04/14/2024
One of my favorite quotes from Anne Lamott is, "Everything Iβve ever let go of has claw marks on it."
***You want me to give up what!?!***
Good luck prying that out of my cold dead hands!
Personally, I don't think humans are consciously capable of letting things go anymore than we are able to forgive, surrender, or practice self-love in a vacuum.
We can point our focus in those directions but the minute we try and release something with our will, we're actually causing the opposite to happen. Clinging and aversion increase rather than decrease.
Then, what's even worse, is when every spiritual podcast and IG account tells us we just need to let go but we can't figure out how to do that, we punch ourselves in the face a second time because we've failed at the one thing everyone says will make us feel better.
The only thing that has ever helped me let anything go is to simply LET IT BE. To accept the situation just the way it is. When I decide I'm ready to not change anything, my claws retract and the thing I've been holding onto for dear life slips quietly out of my hand and consciousness.
This isn't a new philosophy, it's thousands of years old. It's just more important now because every supposed spiritual and psychedelic influencer keeps telling you to let s**t go and I'm sad for those of you who live in guilt and shame because you can't figure it out. You be you, boo!
There's nothing to figure out, dear reader. You've done nothing wrong. You make perfect sense. You're perfect and you're right on time.
Need help? Shoot me a msg. We can let it be together. There are super gentle ways to do this and it all starts with a single breath. β€οΈβπ©Ήπβ€οΈβπ©Ή