Black Sheep Sisterhood

Black Sheep Sisterhood Building relationships and offering support to local fire wives

09/11/2025

๐ˆ๐Ÿ ๐Œ๐ฒ ๐‡๐ฎ๐ฌ๐›๐š๐ง๐ ๐‡๐š๐ ๐๐ž๐ž๐ง ๐‚๐š๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ž๐ ๐“๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ƒ๐š๐ฒ

Sometimes I let myself imagineโ€”
what if my husband had been called on 9/11?
What if he had been one of the firefighters climbing those endless stairs,
breathing smoke, carrying hope,
knowing he might not come home?

I canโ€™t breathe when I let myself go there.
The thought of his boots on that ground,
his hands pulling strangers from the rubble,
his voice steady when the world was chaos.
And meโ€”waiting, praying, not knowing.

I wasnโ€™t a Fire Wife then.
But I am now.
And I know that same courage still beats in his chest.
The same selfless call.
The same vow to go when others run away.

It shakes meโ€”
because even though itโ€™s not September 11, 2001 anymore,
there are still alarms, still risks, still goodbyes
that could be our last.

So I donโ€™t waste the moments.
I kiss him every time he walks out the door.
I tell him I love him like itโ€™s the last chance Iโ€™ll get.
I choose to support him, even on the hard days,
because this life is too fragile,
too uncertain
to live halfway.

To the Fire Wives walking this road:
Donโ€™t hold back your love.
Donโ€™t forget the weight of what they carry,
and the strength of what we carry.
Our husbands may fight fire,
but we fight for their hearts, their rest, their home.

๐€๐ง๐ ๐ข๐Ÿ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ž๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ ๐ฐ๐จ๐ง๐๐ž๐ซ ๐ฐ๐ก๐ฒ ๐ข๐ญ ๐ฆ๐š๐ญ๐ญ๐ž๐ซ๐ฌโ€”
๐ฅ๐จ๐จ๐ค ๐›๐š๐œ๐ค ๐จ๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐๐š๐ฒ,
๐ฐ๐ก๐ž๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐จ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐š๐ง๐๐ฌ ๐ง๐ž๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ ๐ ๐จ๐ญ ๐จ๐ง๐ž ๐ฆ๐จ๐ซ๐ž ๐ ๐จ๐จ๐๐›๐ฒ๐ž.
๐‹๐ž๐ญ ๐ข๐ญ ๐ซ๐ž๐ฆ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ:
๐ฅ๐จ๐ฏ๐ž ๐Ÿ๐ข๐ž๐ซ๐œ๐ž๐ฅ๐ฒ, ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐จ๐ซ๐ญ ๐Ÿ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฒ, ๐š๐ง๐ ๐š๐ฅ๐ฐ๐š๐ฒ๐ฌโ€”๐š๐ฅ๐ฐ๐š๐ฒ๐ฌโ€”๐ค๐ข๐ฌ๐ฌ ๐ก๐ข๐ฆ ๐ ๐จ๐จ๐๐›๐ฒ๐ž.

โค๏ธโค๏ธ

07/07/2025

Is your spouse registered for 3rd annual Black Sheep Fire Training September 3-6? Make it a date weekend and sign up for the spouse class Saturday September 6, taught by Kathy Edwards! You wonโ€™t want to miss it!

** It will be held at the Double Tree Hotel, which is within walking distance to the Skylight where the lectures are held for the firefighterโ€™s!! **

04/29/2025

Who is signed up?! Donโ€™t miss this opportunity to hear from ONE of the greatestโ€ฆ Kathy Edwards!!

04/16/2025

โ€ผ๏ธSpouse Trackโ€ผ๏ธ
(Link for tickets)
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/3rd-annual-black-sheep-fire-conference-tickets-1205650596389

Kathy Edwards is the CEO of Fire Life Training and Breaking Barriers and is the co-founder of Fire Wife Life. Kathy spent 30 years as a national non-profit Management Consultant, and concentrated her efforts on overall organizational management, income generation and board/staff modeling and training. Throughout her career she has worked with numerous organizations, a few of which include; The Cystic Fibrosis Foundation, The American Diabetes Association, Huntingtonโ€™s Disease Society of America, United Cerebral Palsy, Lambda Legal, Global Health Action, the Georgia Firefighters Burn Foundation, Girls on the Run and the National Down Syndrome Congress.
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In February of 2020, Kathy joined Fire Life Training Associates and Breaking Barriers as Chief Executive Officer, with a goal of expanding the brands. In 2021 she co-founded Fire Wife Life and The Fire Family. Kathy serves on numerous non-profit boards and has served as the President of the Atlanta Fire Department Womenโ€™s Auxiliary, and on the Superintendentโ€™s School Improvement Council for the largest school system in the state of Georgia.
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Kathy has been married to retired Atlanta fire Captain Todd Edwards for 35 years, and together they have raised 2 incredible adult children. When not working they spend their time together with family and friends, traveling, and watching The Ohio State University and the Pittsburgh Steelers play football!

As a lead facilitator for Fire Wife Life, Kathy presents the message of community, togetherness, support, and inclusion. So many wives feel isolated from their spouseโ€™s job family, and their โ€œcivilianโ€ friends donโ€™t understand their lifestyle or the unique challenges that they face. In bringing the message of Fire Wife Life forward, she encourages women to feel comfortable in asking for help, speaking their needs to other wives, and not being afraid to be a part of the fire family community. Simultaneously, the message and navigation of the importance of seeing oneโ€™s own worth and having oneโ€™s own identity outside of โ€œfire spouseโ€ is imperative to having a successful marriage and a healthy family dynamic.

We are beyond excited to have Kathy back this year as our speaker and are planning an even bigger and better class. Save the date for Sept 6, 2025!!

Also, GO BUCKS ๐Ÿ˜œ

Black Sheep Fire Training

04/09/2025

Is your spouse registered for 3rd annual Black Sheep Fire Training September 3-6? Make it a date weekend and sign up for the spouse class Saturday September 6, taught by Kathy Edwards! You wonโ€™t want to miss it! Comment below if youโ€™re signed up!

** It will be held at the Double Tree Hotel, which is within walking distance to the Skylight where the lectures are held for the firefighterโ€™s!! **

03/19/2025

We need to do better at bringing our separate lives together. This is not a one size fits all idea. Not all fire wives are the same and are open to the same ideas as others. Iโ€™m in plenty of fire wife FB groups to know there are some that are completely against getting involved in what their husbands do and strongly feel that there are certain jobs for wives and certain jobs for husbands. To each their own. If they are happy and it works for them then no need to fix what isnโ€™t broken. I tried that lifestyle and it did not work, in fact, I believe if I would have continued with that mindset my marriage would have ended.

There are many things that my husband is into that I am not. Formula One Racing is one of them. He LOVES it, it bores me to death. But, marriage is about compromise, and being a part of the things the other loves. To be honest, as much as I dislike racing, some of the best memories with my husband are at races. He knows I donโ€™t like it, but wants me to be a part of it so he would do anything and everything to see that I had the best time possible. The same has happened with the fire service. He has invited me to training, made me feel like I was important and gave me opportunities to play on the training ground. I've met some amazing people through fire conferences and training days. Now the flip side of this is he also participates in things I love like attending a broadway show, jamming out to Taylor Swift the day her album drops or wine tasting with friends (and he hates wine). He supports me in my own business and passions. You see a different side of each other when you can truly see them in their element.

Iโ€™ll go first and be vulnerable. Iโ€™m the one who is extremely guilty of having seasons in our life of not inviting my husband into my world. I easily transition from my world into his all the time. But then, I tend to keep the things I'm doing to myself with the thought of โ€œThis isnโ€™t something heโ€™s interested in, no need to bore him with it.โ€ Yaโ€™ll, doing that does nothing but pull the plug of connection between each other. Tell each other about the things that excite you and bring a smile to your face. If one is sharing something that is really boring to you, focus on them, how it's making them feel and the joy it brings them. That in itself should bring some joy to you as well. Busy seasons are hard, I know first hand. Itโ€™s easy to get disconnected. It can be just as easy to reconnect. Start today. Share now, what is something that brings you joy?
-Heather

TICKETS ARE OFFICIALLY ON SALE!!
03/01/2025

TICKETS ARE OFFICIALLY ON SALE!!

02/18/2025

Looking for donations for upcoming fire conference in September for water/gatorade/poweradeโ€ฆ

This is a 4 day conference with 2 days being HOT days! If interested in donating please reach out!!

02/07/2025

โ€ผ๏ธLess than a month away from going on Saleโ€ผ๏ธ

TICKETS GO ON SALE MARCH 1st at 9 AM !!!!

The 3rd Annual Black Sheep Fire Conference Sept. 3rd-6th 2025. Each H.O.T. track will be the same class offered each day. No Live Fire/ SCBA and Turnout Gear for H.O.T. required. All Classes Breakfast and Lunch Provided

Cost- H.O.T $150.00 per track and $75 per Lecture day
Spouse Class $50.00

Wednesday H.O.T track offered - Engine company doing Ladder work. (Todd Edwards, Tim Nagim, Brad Bennett)

Wednesday H.O.T track offered- Midrise Mayhem ( Steve Robertson, Clyde Gordon, Jerry Herbst, Kyle Romagus)

Thursday H.O.T track offered - Engine company doing ladder work. (Todd Edwards, Tim Nagim, Brad Bennett)

Thursday H.O.T track offered- Midrise Mayhem ( Steve Robertson, Clyde Gordon, Jerry Herbst, Kyle Romagus)

Friday Lecture Class- Todd Edwards and Jerry Herbst
Skylight Downtown Newark Ohio 9 Am to 4 PM (Breakfast & Lunch Provided)

Saturday Lecture Class- Steve Robertson and Clyde Gordon
Skylight Downtown Newark Ohio 9 AM to 4 PM (Breakfast & Lunch Provided)

Saturday Spouse Class- Kathy Edwards/ Black Sheep Sisterhood Doubletree by Hilton Downtown Newark Ohio (Lunch Provided) 9 AM to 4 PM

Skylight is within walking distance of the Doubletree by Hilton
Hotel Code
https://www.hilton.com/en/book/reservation/rooms/?ctyhocn=CMHNEDT&arrivalDate=2025-09-02&departureDate=2025-09-08&groupCode=CDT91Y&room1NumAdults=1&cid=OM%2CWW%2CHILTONLINK%2CEN%2CDirectLink

Did you come last year to the spouse track?  Did you enjoy it?  This year Kathy Edwards will be our speaker and sheโ€™s EX...
01/16/2025

Did you come last year to the spouse track? Did you enjoy it? This year Kathy Edwards will be our speaker and sheโ€™s EXCELLENT as well!! Get tickets March 1, and make sure your spouse signs up too!!

TICKETS GO ON SALE MARCH 1st at 9 AM !!!!

The 3rd Annual Black Sheep Fire Conference Sept. 3rd-6th 2025. Each H.O.T. track will be the same class offered each day. No Live Fire/ SCBA and Turnout Gear for H.O.T. required. All Classes Breakfast and Lunch Provided

Cost- H.O.T $150.00 per track and $75 per Lecture day
Spouse Class $50.00

Wednesday H.O.T track offered - Engine company doing Ladder work. (Todd Edwards, Tim Nagim, Brad Bennett)

Wednesday H.O.T track offered- Midrise Mayhem ( Steve Robertson, Clyde Gordon, Jerry Herbst, Kyle Romagus)

Thursday H.O.T track offered - Engine company doing ladder work. (Todd Edwards, Tim Nagim, Brad Bennett)

Thursday H.O.T track offered- Midrise Mayhem ( Steve Robertson, Clyde Gordon, Jerry Herbst, Kyle Romagus)

Friday Lecture Class- Todd Edwards and Jerry Herbst
Skylight Downtown Newark Ohio 9 Am to 4 PM (Breakfast & Lunch Provided)

Saturday Lecture Class- Steve Robertson and Clyde Gordon
Skylight Downtown Newark Ohio 9 AM to 4 PM (Breakfast & Lunch Provided)

Saturday Spouse Class- Kathy Edwards/ Black Sheep Sisterhood Doubletree by Hilton Downtown Newark Ohio (Lunch Provided) 9 AM to 4 PM

Skylight is within walking distance of the Doubletree by Hilton
Hotel Code
https://www.hilton.com/en/book/reservation/rooms/?ctyhocn=CMHNEDT&arrivalDate=2025-09-02&departureDate=2025-09-08&groupCode=CDT91Y&room1NumAdults=1&cid=OM%2CWW%2CHILTONLINK%2CEN%2CDirectLink

โ€ผ๏ธโ€ผ๏ธBIG ANNOUNCEMENTโ€ผ๏ธโ€ผ๏ธ Drum Rollโ€ฆ.. the speaker for the 2025 Black Sheep Sisterhood spouse class has been chosen. Plea...
11/15/2024

โ€ผ๏ธโ€ผ๏ธBIG ANNOUNCEMENTโ€ผ๏ธโ€ผ๏ธ

Drum Rollโ€ฆ.. the speaker for the 2025 Black Sheep Sisterhood spouse class has been chosen. Please help me welcome Kathy Edwards!

Kathy Edwards is the CEO of Fire Life Training and Breaking Barriers and is the co-founder of Fire Wife Life. Kathy spent 30 years as a national non-profit Management Consultant, and concentrated her efforts on overall organizational management, income generation and board/staff modeling and training. Throughout her career she has worked with numerous organizations, a few of which include; The Cystic Fibrosis Foundation, The American Diabetes Association, Huntingtonโ€™s Disease Society of America, United Cerebral Palsy, Lambda Legal, Global Health Action, the Georgia Firefighters Burn Foundation, Girls on the Run and the National Down Syndrome Congress.
โ€‹
In February of 2020, Kathy joined Fire Life Training Associates and Breaking Barriers as Chief Executive Officer, with a goal of expanding the brands. In 2021 she co-founded Fire Wife Life and The Fire Family. Kathy serves on numerous non-profit boards and has served as the President of the Atlanta Fire Department Womenโ€™s Auxiliary, and on the Superintendentโ€™s School Improvement Council for the largest school system in the state of Georgia.
โ€‹
Kathy has been married to retired Atlanta fire Captain Todd Edwards for 35 years, and together they have raised 2 incredible adult children. When not working they spend their time together with family and friends, traveling, and watching The Ohio State University and the Pittsburgh Steelers play football!

As a lead facilitator for Fire Wife Life, Kathy presents the message of community, togetherness, support, and inclusion. So many wives feel isolated from their spouseโ€™s job family, and their โ€œcivilianโ€ friends donโ€™t understand their lifestyle or the unique challenges that they face. In bringing the message of Fire Wife Life forward, she encourages women to feel comfortable in asking for help, speaking their needs to other wives, and not being afraid to be a part of the fire family community. Simultaneously, the message and navigation of the importance of seeing oneโ€™s own worth and having oneโ€™s own identity outside of โ€œfire spouseโ€ is imperative to having a successful marriage and a healthy family dynamic.

We are beyond excited to have Kathy back this year as our speaker and are planning an even bigger and better class. Save the date for Sept 6, 2025!!

Also, GO BUCKS ๐Ÿ˜œ

Black Sheep Fire Training

Put it in your calendar!! Spouse class will be 9/6/25! Bigger and better than last year. More details to come ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป
11/06/2024

Put it in your calendar!! Spouse class will be 9/6/25! Bigger and better than last year. More details to come ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป

We are beyond excited to announce our line up for the 3rd Black Sheep Fire Conference in 2025. We are still ironing out details on H.O.T. Class tracks. We can tell you Wednesday/Thursday will be H.O.T. and Friday/Saturday will be lecture. We will have even more announcements coming as we look to add an additional instructor. We will once again be offering a spouse track by Black Sheep Sisterhood . Tickets will go on sale in early 2025! We have been working nonstop since we wrapped up our 2024 conference.

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