10/15/2026
What does a sextortion attempt actually look like? Sometimes, it starts with a message that seems completely harmless.
Recently, The Rowan Center's own social media account received this DM, giving us a real example of the red flags to watch for.
š© A stranger acting overly familiar, saying things like āI've seen you around.ā
š© Quickly trying to move the conversation to another app, like Snapchat.
What may start as a casual conversation can escalate into requests for intimate images, followed by threats or demands for money.
If you receive a suspicious message, don't engage. Don't reply, block the account, and report it to the platform.
And if you've already responded or shared an image, know that support is available. You deserve help without judgment.
The Rowan Center's free, confidential helpline is available 24/7.
English: 203-329-2929
Spanish: 888-568-8332