Love Like Seth

Love Like Seth This page is in memory of my son Seth Shover who lost his life in 02/06/2024.

05/04/2026

Mental Health Awareness info… 🫶🏼❤️‍🩹

04/25/2026

Please read this… this understand it’s more than the “out loud” signs… mental health is far more complex than that… 🫶🏼

04/21/2026

Don’t kill yourself bcuz the people who are still here, will not only miss you… but they will never be the same without you… ever…. STAY ❤️‍🩹;

04/16/2026

; 🫶🏼❤️‍🩹 I hope you stay!

04/12/2026

From a Su***de Awareness page: PLEASE SHARE!!!

Be careful with people who have HIGH FUNCTIONING DEPRESSION.

Let's go through this together 👇👇

1. They get up, get dressed, go to work, and cry in silence when nobody’s watching.

2. They check on everybody else, but don’t feel safe asking for help themselves.

3. Their smile is practiced, their “I’m fine” is automatic, their breakdowns are private.

4. They appear to be okay, give solid advice, and hold everybody down, but when the world gets quiet, their thoughts get loud.

5. You think they’re okay because they’re productive, but they only stay busy to avoid feeling anything.

6. High functioning depression doesn’t look like laziness, it looks like overworking, overthinking, and never resting.

7. They keep it together in public, but fall apart in the shower, in traffic, or right before bed.

8. Just because they don’t say “I’m struggling” doesn’t mean they’re not drowning inside.

9. They apologize for being “too much” when they’ve really just been holding too much in.

10. They make everyone feel better, but go home feeling empty.

So when someone says “check on your strong friends,” Don’t just repost it. Do it. Because the ones who always say “I got it” are usually the ones who don’t. They suffer in silence. They laugh through pain. And they master how to function when they’re barely holding on.

***deAwareness

02/09/2026

❤️‍🩹

02/02/2026

This is why i went back... this is why I am learning the things I am, no matter how hard it is.
From my school lesson this week:
"Su***de Prevention
In the United States, as of 2019, su***de was the 10th leading cause of death. Su***de is when an individual harms themselves with the intent of ending their life. A su***de attempt is when an individual harms themselves with the intent to die, but the attempt does not result in death.

Nurses assess clients at a variety of stages of life and development. When asking about su***de, the nurse needs to directly ask the client in a one-on-one setting. The nurse has the responsibility to be clear in asking about su***de versus self-harm, as clients may view these as different topics. The nurse’s role here is to look for warning signs. Potential warning signs could be the client talking about wanting to die, withdrawing from their family or friends, giving away possessions, discussing death frequently with others, or reporting feelings of pain, emotionally or physically.

Su***de prevention can also be addressed in milieu therapy. This can encompass one-on-one observing or supervising, documenting the client’s location every 15 min, searching the client’s belongings for potential self-harm objects, and ensuring the client is taking their prescribed medication Additional information related to su***de prevention will be included in-depth in Mood Disorders and Su***de.

The different forms of therapy discussed early in this lesson can be implemented in addressing ACEs and the child’s resilience to the event. Resilience to ACEs can mean the client has positively adapted to the adversity. This can be viewed as being able to bounce back from difficult life effects, with traits such as determination, positivity, and hope. Positive childhood experiences (PCEs) can include things like being able to talk about feelings, having someone stand by them during a hard time, having a sense of belonging, etc. Those who have more PCEs have been shown to have better mental health than those who had fewer PCEs. Nurses can assist in the process by developing the nurse-client therapeutic relationship with the child. This can be done by showing a caring attitude and supportiveness to the child by ensuring they feel safe."

More current statistics:

Total Annual Deaths: In 2023, over 49,000 Americans died by su***de, and globally the number is over 740,000.

Gender Split: Men account for nearly 80% of su***de deaths in the U.S..

Age Demographic: While su***de is the second leading cause of death for those aged 10-24 and 25-34, the highest su***de rates are actually found in older adults (85+)

If you or someone you know is struggling, help is available. You can call or text 988 in the U.S. and Canada, or visit a local crisis center.

Send a message to learn more

Lots of love and prayers to her family.  My biggest frustration when Seth was in middle school and high school was this....
01/31/2026

Lots of love and prayers to her family. My biggest frustration when Seth was in middle school and high school was this. I went about it the way they wanted me to. I reported it. I told school officials. I documented it. But still. Year after year, he was bullied. Pretty much until the day he graduated and left. Honestly, I would have thought I would have lost him then. People can be cruel. And it doesn’t stop at school. It follows them home and social media has made that soooo much worse. We have to do better. We have to be better. And that starts at home. Be a good role model. Instill in your kids that bully is not tolerated. ZERO EXCEPTIONS. I think the reason Seth loved extra hard, is he knew how it felt to feel very unloved. ❤️‍🩹💔❤️‍🩹💔

🤍 You can post su***de prevention and mental health hotlines all you want.You can share quotes, hashtags, and awareness ...
01/16/2026

🤍 You can post su***de prevention and mental health hotlines all you want.

You can share quotes, hashtags, and awareness graphics every single day. 🌹

But if we truly want to prevent su***de, depression, and self-harm,
we also have to look at how we treat people—online and in real life. ✨

My son, Seth-struggled with his mental health from the time he was just 9 years old
It grew heavier when he was 13,and by the time he was 18—almost 19— the weight of it all became too much.

He carried pain most people never saw.
He struggled deeply with the relationship between him and his dad and that side of the family.
And like so many others, he fought battles quietly while trying to survive a world that didn’t always handle his vulnerability with care.

Because cruelty doesn’t always come from strangers.
Sometimes it comes from comments.
From jokes.
From gossip.
From public shaming.
From dismissive words like “you’re too sensitive” or “stop seeking attention.”

Words matter.
Online spaces matter.
The way we talk to people matters.

So many people are already fighting silent wars inside their own minds.
A harsh comment, a cruel post, or being mocked for opening up can be the thing that pushes them deeper into isolation—or convinces them to never speak again.

Su***de prevention isn’t only about crisis numbers.
It’s about compassion.
It’s about empathy
It’s about choosing kindness, especially when it would be easier to be harsh.

So before you comment, pause.
Before you judge, pause.
Before you shame someone for being vulnerable, pause.

Be kinder.
Be human.
Be the reason someone feels safe to stay.

If this resonates, please share it.
Check on someone you haven’t talked to in a while.
Listen without fixing.
Speak with gentleness.
Choose kindness—today and every day.

For Seth.
For others like him.
That’s how we save lives. 💙

01/14/2026

We are coming up on a few days that are extremely hard for us. The anniversary date of Seth leaving this world and his bday. We always try to do Bowling on his bday. Suggestions on this we do on the anniversary this year? Or things to do before we go bowling. We try to go to his Grave and do something.

As well as, Paisley has made more Love Like Seth bracelets that she’s selling for $2.00-$3.00 (a couple different designs) for anyone who wants one.

Have a great day! We love you.

01/03/2026

Just a small reminder my friends…

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