Mitchell County SafePlace

Mitchell County SafePlace Working to end Domestic Violence

We’re hiring a Shelter Site & Services Manager!This position plays an important role in supporting survivors, coordinati...
05/28/2026

We’re hiring a Shelter Site & Services Manager!

This position plays an important role in supporting survivors, coordinating shelter services, providing advocacy and case management, and helping with prevention education and outreach in our community.

We’re looking for someone compassionate, organized, reliable, and committed to serving survivors of domestic violence and sexual assault.

For more details and to apply, visit the job posting on Indeed.

https://www.indeed.com/job/shelter-site-services-manager-53c08f97c736cd4a

Check this out! 🤩Shopping at SafePlace Thrift is a great, easy way to support survivors 💜
05/13/2026

Check this out! 🤩

Shopping at SafePlace Thrift is a great, easy way to support survivors 💜

Come visit at SafePlace Thrift! Today is the last day of Sexual Assault Awareness Month! We have fun things to give away...
04/30/2026

Come visit at SafePlace Thrift! Today is the last day of Sexual Assault Awareness Month! We have fun things to give away including mini footballs, buttons, and lanyards and information for survivors 🩵

What can we do to act for change?As individuals, we can challenge harmful cultural norms when we see them:- challenge vi...
04/29/2026

What can we do to act for change?

As individuals, we can challenge harmful cultural norms when we see them:

- challenge victim-blaming language in conversations
- teach and model consent
- believe and respect survivors
- speak up when boundaries are ignored
- support prevention education
- hold harmful behavior accountable

Changing attitudes changes outcomes. Changing outcomes changes communities.

Each of us has a role in creating safer homes, schools, churches, and workplaces.

Acting starts with understanding risk.Sexual violence is shaped by environments, not isolated events. When victim-blamin...
04/28/2026

Acting starts with understanding risk.

Sexual violence is shaped by environments, not isolated events. When victim-blaming, harmful norms, and lack of accountability are tolerated, the conditions that allow violence to continue stay in place.

Prevention is cultural. Culture is set in everyday spaces: relationships, workplaces, faith communities, schools, and social circles.

So the question: what can I do? How can I help create change? You can decide what you normalize and what you won’t tolerate. When enough individuals make those choices consistently, it shifts the expectations of a community and culture changes.

Change happens when individuals stop letting those attitudes go unchallenged and instead set a clear standard: respect, accountability, and belief in survivors.

We’re kicking off the final week of Sexual Assault Awareness Month by focusing on how we can ACT for change.Today, we’ll...
04/27/2026

We’re kicking off the final week of Sexual Assault Awareness Month by focusing on how we can ACT for change.

Today, we’ll be at SafePlace Thrift sharing awareness materials and resources, along with small items as a thank-you for stopping by. More importantly, we’ll be there to talk about sexual assault, answer questions, and share ways you can support survivors and help prevent violence in our community.

“She was asking for it,” “boys can’t be raped,” or “they were drunk” reflect harmful myths about sexual violence. These ...
04/24/2026

“She was asking for it,” “boys can’t be raped,” or “they were drunk” reflect harmful myths about sexual violence. These types of beliefs shift attention away from where it belongs and contribute to victim-blaming.

Sexual assault is never caused by what someone was wearing, whether they were drinking, how they responded, or whether they said “no” in a certain way. Responsibility always lies with the person who chose to harm another person.

Survivors deserve to be believed and supported. Accountability belongs to the perpetrator.

Consent should never be based on assumptions, pressure, silence, or uncertainty. It must be clearly communicated, freely...
04/22/2026

Consent should never be based on assumptions, pressure, silence, or uncertainty. It must be clearly communicated, freely given, and can be withdrawn at any time. If there is doubt, pause and ask. Respect means making sure everyone involved is comfortable, willing, and able to say yes.

"We shouldn't question survivors. We should question why we were taught to doubt them."Sexual violence is widely underre...
04/21/2026

"We shouldn't question survivors. We should question why we were taught to doubt them."

Sexual violence is widely underreported. Research estimates that only 20–30% of survivors report it to law enforcement. Of those who do report, there is often little or no physical evidence, which can lead to little or no accountability for the abuser. False reports of sexual violence are rare, estimated at around 2–8%, meaning the vast majority of reports are truthful.

Survivors who come forward are often asked to tell their story over and over again- to officers, in court, and to people who question what they went through. Many also face pressure to stay quiet, with messages like “I wish she would just move on,” which can make it even harder to speak up or continue forward.

The decision to report or not to report is not simple. Survivors often weigh safety, fear, shame, relationships, and how they will be treated if they speak out. The emotional and mental toll of that decision is heavy and not something most people see or understand without the full picture.

When people automatically doubt survivors, they aren’t being careful or objective. They’re repeating a bias that already discourages reporting in the first place.

Believing survivors is not about ignoring facts. It’s about not letting stigma decide whose voice is taken seriously.

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PO Box 544
Spruce Pine, NC
28777

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