10/28/2024
Proverbs 28:13, "He who covers his sins will not prosper, But whoever confesses and forsakes them will have mercy."
This principle is the foundation of any real and actual discipleship. There is not enough room here to unpack the whole thing, but I can say this much, find somebody you can tell the truth to, all of it.
The word for cover is 'kasah', and it means simply to cover up, hide, to conceal.
If I cover my own sins: I create a phony persona, a lie, presenting myself as something and someone I am not. Whatever sins I hide with this method, I also add to by lying about it. Now I have to cover the original sin problem, and the subsequent sin problem that I made by covering it up. And then it becomes a cycle of lying, covering, shame, denial, more lies, more shame, on and on.
Left unhealed and unchecked, it can create some serious spiritual/emotional/mental issues. There are many people who have followed the path of self cover for so long, they have given themselves an emotional fracture, like a fault line, a personality split as it were, and now live in an alternate reality, not only denying and refusing to face the truth, but they are not able to do so. These cases have, imo, transitioned out of the ministry of the counselor into the ministry of deliverance.
Listen, it is way better to just confess it, start small till you can get it all out, confess it and forsake it and you will find mercy -not judgment- mercy.