05/15/2026
“I work all day to put a roof over your head, and you can’t even wash a few dishes?”
“I really thought you were more mature than that.”
“When you do that, you make me sad and disappointed. Do you really want to hurt my feelings?”
Do any of these sound familiar? Are you guilty of guilt-tripping? Guilt/Shame is one of the Seven Core Issues of Adoption, so be cognizant of how you communicate with your child. Here's a great article that can help!
Guilt-tripping our children can have toxic effects. Use these tactics to gain compliance with your child without manipulation or guilt trips!