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OUCH Trigger Alert 😣 We often ask this question…What is one attitude, habit, or reaction YOU are personally willing to c...
05/30/2026

OUCH Trigger Alert 😣
We often ask this question…

What is one attitude, habit, or reaction YOU are personally willing to change to strengthen your marriage?

Folks don’t like this question.
One major reason for folks being resistant to personal ownership is self-protection.

Let’s Get This….
Once I enter self-protect mode, my primary goal is no longer connection or understanding.
My primary goal becomes self-preservation. I go from Synergy thinking to Survival thinking. It’s a mechanism of the brain that operates on safety. I’m not feeling safe.

If I admit “this is on me,” I also have to face the possibility that I’ve contributed to pain, tension, or distance. It’s easier to shift blame outward than to sit in that discomfort. Remember I’m in self-preservation mode.

Jesus resisted all self preservation mode and died for the church, while we were yet sinners. This is God’s M.O for NT discipleship community - Submission (read Ephesians 5).

Pic of us - Oh yeah
We had the ability of being stubborn, mad and experts at debates & spats. We were “good” at being bad.

Then we realized we are on the same team - 1 Flesh.


Tony Palow Susan Fehr-Palow

Tonight we are talking about turning your BATTLE LANGUAGE into BRIDGE LANGUAGEFirst time teaching this session Tony Pal...
05/29/2026

Tonight we are talking about turning your BATTLE LANGUAGE into BRIDGE LANGUAGE

First time teaching this session


Tony Palow Susan Fehr-Palow
Pastor James Lilley

Heading OutCoaching Life Let’s GoLets Grow By the way we have 25% of 2027 already BOOKED 🎯 - that’s a massive shift from...
05/29/2026

Heading Out
Coaching Life
Let’s Go
Lets Grow

By the way we have 25% of 2027 already BOOKED 🎯 - that’s a massive shift from the year prior…. And we haven’t even hit mid point of 2026 yet. We are hitting and passing targets & goals.

Dont Snooze - DM US NOW
DM “Book” and get these international marriage coaches to your city.


Listening is living because:♥️ It breathes life into communication.♥️ It prevents assumptions and unnecessary conflict.♥...
05/28/2026

Listening is living because:

♥️ It breathes life into communication.
♥️ It prevents assumptions and unnecessary conflict.
♥️ It creates emotional intimacy.
♥️ It tells your spouse: You matter enough for me to slow down and understand you.

Many marriages don’t collapse from one major moment — they slowly erode through years of unheard feelings, interrupted conversations, distracted responses, and unmet emotional needs. Remember when I’m hurt is when I need to be heard.

Sometimes the greatest gift you can give your spouse is not advice, correction, or solutions — but your full attention.

Listening is one of the purest expressions of love.

If you’re working on your listening skills….SHARE this post. 🙄



Tony Palow Susan Fehr-Palow

This was us last year at the House of Prayer Church in Waterbury, Connecticut. 😂We are excited to go back & partner wit...
05/26/2026

This was us last year at the
House of Prayer Church in Waterbury, Connecticut. 😂

We are excited to go back & partner with this amazing apostolic church…with their Pastor James Lilley 🔥
Tony Palow Susan Fehr-Palow

Caption This 🙄 ⬇️ ⬇️ ⬇️

Heading back once again to House of Prayer Church in Waterbury, CT with Pastor James Lilley.This was an apostolic church...
05/20/2026

Heading back once again to House of Prayer Church in Waterbury, CT with
Pastor James Lilley.
This was an apostolic church with a fire for renewal.

Let’s Go
Let’s Grow




Now booking for 2027 📅
Tony Palow Susan Fehr-Palow

What a blessing to meet up with Steve and Kim Kudzma from Praise Tabernacle. The are the marriage ministry directors. ...
05/17/2026

What a blessing to meet up with
Steve and Kim Kudzma from Praise Tabernacle. The are the marriage ministry directors.
There is a direct correlation between marriage ministry and the health of the church according to statician Georg Barna. In our travels, churches that are investing in marriages have strong leadership platforms that lead and drive the church, along with strong ministries.

Churches that have a strong marriage ministry usually understand something important: if marriages are healthy, the church becomes healthy. They treat marriage not as a side program, but as a foundational discipleship lane.

Thank you Steve and Kim

Today’s crew Praise Tabernaclewasn’t afraid of the heavy lifting. They embraced the coaching, responded with discipline...
05/16/2026

Today’s crew Praise Tabernacle
wasn’t afraid of the heavy lifting. They embraced the coaching, responded with discipline, and pushed themselves beyond their limits to break through limitations.
Growth happens when folks are ready for the challenge —— When pressure meets purpose.



Tony Palow Susan Fehr-Palow

Truth Overrides Theory Consider Attachment Theory By John Bolby So much of how we respond in our marriage comes from the...
05/15/2026

Truth Overrides Theory

Consider Attachment Theory
By John Bolby

So much of how we respond in our marriage comes from the connections we experienced early in life. Attachment theory helps us understand why some people naturally trust and connect easily, while others struggle with fear, distance, insecurity, or vulnerability.
The way we love, communicate, handle conflict, and even protect ourselves is often connected to how safe, seen, and supported we felt growing up.

Consider Truth
Out past doesn’t have to define our future. Healing, healthy relationships, freedom, self-awareness, and growth can help us build secure, Christlike and life-giving connections with our spouse.



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