenge for every husband, father, and leader in that room!

We can spend our lives pursuing success, influence, and responsibility while neglecting the very people God has entrusted to us.

Gabe reminded us that every man is a leader, and if you’re not leading anyone else, start by leading yourself. Bring your heart, your thoughts, your actions, and your habits under the authority of God.

In Matthew 20:20–28, Jesus completely redefines greatness. The world teaches us to pursue position and authority. Jesus teaches us to serve.

“The Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve.” — Matthew 20:28

The Son of God had every right to be served, yet He chose to serve others. What an example for us as men!

And what made this night even sweeter was seeing the gospel produce fruit!

After hearing the Word, the gospel, and testimony, one man was asked if he wanted to give his life to Jesus.

His response?

“Who wouldn’t?”

COME ON! Another man surrendered his life to Christ! 🙌

That’s what it’s all about. Men serving men, pointing one another to Jesus, and lives being transformed by the power of God.

So grateful for Gabe, our Broken Arrow leadership, and every man who continues to show up and pursue what it means to follow Jesus.

No man fights alone!

10/19/2026

WEEK 5 | SERVANT LEADERSHIP | BAND OF BROTHERS – BROKEN ARROW

Leadership isn’t about a title, a position, or how many people follow you. It’s about who you’re willing to serve.

What a powerful night at Band of Brothers BattleCreek Broken Arrow as Gabe Sherman challenged our men to rethink what it means to lead like Jesus.

Gabe shared about a season of his life working at NASA, carrying tremendous responsibility and navigating incredible challenges. But in the middle of leading professionally, he came to a painful realization.

He was giving his best to his career while his wife and children were struggling at home.

120 days into that season, he had to ask himself a question: “Who am I serving?”

Man, what a challenge for every husband, father, and leader in that room!

We can spend our lives pursuing success, influence, and responsibility while neglecting the very people God has entrusted to us.

Gabe reminded us that every man is a leader, and if you’re not leading anyone else, start by leading yourself. Bring your heart, your thoughts, your actions, and your habits under the authority of God.

In Matthew 20:20–28, Jesus completely redefines greatness. The world teaches us to pursue position and authority. Jesus teaches us to serve.

“The Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve.” — Matthew 20:28

The Son of God had every right to be served, yet He chose to serve others. What an example for us as men!

And what made this night even sweeter was seeing the gospel produce fruit!

After hearing the Word, the gospel, and testimony, one man was asked if he wanted to give his life to Jesus.

His response?

“Who wouldn’t?”

COME ON! Another man surrendered his life to Christ! 🙌

That’s what it’s all about. Men serving men, pointing one another to Jesus, and lives being transformed by the power of God.

So grateful for Gabe, our Broken Arrow leadership, and every man who continues to show up and pursue what it means to follow Jesus.

No man fights alone!

10/17/2026

A GOOD BROTHER WON'T ALWAYS AGREE WITH YOU.

One of the most valuable things a man can have is another man who's willing to call him out.

Not embarrass him.
Not compete with him.
Not tear him down.

Just tell him the truth.
You said you were going to do something.
Did you do it?
And if you didn't, what's getting in the way?

That's brotherhood.

Because there's a difference between having people who support you and having people who are willing to hold you accountable.
The right brotherhood gives you both.

10/16/2026

Servant Leadership

10/16/2026

👊 WEEK 5 — SERVANT LEADERSHIP | SOUTH TULSA

Ernie Trujillo started with one question…“How’s the wave going?”

And men started sharing.

-> Salvations.
-> Marriages getting stronger.
-> Relationships restored.
-> Forgiveness happening.
-> Men walking away from p**n and other vices.

So we stopped and celebrated what the Lord has done.

Then Ernie challenged the room… Where did you start five weeks ago and where are you now?

He went platoon by platoon, recapped the weeks, asked for memory verses, and made men take inventory.

Then we opened Matthew 20:20–28.

Jesus flips the world’s definition of greatness… Greatness is not position. It’s service.

And right after teaching it, Jesus lives it, He stops for two blind men everyone else was trying to silence and helps them see.

That hit hard! Who are you serving and why?

Are you serving your wife because you want something back?

Serving at work for recognition?

Serving people for position?

Jesus didn’t serve transactionally, He laid His life down.

We say SO OTHERS MAY LIVE.

Tonight Ernie challenged us, what if we also lived SO OTHERS MAY SEE?

-> See Jesus.
-> See hope.
-> See another way to live.

And yes, it costs something.

Living differently than the world may change where you go, what you listen to, what you participate in, and even some relationships.

Then Ernie asked.. “Anybody still faking it?”

Nobody wanted to hide. Five weeks in, the question is shifting from, “What am I getting out of Band of Brothers?”

to

“Who can I serve because of what God is doing in me?”

👊 NO MAN FIGHTS ALONE.

10/05/2026

THREE MEN GAVE THEIR LIVES TO JESUS LAST NIGHT.

That’s what matters most.

Last night at Band of Brothers BattleCreek Broken Arrow was powerful.

Mark Simpson challenged the men with a simple question…Is your fear in God or is your fear in the world?

More than half the room stepped forward.

Men stood shoulder to shoulder and called their fears out by name. Fear of failure, fear of being exposed, wounds they’ve carried, strongholds they’ve fought, things they’ve stumbled over again and again.

Then they handed them to Jesus.

And then it was time to break boards.

But the board break isn’t about proving how strong you are, it’s actually admitting that you’re not strong enough on your own.

The men wrote down the things attacking their identity… the wounds, fears, lies and burdens they were never meant to carry. Not because they believed they could simply overpower them, but because they were inviting God into the fight.

And on the other side of that board stood another man.

Not there to beat him over the head with his failures.

Not there to remind him of everything he’s done wrong.

But to call him back to his God given identity, gifts and purpose. To remind him who he is in Christ and to walk beside him as he steps into freedom and uses those gifts to lift up other men.

No man fights alone.

Fear doesn’t get the final word. Jesus does!

10/02/2026

Last night at South Tulsa, the men put some things on those boards that most men would rather keep buried.

Fear. Failure. Anxiety. The unknown. Insecurity. Being exposed. The thought of failing one more time.

As men, we can get really good at carrying those things quietly.

But there’s something powerful that happens when what has been buried gets brought into the light. We stop fighting alone.

It’s not about breaking a board. It’s about trusting God with the fear, the failure, the insecurity and even the pain it may take to walk back through some things we’ve avoided.

And then there’s a brother standing on the other side.

Not waiting to remind you of everything you’ve done wrong. Not there to beat you over the head with your shortcomings.

He’s there to call you back to your identity.

To remind you of the gifts God has put inside you.

To remind you of your purpose.

To remind you who you are when fear has made you forget.

There is healing when men stop hiding and start bringing things into the light with God and with trusted brothers.

That’s why Band of Brothers Tulsa Area board breaking night is so powerful.

No man fights alone.

09/28/2026

09/28/2026

Man, praising the Lord… THREE men gave their lives to Jesus Christ tonight!

Week 2 of Spiritual Warfare at Band of Brothers | BattleCreek Broken Arrow was powerful.

Brennan Segraves brought a strong word on The Unseen Battle and started by asking the men… What does spiritual warfare mean to you?

Then he challenged a few men to actually say out loud what they were fighting.

That changed the room! 🔥

A men shared, other men got up, surrounded him, laid hands on them and prayed.

Because when spiritual warfare gets real, we stand and pray, we kneel and pray, and we don’t leave a brother to fight by himself.

Brennan reminded us that we have a very real enemy whose desire is to steal, kill and destroy and whose native language is lies.

But then he asked… Have you read the end of the Book? We win!

The question is how we live faithfully in the in-between.

He used the picture of working out. Strength isn’t built in one day, it takes consistency over time and when the weight gets heavy, you need a spotter.

That’s exactly why men need other godly men.

Men who…
-> Men who model it.
-> Men who challenge us.
-> Men who know us.
-> Men who will stand beside us when the weight gets heavy.

Then Brennan challenged us to learn the people God has entrusted to us.

Do you know your kid’s favorite color?
Do you know your wife’s greatest struggle or fear?

He took us through Romans 12:2 and then walked piece by piece through the full armor of God in Ephesians 6.

The enemy is real, the battle is real, but God has not left us unequipped and He never intended us to fight alone.

And tonight, three more men said YES to Jesus. That never gets old.

No man fights alone.

09/25/2026

What if?

What if this week doesn’t go like you planned?
What if you fail?
What if your past reminds you who you were?
What if fear shows up?
What if you lose something you thought you needed?

Thursday night, Scott Comer challenged our men that a lot of spiritual warfare happens right there—in the “what if.”

Because if the enemy can keep you living in what if, he can keep you trapped in fear, doubt, unforgiveness, shame and uncertainty.

But there’s another way to live:

EVEN IF.

Even if this week doesn’t go as planned — God remains.
Even if I fail — I get back up.
Even if my past speaks — Christ defines my future.
Even if fear shows up — I move forward in faith.
Even if I lose something I thought I needed — I will not lose God.

WHAT IF asks the question.
EVEN IF decides who you’re going to be before you know the answer.

Scott shared honestly about who he has been, what God has brought him through, and the battles along the way. He also brought the lesson home through The Vernon Chair and recidivism.

You don’t have to be incarcerated to experience recidivism.

Sometimes we experience freedom, start believing we can handle life on our own, drop our accountability, stop doing what got us healthy—and slowly return to something God already brought us out of.

What’s your Vernon Chair?

What are you determined, by the grace of God, not to sit in again?

You have 1,440 minutes today.
Don’t surrender them to what if.

Build your life on even if.

No man fights alone.