03/10/2026
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Standing Firm in Faith โ A Testimony of a Grieving Father
A long post but please read to the end
I know someone needs to hear this I havenโt gone through what I have for God not to give me this message just to be written someone out there needs it!!!!
Today I stand before you not as someone with all the answers, but as a grieving father learningโday by dayโwhat it means to stand firm in faith.
Thereโs a song that has become one of my favorites.
Every time I hear it, it speaks straight to my soul. And if you know me, you know that sometimes when a song hits me like that, I feel led to share a testimony of how its words are true in my life.
One line says, โWhen the shadows rise around me and the winds of doubt grow strong, I will fix my eyes on JesusโHeโs my anchor.โ
That takes me straight back to August 7, 2023โthe day my precious son passed away.
Scripture says:
โLet us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith.โ (Hebrews 12:2)
And on that day, the shadows didnโt just riseโthey swallowed everything. But even in the darkest valley, Jesus was the anchor that held.
Another line says, โThough the world may shake beneath me, still Your truth will never move. Youโre my fortress, Youโre my refuge.โ
And God promises us:
โGod is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble.โ (Psalm 46:1)
โThe Lord is my rock, my fortress, and my deliverer.โ (Psalm 18:2)
My world did shake.
My heart did break.
And the devil didnโt miss a chance to whisper lies.
He told me it was my fault.
That I failed as a father.
That because it was my weapon, I should live in guilt forever.
But Godโs Word says:
โThere is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.โ (Romans 8:1)
Every day the enemy triesโbut every day I put on the armor of God and stand firm (Ephesians 6:10โ11).
That night, I cried out to God, โLord, I canโt handle this. You have to take it from me.โ
And He didโnot all at once, not by erasing the pain, but by carrying me.
Do I still struggle?
You dang right I do. Daily.
Jesus, You are my strength and my shield.
Just like Psalm 28:7 says:
โThe Lord is my strength and my shield; my heart trusts in Him, and He helps me.โ
The song says, โI will rise, I will remain firm in the power of Your name.โ
And the Bible says:
โThe name of the Lord is a strong tower; the righteous run to it and are safe.โ (Proverbs 18:10)
โWhen the fire tests my spirit and the night is closing in, You remind me You are with me and Your mercy never ends.โ
Thatโs Lamentations 3:22โ23:
โHis mercies never end; they are new every morning.โ
And I refuse to bow to fear or pressure becauseโฆ
โWhom the Son sets free is free indeed.โ (John 8:36)
God tells us:
โBe strong and courageous. Do not be afraid, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.โ (Joshua 1:9)
So this is my prayer:
โLord, let the world see the light I carry through the darkness. Let my life lift Your glory high.โ
Scripture says:
โLet your light shine before others.โ (Matthew 5:16)
In every storm, in every trial, in every valley, I will stand firm.
Not because Iโm strongโฆ
but because He is faithful.
I want to speak to two groups of people today:
1. those who are grieving,and
2. those who donโt yet know Jesus as their Savior.
(1st . A word to the grieving)
Maybe youโve lost someone.
Maybe your world has been shaken like mine.
Maybe you lie awake at night asking questions you canโt answer.
If thatโs you, hear this:
You do not walk this valley alone.
The same God who carried me is willing and able to carry you.
Scripture says,
โThe Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.โ (Psalm 34:18)
He sees your tears.
He hears your cries.
And His mercies are new every morning (Lamentations 3:22โ23).
The enemy may be whispering lies to you tooโ
but Godโs truth is louder.
His love is deeper.
And His grace is strong enough for every wound.
If youโre grieving today, I invite you to come to the One who can lift your head, steady your heart, and give you strength for the next step.
(2. A call to salvation.)
And now I want to speak to those who donโt yet know Jesus.
Maybe youโve heard about Him.
Maybe youโve been around church your whole life.
Maybe youโve run from Him.
Or maybe youโre sitting here today realizing you need Him.
Iโm telling youโfrom the deepest place in my own painโ
you cannot walk this life, or this grief, without Jesus.
He is the only One who can save you,
the only One who can forgive you,
the only One who can give you hope that survives death.
Romans 10:9 says,
โIf you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved.โ
Not might be.
Not could be.
You will be saved.
Saved from sin.
Saved from guilt.
Saved from the enemyโs lies.
Saved from hopelessness.
Saved into a new life, into a family, into eternal hope.
If you want that today, itโs as simple and powerful as a prayer like this:
โJesus, I need You. I believe You died for me and rose again. Forgive my sins. Come into my life. Be my Lord, my Savior, my strength. I give myself to You. In Jesus name, Amen.โ
If you prayed that prayer or want to talk about it, find me.
I would love to pray with you, stand with you, and walk with you.
Because in every storm, in every valley, in every moment of griefโฆ
Jesus is faithful.
And today can be the day you begin your journey of standing firm in Him.
God bless you all!!!
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