Tacoma Death Cafe

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Tacoma Death Cafe At a Death Cafe people drink tea, eat cake and discuss death. Our aim is to increase awareness of death to help people make the most of their (finite) lives.

Land Acknowledgment

We must acknowledge that Tacoma Death Cafe holds services on the ancestral territory of Coast Salish peoples, specifically the Puyallup, who have called this area home since time immemorial. The 1854 Medicine Creek Treaty forcibly removed them to the Puyallup reservation to make way for settlers, and we recognize that the privilege of our group being located on this land has come at great cost to indigenous people. We honor the resilience of the Puyallup Tribe and its people, who still live here, defend their rights, and contribute greatly to the well-being of all the people of this region.

This month we will be with Annika from Edwards Memorial at Mystic Sanctuary in Lakewood 🩷 Come October 28th for snacks a...
10/17/2026

This month we will be with Annika from Edwards Memorial at Mystic Sanctuary in Lakewood 🩷

Come October 28th for snacks and conversation 🩷🩷

10/04/2026

Knowing when to let an animal die is just as important as knowing how to save one.

This work is so, so full of fighting. Fighting infections, injuries, malnutrition, and all the things that threaten a life. We do everything we can to give these animals another chance, but there often comes a point when fighting for life is no longer what an animal needs.

This crow was dying. I gave him medication to help with any pain or discomfort he may have been experiencing, then took him outside and placed him beneath the trees. The sun was gentle, and there was a soft breeze moving through the branches. He passed within fifteen minutes.

I didn't sit beside him, stroke his feathers, cuddle him, or talk to him. I know that might be difficult for some people to understand, but wild animals don't need the same things we do when we're dying. Being handled or having a human hover over them causes fear and stress, especially when they're already so vulnerable. As humans we tend to be very empathetic, especially towards animals, but most animals just don’t communicate that way.

There is a weight that comes with this work that I don't think can ever really be explained to someone who hasn't carried it. You learn to make decisions that hurt you deeply because they are what an animal needs. You learn to sit with the sadness, to accept that you cannot save everyone, and to understand that sometimes love means letting go. I am proud to carry that weight.

I will always fight for the lives in my care but I will never believe that keeping an animal alive at any cost is the same thing as saving them. There is a responsibility in knowing the difference, and it is one I take seriously.

I consider it an honor to be trusted with that responsibility. Even when it hurts: especially when it hurts.

Donation button is live, because we’re low on funds. Any amount helps us help them.

— Halli

09/25/2026

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09/18/2026

I loved my dog so much that when he was sick and in pain, I had a vet come to my house to give him a painless voyage to doggie heaven. Most people don’t have a problem with that, but when it comes to humans many think you better fu***ng not, or we’ll throw your ass in prison, which is what they did to Dr. Jack Kevorkian.

--On This Day in History S**t Went Down: September 17, 1998--

Poor Jack. He just wanted to help people. A pathologist born in Michigan in 1928, he had some odd ideas early in his career about s**t like experimenting on death row inmates (with their permission) and transfusing blood from dead people. These ideas did not catch on. But the ā€œhey I’m in fu***ng agony and it’s only going to get worse please let me dieā€ idea did.

In the late ā€˜80s Dr. Kevorkian put an ad in some Detroit Newspapers offering his services as a physician consultant for ā€œdeath counseling.ā€ His first client was Janet Adkins in 1990, a 54-year-old woman suffering from Alzheimer’s. The location of her death was not the most dignified; it was in the back of Kevorkian’s rusty old VW Microbus. That’s where he plied his trade with most of his assisted su***de clients, using a homemade su***de machine. Sometimes death was delivered via drugs, other times carbon monoxide. For legal reasons, Kevorkian required his clients to trigger their own deaths using the machine, although he hooked them up to it. The first time he used it he was charged with first-degree murder.

The charges were dropped six months later because it turned out Michigan didn’t have any laws against assisted su***de at the time. But the state yanked his medical license and said no more doctoring for you. Still, he kept on, assisting in approximately 130 su***des over the next eight years, earning the moniker ā€œDr. Death.ā€ Then he pushed too far.

Kevorkian said he wasn’t about causing death, but ending suffering. He was trying to push society to be accepting of medical aid in dying. On September 17, 1998 he assisted in the death of 52-year-old Thomas Youk, who was in the final stages of ALS. Youk gave informed consent, but what was different this time was that Dr. Kevorkian himself flipped the switch. Before that he’d been assisting su***des. This time he took the final action causing Youk’s death, which is euthanasia. He also videotaped it and allowed the film to be shown on 60 Minutes two months later as a f**k you what you gonna do about it to the government. And the government said we’re gonna lock you the f**k up.

The state had tried and failed to prosecute Kevorkian four times, but this time they had the evidence to convict. He was sentenced to 10 to 25 years in prison and served eight. He died four years after he was released, at the age of 83. Due in large part to his efforts, many regions now allow assisted su***de for those who are suffering and/or terminally ill.

NOTE: This piece was researched and written by a human, not some bulls**t "ai" plagiarism software.

Those who cannot remember the past need a history teacher who says ā€œf**kā€ a lot. Get both volumes of ON THIS DAY IN HISTORY S**T WENT DOWN at JamesFell.com/books.

09/13/2026

We have a meeting this Wednesday!
I'll post the event soon but we will be meeting one more time on Tacoma Ave and then we're going to be transitioning for a little bit so stay tuned 🩷

09/11/2026

COMMUNITY DEATHCARE GROUPS!

Have you created, or are you a member of, an active community deathcare group that meets regularly?

Are you interested in creating or joining a community deathcare group near you?

We want to know where people are gathering, learning, talking, sharing skills, building relationships, and exploring ways to care for one another before, during, and after death.

Drop your group, location, and link in the comments. Tell people what you do, and how they can become involved. Let’s find each other!

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2338 Tacoma Avenue S
Tacoma, WA
98402

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