09/29/2026
by Paul Martin
Prince. Tom Petty. Mac Miller. Now Hayden Panettiere. And last week, Cindy Crawford’s 27-year-old son, Presley Ge**er, died in what police are investigating as a suspected overdose.
Their deaths are tragic. Because unlike grief that follows an expected fatality, traumatic grief is different. It follows an event such as a death that is sudden, unexpected, or violent. The shock leaves survivors processing both the event itself and the trauma of how it happened, intensifying feelings of disbelief, fear, anger, and helplessness. The sudden death of a child can be particularly devastating because there is no opportunity to prepare or say goodbye.
The families of Hayden Panettiere and Presley Ge**er deserve every ounce of sympathy they receive.
But there is something about the attention that troubles me.
Approximately five hundred thousand Americans have been poisoned in the last decade by fentanyl. That means one million parents grieve the loss of their child. Add siblings and grandparents, it’s over five million.
Most of their names never made a headline...
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