08/27/2026
After the coffee brewed this morning and I took my place on the patio to indulge. I opened the phone and to my surprise was the first post on my FB page. It was the link below.
I've sat here for some time, even as I type, searching for words and they're just not there. Me, of all people...SPEECHLESS. I type a little and erase the words and stare off across the field looking for more words. It's crazy.
I'm not perfect. Never claimed to be. I had my issues when I was younger. I decided that wasn't where I wanted to be. I learned many years ago that others are really what matter in this life. Do for others. Put others first. I have and the rewards have been abundant.
The past several years have caused me to slow down and reflect and question things. I'm no different than anyone reading this post. I question "why". Why do you try so hard. Why do you help and do for others. Why do bad things happen to good people? I don't know. I don't get it most times.
As a man of faith I am slow to complain. I don't bother with the self pity as it serves no purpose. I realize every day much greater people do not wake up; someone always has it worse that I do. I try to find the message and the answers on every rough road in this life.
For me, of late, it's been the people. Some I don't even know. Others I feel I have done so little for. Some are friends that have been quietly lying in wait. So many have come forth, uninvited, to help. To help ME.
This morning was the post. The shirts. They mean so little, it seems. In reality, they mean so much. It's not just a few dollars from each shirt that will help me get through this battle. It's the thought of those standing with me. Sometimes just standing with someone means more than any words that can be spoken.
The ladies. The friends. The family. The colleagues of the Seneca Fire Auxiliary have been the epitome of love and support. I didn't ask for anything. Yet, every week they have gone bigger and better...for me.
I'm not gonna ask why. I'm not gonna deny a blessing. I am gonna think about the best imaginary hug emoji I can and wish it upon each of them. I'm gonna say thank you the best I can. Then I'm gonna figure out the best way to pay it forward.
In the meantime, I would be most humbled to see this shirt all over town. All over this country. It doesn't represent just myself, but all who struggle and battle with cancer every day.
Cancer is not a cheap game to play, as I've said before. I would be so grateful for the help and support from everyone in this cause.
Let me point out in closing, all of the people behind this benefit on September 20th are volunteers. The volunteers behind the volunteers in our local Fire Department. Let me ask everyone to to remember, honor and help those in your communities. They are , to me, more than VOLUNTEERS.
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