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GIRLS of purpose Network, Toronto, OH (2026)

09/01/2021

WHO SHOULD DATE

08/19/2021

Power of Relationship

08/16/2021

CAN YOU HANDLE FREEDOM: WHEN NO ONE IS LOOKING AT YOU OR MONITORING YOU, CAN YOU STILL MAKE RIGHT DECISION?

07/04/2021

Evaluate your lifestyle

05/09/2021

ROLES OF.PARENTS IN PROTECTING THEIR CHILDREN AGAINST CHILD S*XUAL ABUSE.

The purpose of this teaching is to create awareness and action, it is also to empower parents to empower their own children.

We parents atimes do not know how to give s*x education to our children or how to protect them from being abused because we are afraid that we might further expose them and arouse their curiosity and as a result we back off. Backing off is not good enough we just need to get the knowledge of how to go about it.

All parents should learn facts about s*xual abuse and understand the risk. Our children need us to do the work of POLICE, CID, FBI, COUNSELOR, SECURITY PERSONNEL, SURVEILLANCE with Discerning Spirit. This simply means zero trust for any mortal when it comes to custody of your child. You have to be involved and no stupid spend holiday in anybody's house if you would not go with them.

How Can We Protect Our Children From Being Abuse.
(A) LERN THE FACTS:
(1) All Children are vulnerable to s*xual abuse. This simple means both boys and girls can be abused.
(2)Child of all ages can be abused even a day old baby
(3)Anybody can abuse a child. S*xual predators are not monsters or people with devilish look but people with normal looks like you and most of the time they are not strangers.

(B)MINIMIZE THE OPPORTUNITY
S*xual ABUSERS need access and privacy to abuse your child. We parents need to put our eyes on those who have access to our children. Do not put private teacher in your house with your children and go out to the market. Dont drop your baby with neighbors, hawking is not good for your child, spending holiday with extended families without you going with them can be dangerous, leaving your children with your ex husband can be dangerous (especially a girl child) making your children to live with foster parents can be terrible, going late to pick your child from school which atimes could result into the teachers leaving the child with the gate man is dangerous, accommodating house maid from every angle is a risk and making them to go into neighbour's house can be risky too. If you can not do without any of this above simply pay attention to those who pay attention to your children.

Develop strong communication skills with your children.
Never and ever shorn a child when he or she is trying to communicate with you.
(a)Download information from them . This means ask them questions when they come back from schools or anytime they have gone out of your sight and are back home.
(b)Teach them code(Tomb up/ Tomb down, yellow card
(C)educate them about different tricks

BE SENSITIVE
Trust your inner intuition when you see a A RED FLAG
Watch out for GROOMING ( Let no devil call your children my wife or husband)
Let know technicians come to repair appliances while you are not home with your children. Listen carefully when people talk about your children.

03/23/2021

WHO GAVE YOU SPIRIT
OF
FEAR.

In the 2006, I was pregnant of My King Ooreoluwa and somehow all the pregnant women were to be tested for HIV/AID. One of the matrons told us that she was shocked at the outcome of the results as some pregnant women tested positive. Fear gripped me. I couldn't stand up properly and I almost fainted. My vision became so blurred and my heart started beating fast. I started thinking "God! may be I am one of the women" I also reminded myself that, I never lived a reckless life and only had s*x after my wedding. But devil reminded me that i could get it from other means and i again someone i knew died of it four year ago. I also told myself that but i have done HIV test before marriage and devil reminded me that I usually go to saloon to fix my hair and the niddle has pierce my head accidentally several time. I told myself that as a child of God I can never be HIV positive and Devil reminded me of the person that died of Hiv four years ago despite how devoted she was to God. At this junction, I succumbed to fear and accepted that I could be HIV positive truly.
The matron said: "well, we will give everyone of you the result on Tuesday but in case, you don't get your result on Tuesday that means we need you to book appointment for counseling together with your husband.
I went back home in sorrow and fear that I might be positive. My head started aching, I started running temperature, I couldn't eat and sleep. I kept saying to myself: "What if you are positive" I started stooling seriously. My husband was wondering what happened to me and somehow I told him what the matron said. He laughed and asked me who gave you this fear, you can not in any way be positive of HIV.
On Tuesday morning I woke up so early and got to the clinic so early. Alas! It was time to share the result and they started calling names. I felt it was taking forever for them to call my name. This matron called almost every body and my name was not called, my body became so cold, my feet and pam were oozing water and I was expecting the worse.
I stood up with my protruding belly when she was holding the last paper and my name was not called and manage to walk up to her and conversing with her in trembling voice " You haven't not called me, what happened" She looked at me and showed me the last one she was holding and said "Is this for you?". I checked and that was my result, HIV Negative. That very day I vowed never to tolerate fear anymore in life because it is of the devil.

I would have lost that pregnancy out of fear, had cardiac arrest or even died as a result.

Why are you afraid or worried. God did not give you Spirit of fear. The fact that someone that is close to you died does not mean you will die young too.

In 2020 March to be precise at the heat of the pandemic most health worker ran away from work. We kept hearing how nurses were dying but because I was highly conscious of the word God, I did not run away. I was as bold as lion, treating people who were covid 19 positive. One of the residents on his dying bed asked me he would like to sit down in his chair because he was tired lying on his back for days. I carried him and gave him all the care he needed. I prayed with him and when I was leaving his room God told me I should say goodbye to him because he was coming home to rest that same day. Despite all the dead bodies that I touched as a result of covid I refused to fear covid-19 because of the word of God in psalm 91. I kept saying it to myself and refused tolerate fear or anyone that suggested it.

I never stopped working on covid floor up till date and God has been faithful to his word."

What are you afraid of? Don't let devil mess you up. Devil is a liar, you are not going to die of this sickness, regardless of how many people have died as a result. The fact that someone very close to you died does not mean you are the next to die. You will be gloriously married, don't listen to the lies of the devil. Dont ever get to any point in life that you allow fear to stop you from speaking boldly what the word of God says concerning you. Stop being afraid of accidents, you will not be a victim of accident.

When all those evil thought come to your mind, just speak out the word of God boldly as related to the situation, prevailing circumstances notwithstanding. 2 Timothy 1:7. There is no way you can benefit from what you dont understand. You need to understand the word of God as it relate to your circumstances and hold on to it with tenacity of bull dog. Dont be carried away with simplicity of it, it works like fire!

02/14/2021

Love Yourself
First!

I am using this val's day to let every one of us know that we are all special in our own way.There is no other person in this world like you. You need to love yourself and accept the truth that: "You are enough" You are a one-of-a-kind unprecedented human being. There will never again be someone quite like you, and you are here to give the world your own special blend of gifts, passions, interests and quirks. Allowing yourself to show up to life as your authentic self is one of the most empowering things you can do, and it can profoundly enrich your relationship with yourself.
Nobody can give what they don't have. If you don't love yourself, you can't love anyone. Loving yourself means, you will not throw caution to the wind to engage in things that can jeopardize your chances of excelling in life. It means you will respect yourself and not turn yourself to an object for s*xual pleasure, it means, you will believe in yourself and have the WILL to give what it takes to achieve good success.

Stop comparing yourself with people, you are in God's plan. Stop looking down on yourself because you are powerful beyond measure.

When I was in primary school, grade six to be precise, one of my teachers "Mrs Onofua" looked at me in my torn uniform and mocked me loudly, told the teacher that I was chatting with: "so you can't find decent student to chat with but this one in rag" . That word got to me, I felt so little and hopeless and I began to see that I actually looked different from other children. I hated myself and family because I felt we should be ashamed of our poverty level. I never knew I was wasting my energy, that I was suppose to believe in myself regardless of what people see or say.

I also remembered how I felt so bad about my body because I felt I was too tiny. I would look at myself in the mirror and desire to look like someone but I later realized nobody in the entire world is more beautiful than I am.
I need you to believe in yourself, call yourself wonderful names, avoid negative people, trust God for your desires and accept the fact that you can not please everyone and that you cannot be good enough for the whole world to love.

02/10/2021

CONTROLLING THE
UNCONTROLLABLE
There are countless Teenagers and Youth that are facing the same challenge that Paul faced that made him declared:
"For I do not understand my own actions. For I do not do what I want, but I do the very thing I hate...For I have the desire to do what is right, but not the ability to carry it out. For I do not do the good I want, but the evil I do not want is what I keep on doing" (Romans 7:15, 18b-19)

Atimes we all know the adverse effects of a particular habit but we still passionately do it over and over again. You might be one of those youths who does things without regard to potential consequences. How could someone consciously go back and forth doing something that one is fully aware that could screw one's destiny.
There are some of us who have seen how a particular behavior wrecked someone's life but in our consciousness we still emulate such behavior.
How many of us have seen how a girl was ganged r***d and killed because she engaged in secret dating with someone she met on social media and walked into lion's den, a room of no return and still waywardly follow a total stranger you met on Facebook without anybody knowing your whereabouts. YOU KNOW IT IS BAD BUT CAN NOT STOP DOING IT.
TRUE LIFE STORY
The teen girl that got me burst into tongues in her school premises in 2014. (DEBORAH!)
As usual I went to minister in a particular school and one of the teachers introduced a girl to me for counseling. And she told me this girl could not stop having s*x. She would go on the street begging guys to have s*x with her. She couldn’t stop doing that. This girl said she could feel the shame and was very much aware that it was wrong but still she could have s*x with anyone anywhere and after that she would feel dirty. She wept so many times , remorsed, vowed, call on God for forgiveness but after some days she would go back on the street begging for s*x. There was an occasion that she encountered more than she bargainined for and was Mercilessly handled by some crazy guys and she wouldn't be alive if not that she was rescued. That incident suppose to be the last straw that broke the carmels back but no way, she still couldn't stop indiscriminate s*x with guys before we met.

WHAT ARE YOU STRUGGLING WITH THAT IS RUIN YOUR LIFE, BUT STILL YOU DO IT WITH A PASSION DESPITE YOU ARE AWARE THAT YOU ARE WASTING A WAY.
I have seen a bornagain brother who lies effortlessly without any consideration. The demon that generates lies dwells in him. He could not stop lieing. His conscience is dead and he tell lies easily. You can't be smart enough to get him when he lies. Very subtle. He would be telling lies and still be speaking in tongues. I wasn't comfortable atall with this devoted christian.
Are you struggling with drugs? You have done everything but still, you can't control it.
Is there any relationship that you cannot just resist despite it is destroying your purpose in life or because you have been turned to an object for s*xual pleasure. You have aborted for this guy countless time but still you can't make right decision despite you are dying daily.?
CONGRATULATIONS! THERE IS A
WAY OUT. (WATCH OUT FOR PART TWO)

02/09/2021

CONTROLLING THE
UNCONTROLLABLE
There are countless Teenagers and Youth that are facing the same challenge that Paul faced that made him declared:
"For I do not understand my own actions. For I do not do what I want, but I do the very thing I hate...For I have the desire to do what is right, but not the ability to carry it out. For I do not do the good I want, but the evil I do not want is what I keep on doing" (Romans 7:15, 18b-19)

Atimes we all know the adverse effects of a particular habit but we still passionately do it over and over again. You might be one of those youths who does things without regard to potential consequences. How could someone consciously go back and forth doing something that one is fully aware that could screw one's destiny.
There are some of us who have seen how a particular behavior wrecked someone's life but in our consciousness we still emulate such behavior.
How many of us have seen how a girl was ganged r***d and killed because she engaged in secret dating with someone she met on social media and walked into lion's den, a room of no return and still waywardly follow a total stranger you met on Facebook without anybody knowing your whereabouts. YOU KNOW IT IS BAD BUT CAN NOT STOP DOING IT.
TRUE LIFE STORY
The teen girl that got me burst into tongues in her school premises in 2014. (DEBORAH!)
As usual I went to minister in a particular school and one of the teachers introduced a girl to me for counseling. And she told me this girl could not stop having s*x. She would go on the street begging guys to have s*x with her. She couldn’t stop doing that. This girl said she could feel the shame and was very much aware that it was wrong but still she could have s*x with anyone anywhere and after that she would feel dirty. She wept so many times , remorsed, vowed, call on God for forgiveness but after some days she would go back on the street begging for s*x. There was an occasion that she encountered more than she bargainined for and was Mercilessly handled by some crazy guys and she wouldn't be alive if not that she was rescued. That incident suppose to be the last straw that broke the carmels back but no way, she still couldn't stop indiscriminate s*x with guys before we met.

WHAT ARE YOU STRUGGLING WITH THAT IS RUIN YOUR LIFE, BUT STILL YOU DO IT WITH A PASSION DESPITE YOU ARE AWARE THAT YOU ARE WASTING A WAY.
I have seen a bornagain brother who lies effortlessly without any consideration. The demon that generates lies dwells in him. He could not stop lieing. His conscience is dead and he tell lies easily. You can't be smart enough to get him when he lies. Very subtle. He would be telling lies and still be speaking in tongues. I wasn't comfortable atall with this devoted christian.
Are you struggling with drugs? You have done everything but still, you can't control it.
Is there any relationship that you cannot just resist despite it is destroying your purpose in life or because you have been turned to an object for s*xual pleasure. You have aborted for this guy countless time but still you can't make right decision despite you are dying daily.?
CONGRATULATIONS! THERE IS A
WAY OUT. (WATCH OUT FOR PART TWO)

11/26/2020

Seven Deadly Things Girls Should Never Do With Opposite S*x
[ PART 4]
DO NOT ENGAGE IN SECRET ABORTION WITH A GUY
Our lives are not made by our desire but by the choice we made. We are warned in proverb 14 vs12 “There is a way that appears right, but in the end, it leads to death. I observed that we teenagers really don't want to know information about the risks involved in whatever we are about to do or are doing. I really don't buy the idea of any girl making a wrong decision while fully aware of all possible outcomes.

JOANNE IS GONE!
I remembered in 2016 what happened in Surulere to be precise to a girl of 14 years old. One of the neighbors had been having s*x with Joanne and unknown to her parents she was pregnant and did not know what to do. This girl just finished her junior WAEC at the time she became pregnant. She told the man who impregnated her and this guy who happened to be a married man and a father of three kids encouraged her for termination. He told this teenager that he would get an over the counter drug that would easily get rid of the fetus because it was just 8 weeks. This angel agreed and naively swallowed every suggestion of this guy hook nail and sinker to secretly terminate the pregnancy with the substance he made available. Joanne took the substance when her parents were off to work and a few hours later she developed a complication that led to her death. She couldn’t mention the person who impregnated. They later found out it through the place he bought the substance he gave to the girl but he denied he was the one responsible.

CHRISTINE NARROWLY ESCAPED DEATH (JUNE 22,2015)
On that Monday morning, I took a bus heading to Oshodi from Mafoluku and I was sitting beside a teenage girl who appeared to be writhing in pain and bleeding from virginal and her seat was drenched in blood. I could not pretend that I noticed the bloodstain and the fact that she was in pain. I engaged her in conversation and realized that this girl was just coming back from a boyfriend who secretly took her to a quack nurse to terminate her advanced pregnancy. She couldn’t manage the unbearable pain anymore. She was groaning in pain and was turning blue.
One of the passengers volunteered to take her to the nearest health care center because of the bleeding. We called the guy who took her for the abortion and he denied thinking the girl was going to die.

HOW CHUKS SENT PATIENCE TO EARLY GRAVE
Patience at age of 18 concealed her pregnancy and she died of complication after her boyfriend forced her to get rid of the pregnancy because he was not ready to be a father. She took abortion pills.
She started to experience bleeding and cramps so severe that she was unable to walk, her boyfriend rushed her to the hospital, where she was given painkillers and sent home. Her father said he had no idea that his daughter was pregnant or that she was taking an abortion drug. The father later learned that a massive infection caused by fragments of the fetus left inside her caused her to go into septic shock.

THERE ARE COUNTLESS GIRL WHO GOT INTO GRAVE IN THEIR PRIME OUT OF STUPIDITY
The reasons girls engage in secret abortion with a guy varied. Some of these reasons are that the boy pleads that he is not ready for the baby and needs her to get rid of the pregnancy with immediate effect. The truth is that what this guy had in mind was that this girl is a friend with benefit. He just needed the girl to satisfy his urges. Guys view the role of s*x differently from ladies. We ladies engage in s*x by emotional feelings of connection but his desire to have s*x with you is physical. It has nothing to do with any connectivity. I wish all young ladies will understand my simple English.

I Oluwakemi consciously abstain from premarital s*x when I realized the wisdom in doing that. It wasn’t for like of offer and it was not because I had everything going on well for me. My parents gave birth to seven children five girls and two boys in a room. We were living in abject poverty and could not eat until we hawk ogi very early in the morning. I was exposed to street boys during my teen years because of hawking and washing plate in the canteen at age of nine in Ajao estate. I love making the right decisions regardless of how tough because I wanted to excel in life. Our neighbors made attempt to take advantage of me by calling me into one room they were sharing with their brother just to waste my destiny. The boy gave me serious attention and offer me good material things that my parent could not afford but I screamed damn it! Keep virginity till after the wedding was my hobby, I vowed during my teen years, no man will use me for s*xual expression because of testosterone coursing through their body.

The guy after impregnating you will plead that you should secretly put your life on the row to abort a baby because he is not ready to be a father. If you have the baby, you bear the brunt all alone. Do not agree to terminate a pregnancy without informing your parents no matter what you fear.

THE GUY IS A MARRIED MAN WHO IS HAVING S*X WITH YOUNG LADIES.
My dear for every action there is an equal opposite reaction. This life has no duplicate. Are you one of those girls that have aborted uncountable time for married men? You are wasting away if you choose to treat yourself this way. I know you can say he is the one sponsoring you in school or fending for you. BUT WHERE IS YOUR CREATOR’S PLACE IN YOUR LIFE. A time we over-exaggerated our condition and conclude that we have to make the wrong decision to overcome a terrible situation because we will die if we don’t take adverse action but that is not true. Your situation is not that terrible for God if you give him chance. Esau was only hungry for lunch when he sold his birthright because he claimed he would die not having lunch that time I am yet to see someone who dies for not eating lunch, he was only being desperate. Anytime you are desperate you will sell your destiny at very poor bargaining. This is what you shouldn’t sell for any reason under heaven. If you abort for him and died out of complication who is to be blamed.?
There is a second chance for you now to make the right decision to follow GOD’s way, HE CAN NOT MISMANAGE YOUR LIFE.
Your sin is forgivable. Isaiah 1 vs 18. He loves and has a good plan for you.

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