Sonoma GayDar

Sonoma GayDar Sonoma GayDar is a social networking group, bringing together the local LGBT community and friends.

How fun will this be! This Saturday at the Green Music Center! Reserve your seats today! San Francisco Gay Men's Chorus
06/03/2026

How fun will this be! This Saturday at the Green Music Center! Reserve your seats today!
San Francisco Gay Men's Chorus

SFGMC honors a music icon

Join us as we open the doors to The General’s Daughter for a Pride Dance on Saturday, June 13th.
05/28/2026

Join us as we open the doors to The General’s Daughter for a Pride Dance on Saturday, June 13th.

Music, wine and dancing will mark the public reopening of one of Sonoma’s best-known historic properties.
See more below

Pride Month is coming up. Here’s just one of the many events coming up on Thursday, June 18th. Q***r Trailblazers taking...
05/02/2026

Pride Month is coming up. Here’s just one of the many events coming up on Thursday, June 18th.
Q***r Trailblazers taking place at the Sonoma Community Center!
Reserve your tix today!

The countdown is on -  3 weeks from today. Pink Sonoma Rosé Wine Fest. Sunday, May 17th, in our new home at MacRostie Wi...
04/27/2026

The countdown is on - 3 weeks from today.
Pink Sonoma Rosé Wine Fest. Sunday, May 17th, in our new home at MacRostie Winery & Vineyards!

It's a stunning Russian River Valley Winery Estate to enjoy over 2 dozen wineries pouring their latest Rosé Wine Releases along with light bites from Chef Chad of Classic Culinaire, DJ Matt spinning the tunes along with more surprises!

And the afternoon benefits the local GSA Clubs at both Healdsburg High School and Sonoma Valley High!

So and join us to . Tix available now.

Our Sonoma International Film Festival begins next week and there are a number of   films and documentaries playing over...
03/20/2026

Our Sonoma International Film Festival begins next week and there are a number of films and documentaries playing over the course of 5 nights!
Check Out These Films:
FEATURE FILMS

The Little Sister
Thu March 26 | 4:00 PM | Woman's
Sun March 29 | 10:30 AM | Vets #2
Winner of the Best Actress Prize at Cannes for Nadia Melliti, this film is a tender, deeply moving coming-of-age drama about a devout Muslim teen in Paris torn between faith, family, s*xuality, and first love. (Dir. Hafsia Herzi/France/107min)

Maspalomas
Thu March 26 | 7:30 PM | Andrews
Fri March 27 | 12:30 PM | Andrews
Winner of Best Actor at the Spanish Academy Awards (Goyas) and the Silver Shell for Best Actor at San Sebastián Film Festival, Maspalomas is a bold, deeply moving drama about a proudly out gay man forced back into the closet after a stroke. Frank in its depiction of gay s*x and intimacy, it’s a powerful story of identity reclaimed. (Dir. Jose Mari Goenaga, Aitor Arregi/Spain/109min)"

On the Road
Thu March 26 | 11:30 AM | Andrews
Fri March 27 | 8:45 PM | Andrews
A weary trucker and a reckless hitchhiker forge a dangerous, intimate bond across Mexico’s highways. Winner of the Q***r Lion and Horizons Award at Venice, this heady, sensual thriller is erotic, volatile, and unforgettable. (Dir. David Pablos/Mexico/93min)

DOCUMENTARY FEATURES
Barbara Forever
Sat March 28 | 4:00 PM | Woman's
Packed with dazzling archival footage, Barbara Forever celebrates trailblazing experimental icon Barbara Hammer—a fearless pioneer of le***an cinema. Bold, intimate, and boundary-shattering, this electrifying portrait honors an artist who redefined q***r filmmaking forever. (Dir. Brydie O’Connor/USA/102min)

State of Firsts
Sat March 28 | 1:00 PM | Vets #1
With extraordinary access, this stirring documentary follows Sarah McBride, the first transgender person elected to Congress, through her historic first year—facing fierce backlash and personal attacks while fighting to govern with courage, resilience, and purpose. (Dir. Chase Joynt/USA/93min)

SHORT FILM PROGRAM
Out and About Shorts
Sat March 28 | 9:30 PM | Woman's
Joyful, fearless, and heartfelt, these LGBTQ+ stories celebrate identity, vulnerability, and self-discovery. From first love to fabulous drag, this uplifting lineup honors the courage it takes to live—and love—out loud. (96min)

A Bird Hit my Window and now I'm a Le***an
Sat March 28 | 9:30 PM | Woman's
After a mysterious girl shows up at Gray's doorstep holding the co**se of a bird that had just cracked her window, an impromptu bird funeral changes the way Gray views herself and her le***an identity. (Dir. AJ Dubler, Carmela Murphy/USA/8min)

The Deep Desire to Get Lost at Sea
Sat March 28 | 9:30 PM | Woman's
During World War II, lovers Franco and Jorge reunite at a motel in the Port of Ensenada, but the uncertainty of the visit and some unexpected news will force them to reconsider the future of their relationship. (Dir. Marco Aguilar/Mexico/28min)

The Handyman
Sat March 28 | 9:30 PM | Woman's
A heteros*xual handyman agrees to let the director film him naked, as long as it's set to his favorite song. (Dir. Fábio Leal/Brazil/5min)

Hugs
Fri March 27 | 6:00 PM | Woman's
A ride on a bike’s luggage rack is a sensory roller coaster through a land full of cuddles. (Dir. Nicolas Fong/Belgium/6min)

Seniors
Sat March 28 | 9:30 PM | Woman's
A high school senior goes on his first college campus tour the day his parents’ marriage begins to fracture. (Dir. Adam Curley/USA/12min)

Sunday Sauce
Sat March 28 | 9:30 PM | Woman's
A repressed, Italian-American father is thrust into his worst nightmare when his online crush shows up to his family’s traditional Sunday Sauce dinner. (Dir. Matt Campanella/USA/15min)

Two Black Boys in Paradise
Sat March 28 | 9:30 PM | Woman's
A movingly tender animation, based on Dean Atta’s eponymous poem, sees two boys — Edan, 19, and Dula, 18 — on a journey of self-acceptance and love – for each other and themselves. (Dir. Baz Sells/United Kingdom/9min)

Wannabe
Sat March 28 | 9:30 PM | Woman's
Two bullied 13-year-olds cling to their fierce friendship in a world that rejects them. (Dir. Katherine Cattani/Ecuador/11min)

You know you want a Martini! Join in the fun at a Martini Madness Pop-Up!Friday, Feb 27th!!!!
02/17/2026

You know you want a Martini!
Join in the fun at a Martini Madness Pop-Up!
Friday, Feb 27th!!!!

Friday, February 27 | 6:00–8:00 PM $50 per guest Gin or vodka—which one truly makes the perfect martini? This lively pop-up competition invites you to taste, compare, and vote. Your ticket includes: • One full-sized Hanson martini • Tasting pours of all six competitor martinis • Savory han...

Dragon PRIDE shirts are being ordered by the Sonoma Valley High School (Official) GSA Club (Gay Straight Alliance). They...
01/21/2026

Dragon PRIDE shirts are being ordered by the Sonoma Valley High School (Official) GSA Club (Gay Straight Alliance). They are being sold at their cost, which is $14 for the t-shirt version and $30 for the hoodie. Orders must be in by Wednesday. The link on the order form can also be used if you simply want to make a donation to the club in their fight to keep the Dragons' Rainbow flag flying at the high school. Wake Up Sonoma is collecting the donations on their behalf.

SVHS GSA is selling shirts at cost. Dragon Pride Shirts need to be ordered by Friday, January 23rd. Payment can be made through a direct Donation on the Wake Up Sonoma Webpage. Shirts are $14. Hoodies are $30

Hey everybody, come check this out! Every Wednesday!
01/07/2026

Hey everybody, come check this out! Every Wednesday!

🌈✨ WEDNES-GAY NIGHTS @ SONOMA SPEAKEASY! ✨🌈

We aren’t just Pride for a month — we’re PROUD all year long! 💫
WEDNES-GAY NIGHTS, a weekly celebration of Sonoma’s vibrant LGBTQ+ community!

Come as you are — or as you want to be — and dive into an evening filled with music, laughter, community, and love. We’ll have:
🎶 Groovy beats and q***r anthems all night long

🍸 A special drink menu made just for these nights (yes, they’re as fabulous as you think)

🧀 Charcuterie, cheese & snacks to nibble on — or bring your own bites to share with the fam!

🎤 Karaoke this week! trivia, and drag comedy are on the way!

✨ This isn’t just another Wednesday.
It’s a vibe. It’s a movement. It’s WEDNES-GAY NIGHT at the Speakeasy. ✨

💖 Doors open at 4PM — come early, stay fabulous.
🕗 Every Wednesday 7 - Close
📍 The Sonoma Speakeasy, 452 1st St E, Sonoma

Happy New Year from all of us at Sonoma GayDar! Here is a pic from our very first GayDar Gathering that was held on the ...
12/31/2025

Happy New Year from all of us at Sonoma GayDar! Here is a pic from our very first GayDar Gathering that was held on the patio of "Estate" (formerly, The General's Daughter!

12/25/2025

Merry Christmas Sonoma GayDar Friends!
🎄🎁❤️

Address

Sonoma, CA
95476

Website

Alerts

Be the first to know and let us send you an email when Sonoma GayDar posts news and promotions. Your email address will not be used for any other purpose, and you can unsubscribe at any time.

Share