08/28/2026
Finding Mr. James Bandy
For years, the gravestone of James Bandy was something of a mystery. I first noticed the granite grave marker in 2018. It seemed a little out of place compared to other burials in Oak Lawn, and I couldn't locate any information about a "Jim" or "James" Bandy who passed away around 1920 buried in Oak Lawn. I hoped to meet family or relatives in the cemetery, but had no luck. This week, I finally realized that the date on the stone, June 12, 1920, might not refer to the date of death, but a date of birth. With a little research, I think I've identified the right person.
The Bandy Family hails from Edgecombe and Halifax Counties in North Carolina. James Bandy was born in Rocky Mount (Edgecombe County), the son of William Turner Bandy (b. ca. 1870), a farmer, of Edgecombe County, N. C., and Miss Lottie Ward (ca. 1870-1930).
Records note James Bandy as a resident of Suffolk by the 1940s. He married Miss Allease Jones, daughter of of William Jones and Maggie Warren, in 1946. By 1950, the couple was documented in a residence on Wellons Street, with James listed as a laborer in a saw mill. Alease passed away in 1969, and was interred in the family cemetery in Isle of Wight County, Virginia. James married Miss Christine R. Copeland in 1973.
Mr. James Bandy passed away on June 14, 1984. Graveside services were held June 18th, with the Crocker Funeral Home in charge of arrangements.