12/23/2025
Thank you for believing in this mission and helping honor the memory of a woman who exemplified kindness, resilience, and selfless dedication. If you would like to continue supporting this noble cause, please consider donating through www.cfozarks.org/pettit. Every donation, small or large, makes an impact. With immense gratitude—Clay Pettit.
Mary’s story is one that needs to be remembered and honored because it reflects resilience and love. My mom, Mary P. Pettit, was born in El Cerrito, CA, and spent her childhood in Sebastopol, CA, where she grew up surrounded by the farms and small-town charm. She later met my dad, Thomas D. Pettit, while he was stationed at Naval Air Station Alameda during his time in the U.S. Navy in the 1960s. They decided to move to his hometown in Isabella, MO, where they built their life and raised me, my brother Tommy, and, later on, helped raise her grandson, Stephen.
Life wasn’t always easy for Mom. She was scammed out of $54,000 of her retirement fund, made some tough investments, and worked tirelessly managing two jobs to make ends meet. Through all her challenges, she kept a smile on her face and always found time to help Stephen with his homework after her long days at work. She was a constant force of positivity in
our lives, and she never stopped giving everything she had to those around her.
After she passed away in 2020, I created the Mary P. Pettit Memorial Scholarship Fund to honor her love of learning and helping others. This scholarship fund allowed me to turn one of the hardest moments of my life into something meaningful—not just for me, but for the students at Lutie High School in Theodosia, MO.
Lutie High School holds a special place in my heart. It’s full of wonderful teachers who care deeply about their students, though many of those students end up working right after high school, often on their family
farms in the area. For those who dream of attending college or trade school,
finances can be a hurdle. That’s why the Memorial Scholarship is so impactful—it’s there to help bridge the gap and give them a chance at pursuing higher education.
I started setting the scholarship at $500, but by 2025, I’m proud to say it increased to $650 per student. It hasn’t been easy to get to this point. The fund started with just $206.05, and early on, I had to cover
the scholarships myself because there wasn’t enough funding. Then I sold two of
Mom’s properties and one of mine to get the fund to the crucial milestone of
$15,000, making the scholarship endowed and perpetual. It’s fulfilling to see this fund live on and continue helping Lutie students year after year.
Mom’s resilience, her belief in people, and her love of learning inspire me every day, and this scholarship fund ensures her legacy lives on to inspire others, too. If you’d like to donate and be part of this
special project, you can contribute here: www.cfozarks.org/pettit.
Every little bit helps a student in our community get closer to achieving their
dreams of higher education, whether $5 or $500.