Just Enduring

Just Enduring No one should endure child loss alone. 𝙒𝙚’𝙫𝙚 𝙗𝙚𝙚𝙣 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚, and we’re here for 𝙔𝙊𝙐. 🧡 Let us be your shoulder to lean on, every step of the way.

Lindsey HandMay 12, 1995 – May 28, 2020Today we honor sweet Lindsey. We thought of you with love today, but that was not...
05/28/2026

Lindsey Hand
May 12, 1995 – May 28, 2020

Today we honor sweet Lindsey. We thought of you with love today, but that was nothing new. We thought about you yesterday, and the days before that too. We think of you in silence, we often speak your name. Now all we have are memories, and your picture in a frame. Your memory is our keepsake, with which we will never part. God has you in His keeping, we have you in our hearts.

Read Lindsey’s story here: https://justenduring.org/our-childrens-stories/lindseys-story/

This Memorial Day during Mental Health Awareness Month, we honor the soldiers who lost their lives while serving our cou...
05/25/2026

This Memorial Day during Mental Health Awareness Month, we honor the soldiers who lost their lives while serving our country and hold space for their families—every soldier is someone’s child, grandchild, friend; many are also siblings, cousins, aunts, and uncles.

Grief after losing a loved one can bring profound mental health challenges. Prolonged grief disorder (PGD), especially among bereaved parents, may include depression, cognitive changes, and familial discord (World Journal of Psychiatry). Studies suggest that nearly half of older bereaved parents in the U.S. may experience PGD.

Evidence-based approaches like cognitive behavioral therapy can help families navigate reminders of loss and rebuild a sense of hope for the future.

To help grieving families access therapeutic resources like these, we’re creating a Grief Resource Directory. This will be a national, searchable platform for connecting families to local therapists, support groups, and other trusted resources.

Until then, our website offers free guides, media recommendations, and events for families, friends, and caregivers: https://justenduring.org/

We’re holding in our hearts everyone who’s lost a family member, and we extend our deepest gratitude to those who’ve bravely served our country.

Henrik AubreyMay 1–20, 2018We honor the memory of Henrik Aubrey—loved beyond words from the moment he arrived. Though hi...
05/20/2026

Henrik Aubrey
May 1–20, 2018

We honor the memory of Henrik Aubrey—loved beyond words from the moment he arrived. Though his life was brief, his impact is everlasting. He will forever be in our hearts. 🤍

Ella Marie MertensApril 4, 2016 – May 15, 2017Today we honor sweet Ella. She was such a bright spot to everyone she met!...
05/15/2026

Ella Marie Mertens
April 4, 2016 – May 15, 2017

Today we honor sweet Ella. She was such a bright spot to everyone she met! With her contagious smile and big blue eyes, she always made fast friends. If she wanted something, she would just point at it and ask, "What's that?" Ella loved playing peek-a-boo, dancing, eating ice cream, reading, and snuggling. She also loved being outside, and one of her all-time favorite activities was sitting in front of our house and waving at all the cars as they passed.⁠

Read Ella’s story here: https://justenduring.org/our-childrens-stories/better-because-of-ella/

GwendolynSeptember 23, 2014 – May 12, 2023Today we remember and honor Gwendolyn. 🐘💛 Though her time here was too short, ...
05/12/2026

Gwendolyn
September 23, 2014 – May 12, 2023

Today we remember and honor Gwendolyn. 🐘💛 Though her time here was too short, the love she brought into this world continues to live on in the hearts of all who carry her memory and the incredible work of . We are holding her family close today as they continue to honor her beautiful life.

Join us in honoring Lindsey Hand by supporting a meaningful cause. 💙Lindsey, the beloved daughter of longtime Just Endur...
05/11/2026

Join us in honoring Lindsey Hand by supporting a meaningful cause. 💙

Lindsey, the beloved daughter of longtime Just Enduring supporter Lester Hand , passed away in 2020. In her memory, Lester began hosting an annual golf fundraiser each May around her birthday. Since then, this event has raised thousands to support our mission.

This year, Lester’s already surpassed his original $2,000 goal. Let’s help him reach $5,000!

Every gift makes a difference. Donate here: https://justenduring.org/donate/lindsey-hand-golf-fundraiser/

Happy Mother’s Day to all moms—the reason we’re here, our biggest supporters, and the steady presence through both our h...
05/10/2026

Happy Mother’s Day to all moms—the reason we’re here, our biggest supporters, and the steady presence through both our happiest and hardest seasons. We see all that you carry, and we’re so deeply grateful.

Today, we want to uplift one extraordinary mom who has given so much to our mission. Mary—mom to our co-founder Ben—has been a dedicated volunteer since the very beginning of Just Enduring.

Always creative, Mary is behind many of our gift baskets and custom merch, including the tumblers we give as round prizes at Music Bingo. Each year, she also handcrafts 2 quilts for our silent auction, signing them “Jackson’s grandma.”

She’s always asking how she can do more, continually amazing us with her generosity and dedication. The way she speaks about Ben and Lara’s son, her grandson, Jackson, you’d never guess she shares that same love with 11 other grandchildren. She’s simply that devoted.

She’s the kind of mom anyone would wish for, and we’re incredibly lucky to have her.

Thank you, Mary, for everything you do. And to all moms: thank you for the love, strength, and care you give every single day. 💐

05/10/2026

Today, we honor all mothers for doing the most important work in the world.

In our community, motherhood is deeply tied to the names we carry—the names we’ll never forget. If you’ve lost a child, their memory continues to live on. We honor their lives every single day, and we honor your love for them. You will always be their mother.

Thank you, Katy, for sharing a piece of your story with us. Katy is mother to Barrett, her beautiful son who passed away in 2019 at just 28 days old.

In his memory, Katy and her husband Tyler created Blessings for Barrett, where they provide personalized grief boxes, comfort bags, and quarterly projects for children who’ve lost a sibling.

We’re so grateful for the compassion and care they bring to families. If you haven’t already, we encourage you to follow their work and share their resources.

Wishing you all a gentle and meaningful Mother’s Day.

We’re over the moon to partner with St. Louis Community Foundation again this year for their online day of giving! Every...
05/07/2026

We’re over the moon to partner with St. Louis Community Foundation again this year for their online day of giving!

Every May on Give STL Day, they amplify a thousand local nonprofits to increase charitable giving. Over the past decade, they’ve raised over $34 million from this event to keep the St. Louis community thriving.

Will you join us in giving today?

Donate here: https://www.givestlday.org/organization/justenduring

Today, May 3rd, is International Bereaved Mother's Day. It’s a day set apart for mothers who love children they cannot h...
05/03/2026

Today, May 3rd, is International Bereaved Mother's Day.

It’s a day set apart for mothers who love children they cannot hold.

For mothers who carry a name in their hearts that the rest of the world has grown quiet about.

For mothers who know that Mother's Day next week will be beautiful and painful all at once.

Today is heavy, but we have each other. We will always cherish the love you have for your child. We will always keep their memory in our hearts.

This doesn’t take the pain away, but we hope you know:

You’re not alone. You never will be.

We recently shared Kelly’s story of tragically losing her daughter Julia on Mother’s Day in 2024. This line from her story will always stick with us: you are, eternally, a mother.

No matter your loss, no matter your journey. You are a mother. And that’s a beautiful and complicated thing.

Read Kelly’s story here: https://justenduring.org/living-and-loving-after-child-loss-blog/i-lost-my-daughter-on-mothers-day-3-truths-im-believing/

Our dear sweet son, forever loved, never forgotten.
05/02/2026

Our dear sweet son, forever loved, never forgotten.

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