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12/11/2023

I arrived at the address and honked the horn. After waiting a few minutes I honked again. Since this was going to be my last ride of my shift I thought about just driving away, but instead I put the car in park and walked up to the door and knocked.. 'Just a minute', answered a frail, elderly voice. I could hear something being dragged across the floor.
After a long pause, the door opened. A small woman in her 90's stood before me. She was wearing a print dress and a pillbox hat with a veil pinned on it, like somebody out of a 1940's movie.
By her side was a small nylon suitcase. The apartment looked as if no one had lived in it for years. All the furniture was covered with sheets.
There were no clocks on the walls, no knickknacks or utensils on the counters. In the corner was a cardboard box filled with photos and glassware.
'Would you carry my bag out to the car?' she said. I took the suitcase to the cab, then returned to assist the woman.
She took my arm and we walked slowly toward the curb.
She kept thanking me for my kindness. 'It's nothing', I told her.. 'I just try to treat my passengers the way I would want my mother to be treated.'
'Oh, you're such a good boy,’ she said. When we got in the cab, she gave me an address and then asked, 'Could you drive
through downtown?'
'It's not the shortest way,' I answered quickly..
'Oh, I don't mind,' she said. 'I'm in no hurry. I'm on my way to a hospice.’
I looked in the rear-view mirror. Her eyes were glistening. 'I don't have any family left,' she continued in a soft voice.. ‘The doctor says I don't have very long.' I quietly reached over and shut off the meter.
'What route would you like me to take?' I asked.
For the next two hours, we drove through the city. She showed me the building where she had once worked as an elevator operator.
We drove through the neighborhood where she and her husband had lived when they were newlyweds. She had me pull up in front of a furniture warehouse that had once been a ballroom where she had gone dancing as a girl.
Sometimes she'd ask me to slow in front of a particular building or corner and would sit staring into the darkness, saying nothing.
As the first hint of sun was creasing the horizon, she suddenly said, 'I'm tired. Let's go now'.
We drove in silence to the address she had given me. It was a low building, like a small convalescent home, with a driveway that passed under a portico.
Two orderlies came out to the cab as soon as we pulled up. They were solicitous and intent, watching her every move.
They must have been expecting her.
I opened the trunk and took the small suitcase to the door. The woman was already seated in a wheelchair.
'How much do I owe you?' She asked, reaching into her purse.
'Nothing,' I said.
'You have to make a living,' she answered.
'There are other passengers,' I responded.
Almost without thinking, I bent and gave her a hug. She held onto me tightly.
'You gave an old woman a little moment of joy,' she said. 'Thank you.'
I squeezed her hand, and then walked into the dim morning light.. Behind me, a door shut. It was the sound of the closing of a life..
I didn't pick up any more passengers that shift. I drove aimlessly lost in thought. For the rest of that day,I could hardly talk. What if that woman had gotten an angry driver, or one who was impatient to end his shift? What if I had refused to take the run, or had honked once, then driven away?
On a quick review, I don't think that I have done anything more important in my life.
We're conditioned to think that our lives revolve around great moments.
But great moments often catch us unaware-beautifully wrapped in what others may consider a small one.
PEOPLE MAY NOT REMEMBER EXACTLY WHAT YOU DID, OR WHAT YOU SAID ~BUT~ THEY WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER HOW YOU MADE THEM FEEL.
At the bottom of this great story was a request to forward this - I deleted that request because if you have read to this point, you won't have to be asked to pass it along you just will...
Life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we are here we might as well dance..........

08/01/2023

Due to technical difficulties, this page will now become inactive, and a new page will be created for the Alumni Association. Please be aware that an invitation to join the new page is legitimate. The new name will be "Talihina Tigers Alumni Association."

Sylvia James Sigler
Patty Sisk Hawkins
Charlotte Sisk Fitzgerald

07/07/2023

The Choctaw Indian Fair Stickball World Series is underway in Mississippi! The Choctaw Nation teams, Tvshkahomma and Tvshkahomma Ohoyo, are competing in both the men's and women's divisions. Our first appearance will be Friday, July 7, at 7:00 PM. View the full stickball schedule at www.choctawindianfair.com/stickball. To watch the games live, visit bit.ly/46D56sn.

07/04/2023
04/02/2023

More info coming soon and how to RSVP for our Celebration happening in McAlester - for now just save the date!

10/19/2022

Good afternoon Alumni:
After much contemplation, the officers have voted to cancel this year’s All-School Reunion. Many factors weighed into the decision, and it was not made lightly. We only had a few responses, and even fewer that committed to being here by pre-paying, so it only makes sense to cancel and begin preparations now to have a huge BLOWOUT next year! Talihina will have a high school football team next year, so we will plan around the Homecoming festivities, as we have in the past. Thank you all for understanding. If you have paid for this year, your money will be returned to you right away! Please feel free to contact this page with any questions or concerns.

10/18/2022

Can someone that is in contact with June Cannon give her the info about paying for the Reunion?
She sent me a message but I can't reply since she's not on messenger.
Thank you!

10/17/2022

Let us know if you are making plans to come for the Reunion.
So,far less than 10 people have paid and RSVP.

Please RSVP on the Alumni Association page.$20 per person Info for pre-payVenmo@ Patty Hawkins 22PayPalhawkins_mama@yaho...
10/07/2022

Please RSVP on the Alumni Association page.
$20 per person
Info for pre-pay
Venmo@ Patty Hawkins 22
PayPal
[email protected]
PO Box 826
Talihina.Ok.74571

Checks made out to Talihina Alumni Association

918 429 5585

My number
918 721 4073
Charlotte
918 413 2328

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Talihina, OK
74571

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