Create Safe Space

Create Safe Space We create generative experiences that illuminate our shared humanity, foster Community’s Coming of Age™ & cultivate peaceful coexistence. Shine On!
-Lori

Journeys often begin as a dream and then with a vision. Here is mine:
Every person deserves to live, learn, pray and love in safe space. Creating Safe Space is a foundational
philosophy and life-giving practice for personal and community growth and well-being. Our mission is to support Individuals, Organizations, and Communities to Create Safe Space as a way of human advocacy, development and emp

athic connection that opens pathways to benevolent community, achieving human potential and well-being. Create Safe Space Illuminates Humanity by supporting experiences and environments grounded in nurturing and sustaining healthy relationships. Healthy Relationships Thrive - and are key to successful families, organizations, and communities. My work as an Experiential Educator, Dialogue, Workshop and Retreat Facilitator, strategic Planning Consultant, Mentor and Coach has provided me with an understanding of Safe Space as a wholistic practice. One that Creates positive environments for the health of mind, body, heart and spirit and supports respect of self and other, holding another's dignity as closely as one's own. It lifts up sacred listening, thoughtful response, self-reflection, graciousness and kindness as hallmarks to living connected to oneself and others. I have often found myself wondering,
What would it feel like to live in a Culture of Safe Space - for myself, in my home, school, place of worship, workplace? How would such space support the ideals of diversity, equality and inclusion and the realization of beloved/benevolent communities? Creating Safe Space supports Contentment. I believe contentment is a state of balance, it reduces stress, and is required for well-being. It is found by reaching in, defining that which your spirit most values, and consciously sharing that feeling everywhere you go and with everyone you meet. When we live in alignment with our values we flourish. "We can never obtain peace in the outer world until we make peace with ourselves," wrote His Holiness, The Dalai Lama. Creating Safe Space is a practice of living true to yourself and sharing that self openly, living a life of integrity. As Safe Space grows, that is, as our Community of practitioners grow, so does our hopeful harvest of Benevolent Communities necessary to Illuminating our Humanity. This is what I dream of...How about you? I hope that you will show your support by following the word and work of our non-profit Create Space Space, Inc., visiting our Website, perhaps attending a retreat, or making a charitable donation. Systemic change is daunting and it has always been a great challenge. The path to Cultural change so to heal and transform is long, and my spirit pushes me forward. Here, I begin to journey, hope you will join me by sharing your stories and thoughts along the way. Wishing you Safe Space as you travel, Together we can Illuminate our Humanity and Build Benevolent Communities!

07/31/2026

An Invitation to Enter Humanity’s Classroom

Standing On Sacred Ground™
A Circle of Trust® Healing History Retreat

There are moments in history when humanity leaves behind more than monuments, documents, or photographs.

It leaves behind wisdom.

It leaves behind warnings.

It leaves behind questions that every generation must answer again.

Too often we approach history as though it were simply information to acquire—a series of dates to memorize, battles to recount, or political debates to revisit.

But history deserves more of us than that.

History is humanity’s accumulated experience.

It is the story of ordinary people making extraordinary choices.

It is the record of courage and fear, justice and injustice, hope and despair, compassion and cruelty.

Most importantly, it is one of humanity’s greatest teachers.

When we choose to learn from history rather than merely study it, something begins to shift.

We become less interested in assigning blame and more interested in cultivating understanding.

Less concerned with choosing sides and more committed to recognizing patterns.

Less focused on yesterday and more attentive to how we live today—and the legacy we will leave for tomorrow.

This understanding is the heart of Standing On Sacred Ground™.

Over six days we will travel together through Savannah, Andersonville, Montgomery, and Selma—not as tourists, but as students of humanity.

Together we will walk places where unimaginable suffering occurred.

We will also stand in places where extraordinary courage emerged.

We will encounter stories of people who chose dignity when it was costly, compassion when it was difficult, and hope when circumstances offered very little reason for it.

Throughout our journey we will gather in the Circle of Trust®, creating space not for debate, but for reflection.

Not for persuasion, but for listening.

Not for certainty, but for honest questions.

Because history is not asking us simply to remember.

It is asking us to become wiser.

Across every civilization, every culture, every generation, humanity has wrestled with remarkably similar questions:

How shall we live together?

What makes a community flourish?

How should power be used?

What do we owe one another?

What does it mean to live a good life?

These questions remain as urgent today as they were centuries ago.

Standing On Sacred Ground™ does not promise easy answers.

Instead, it offers something both humbling and hopeful.

An opportunity to learn from those who came before us.

To recognize patterns that continue to shape our world.

To deepen our capacity for empathy.

To cultivate wisdom.

And perhaps most importantly, to discover what our own lives are being asked to contribute to humanity’s unfolding story.

As an experiential educator, I have long believed that genuine learning is not measured by how much information we collect, but by how deeply we are transformed.

When we notice the lessons history offers us—and have the courage to embody them—we begin to spiral upward toward greater wisdom.

When we ignore them, we often find ourselves repeating the same patterns in different forms.

History does not compel us to repeat itself.

It invites us to evolve.

This retreat is an invitation to become part of that evolution.

To enter humanity’s classroom with humility.

To listen deeply.

To learn courageously.

And to leave carrying not only a deeper understanding of our past, but a renewed commitment to helping shape a more peaceful future.

Because history’s greatest gift is not what it tells us about those who came before us.

Its greatest gift is what it teaches us about who we are becoming.

https://couragerenewal.org/programs/standing-on-sacred-ground-a-healing-history-journey/

07/31/2026

An Invitation to Enter Humanity’s Classroom

Standing On Sacred Ground™
A Circle of Trust® Healing History Retreat ™

There are moments in history when humanity leaves behind more than monuments, documents, or photographs.

It leaves behind wisdom.

It leaves behind warnings.

It leaves behind questions that every generation must answer again.

Too often we approach history as though it were simply information to acquire—a series of dates to memorize, battles to recount, or political debates to revisit.

But history deserves more of us than that.

History is humanity’s accumulated experience.

It is the story of ordinary people making extraordinary choices.

It is the record of courage and fear, justice and injustice, hope and despair, compassion and cruelty.

Most importantly, it is one of humanity’s greatest teachers.

When we choose to learn from history rather than merely study it, something begins to shift.

We become less interested in assigning blame and more interested in cultivating understanding.

Less concerned with choosing sides and more committed to recognizing patterns.

Less focused on yesterday and more attentive to how we live today—and the legacy we will leave for tomorrow.

This understanding is the heart of Standing On Sacred Ground™.

Over six days we will travel together through Savannah, Andersonville, Montgomery, and Selma—not as tourists, but as students of humanity.

Together we will walk places where unimaginable suffering occurred.

We will also stand in places where extraordinary courage emerged.

We will encounter stories of people who chose dignity when it was costly, compassion when it was difficult, and hope when circumstances offered very little reason for it.

Throughout our journey we will gather in the Circle of Trust®, creating space not for debate, but for reflection.

Not for persuasion, but for listening.

Not for certainty, but for honest questions.

Because history is not asking us simply to remember.

It is asking us to become wiser.

Across every civilization, every culture, every generation, humanity has wrestled with remarkably similar questions:

How shall we live together?

What makes a community flourish?

How should power be used?

What do we owe one another?

What does it mean to live a good life?

These questions remain as urgent today as they were centuries ago.

Standing On Sacred Ground™ does not promise easy answers.

Instead, it offers something both humbling and hopeful.

An opportunity to learn from those who came before us.

To recognize patterns that continue to shape our world.

To deepen our capacity for empathy.

To cultivate wisdom.

And perhaps most importantly, to discover what our own lives are being asked to contribute to humanity’s unfolding story.

As an experiential educator, I have long believed that genuine learning is not measured by how much information we collect, but by how deeply we are transformed.

When we notice the lessons history offers us—and have the courage to embody them—we begin to spiral upward toward greater wisdom.

When we ignore them, we often find ourselves repeating the same patterns in different forms.

History does not compel us to repeat itself.

It invites us to evolve.

This retreat is an invitation to become part of that evolution.

To enter humanity’s classroom with humility.

To listen deeply.

To learn courageously.

And to leave carrying not only a deeper understanding of our past, but a renewed commitment to helping shape a more peaceful future.

Because history’s greatest gift is not what it tells us about those who came before us.

Its greatest gift is what it teaches us about who we are becoming.

https://couragerenewal.org/programs/standing-on-sacred-ground-a-healing-history-journey/

This Retreat is designed with The Courage To Hope…An Invitation to Stand on Sacred GroundThe Courage to HopeThere are mo...
07/27/2026

This Retreat is designed with The Courage To Hope…

An Invitation to Stand on Sacred Ground

The Courage to Hope

There are moments in history when it is tempting to believe that the divisions between us are simply too deep, the wounds too old, and the challenges too great to overcome.

Yet every movement toward peace has begun with ordinary people who found the courage to hope.

Hope is not the denial of painful history.

Hope is the willingness to face history honestly while believing it still has something to teach us.

It is the quiet conviction that understanding another person’s story can soften hearts, broaden perspectives, and awaken our shared humanity.

Standing On Sacred Ground™ was created from that conviction.

Together, we journey through places that have witnessed both profound suffering and extraordinary courage—from Savannah and The Weeping Time to Andersonville, Montgomery, and Selma. We do not come merely to learn dates and events. We come to encounter the lives of people whose stories continue to shape our own.

As experiential educators, we believe that when we slow down, bear witness, ask thoughtful questions, and reflect together, history becomes more than something we remember. It becomes something that transforms us.

Our hope is not that every participant will leave thinking the same way.

Our hope is that each person will leave seeing one another more fully, listening more deeply, and carrying a renewed commitment to live with greater integrity, compassion, and courage.

Peace cannot grow where hope has been abandoned.

But wherever people are willing to listen with open hearts, tell the truth with humility, and remain present with one another, hope begins to take root.

We invite you to join a small circle of fellow travelers committed to this journey.

Not because the work is easy.

But because the future of our communities depends upon people who still have the courage to hope.

We hope you will walk with us.

(Limited scholarships available)

History is more than a collection of dates and events. It is the story of human lives - of choices made, suffering endured, courage displayed, and hope sustained. This Retreat traces a story from the shores of Savannah to the fields of Montgomery and Selma.

07/21/2026
Morning Thoughts…My Must HavesThere comes a time in life when we begin to distinguish between what the world tells us we...
07/18/2026

Morning Thoughts…

My Must Haves

There comes a time in life when we begin to distinguish between what the world tells us we need and what our hearts quietly know we cannot live well without.

Every day we are surrounded by voices insisting that happiness is just one more purchase away. A newer home. A different car. The perfect vacation. Better skin. Better clothes. More followers. More success. More.

Marketing is built on convincing us that we are somehow incomplete.

But age has a way of clarifying things.

As I have moved through the seasons of my life, I have become less interested in accumulating things and more committed to recognizing the experiences, relationships, and ways of being that truly sustain me.

These are what I call my must haves.

Not because I could not physically survive without them.

Because without them, I would slowly lose pieces of myself.

My first must have is my family.

My children and grandchildren are my heart walking around outside of me. Just thinking about them fills me with gratitude. They remind me that love is not measured by proximity or perfection, but by the enduring threads that bind us across time, distance, celebration, and hardship. They are among life’s greatest blessings, and they continually invite me to become a better human being.

I must also have my memories.

There are people I carry within me whose earthly presence is gone, yet whose love continues to accompany me every day. I have come to believe that memory is one of life’s greatest gifts. It allows us to continue our conversations with those who helped make us who we are.

Sometimes it is the smallest moments that return with the greatest tenderness.

The sound of my best friend Deb’s laughter.

Playing cards with my Bubbie Becky.

Going to the movies with my Nana.

Preparing holiday dinners beside my Mommom.

Reading the Sunday comics with my Uncle Sam.

Listening to my Poppop lead our Passover Seder in his unmistakable Southern drawl.

None of these moments can be recreated.

Yet none of them have truly been lost.

They live within me.

They remind me that love leaves an imprint that death cannot erase. The people we have loved become part of the architecture of our lives. Their voices echo in our choices. Their kindness shapes our own. Their wisdom continues to guide us.

Our memories are not simply reflections of the past.

They are companions for the journey ahead.

For that, they have become one of my life’s deepest must haves.

My third must have is integrity.

Integrity is the compass by which I navigate my life. It asks me to live in alignment with what I believe, even when it is inconvenient. It reminds me to choose honesty over performance, humility over certainty, and courage over comfort.

Integrity is not about being flawless.

It is about being whole.

It is the quiet work of becoming someone whose words, actions, and values increasingly belong together.

I also must have beauty.

Music that stirs something deep within me.

Books that introduce me to wise companions.

Art that awakens wonder.

Poetry that helps me name what I have felt but could not yet say.

Beauty reminds me that we are nourished not only by what is practical but by what enlarges the soul.

I must have faith.

Not a faith that promises easy answers, but one that teaches me to remain open, grateful, humble, and hopeful. My faith continually calls me back to what is sacred—to the dignity of every human being and to the responsibility we have to care for one another.

I must have movement.

Walking beneath tall trees.

Swimming in quiet water.

Working in my garden.

Dancing when joy finds me.

Movement reminds me that I am alive. It reconnects me to the rhythms of creation and quiets the endless chatter of the mind.

I must have a connection to nature.

Time spent outdoors reminds me that I am part of something far greater than myself. In the quiet presence of trees, water, sky, and soil, I am reminded of the deep

interconnectedness of all living things. Nature teaches patience, resilience, and balance. It gently calls me back to simplicity and invites me to listen more closely—to the world around me and to the wisdom within.

I must have dogs.

To me, they are among the most godly of creations. Their soulful eyes, unconditional love, and contagious energy bring a kind of joy that is pure and unguarded. They ask for so little and give so much. In their presence, I am reminded how to love without reservation, to live in the moment, and to greet each day with enthusiasm. The relationship I share with them is one I cannot imagine living without.

I must have lifelong learning.

Curiosity has become one of my closest companions. I want to keep asking questions, exploring history, reading broadly, listening deeply, and allowing new understanding to shape me. Growth has never meant abandoning my values. It has meant letting them deepen through experience.

And finally, I must have relationships that are generative.

People who invite honesty rather than popularity.

People who are willing to disagree without abandoning one another.

People who inspire me to become more compassionate, more thoughtful, more courageous.

Relationships that are rooted in mutual respect and shared humanity are among life’s greatest treasures.

When I look at this list, I notice something.

None of my must haves can be purchased.

They cannot be delivered to my doorstep.

They cannot be upgraded next year.

They must be cultivated.

Protected.

Practiced.

Perhaps that is the great surprise of a well-lived life.

The things that matter most are rarely things at all.

So today I leave you with a question.

What are your must haves?

Not the things the world tells you to want.

The ones that, if you were honest with yourself, nourish your spirit, shape your character, and remind you who you are.

Those may be the truest wealth you will ever possess.

07/17/2026

To the Educators who believe learning can shape a more humane future…

We are living in a time when many classrooms, campuses, and communities are holding more than knowledge. They are holding grief, polarization, fear, disagreement, and difficult questions about who we are—and who we hope to become.

As educators, we are often asked to help others navigate these moments. Yet too few of us are given the opportunity to do that work for ourselves.

Standing On Sacred Ground is not simply a history retreat.

It is an immersive journey into the places where history still speaks—and where we are invited to listen with greater courage, humility, and humanity.

Together we visit sites that bear witness to both unimaginable suffering and extraordinary resilience. We learn from local historians and wisdom keepers. We engage in reflective dialogue. We sit in Circle. We wrestle with difficult truths—not to determine who is “right,” but to deepen our capacity to hold complexity with integrity.

This retreat offers practical tools for educators seeking to:

• Hold difficult historical truths without becoming overwhelmed.
• Navigate disagreement with curiosity rather than certainty.
• Engage differing perspectives without surrendering deeply held values.
• Create classrooms and communities where people can think, question, and belong.
• Cultivate hope—not as wishful thinking, but as a discipline grounded in truth, relationship, and courage.

History, when approached with care, becomes more than something we study.

It becomes a teacher.

And perhaps one of its greatest lessons is this: even when the ground trembles beneath us, we can learn to stand together with dignity, compassion, and hope.

If you believe education is not only about informing minds but also about forming citizens capable of living well with one another, I hope you will join us.

Standing On Sacred Ground Healing History Retreat
October 11–16, 2026

Come stand where history still whispers.

Come discover the sacred ground beneath your own feet.

For more information, contact:
Lori Yadin
[email protected]
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I think this version aligns closely with your voice and philosophy. Rather than “selling” the retreat, it invites educators into the deeper purpose of their vocation—becoming people who can accompany others through complexity with integrity and hope.

https://couragerenewal.org/programs/standing-on-sacred-ground-a-healing-history-journey/

An Invitation to Join me and my dear mentor and friend Dr. Sally Z. Hare for a 3Part Cyber-Series (Zoom)Finding The Cour...
02/25/2026

An Invitation to Join me and my dear mentor and friend Dr. Sally Z. Hare for a 3
Part Cyber-Series (Zoom)

Finding The Courage to Lead:
Cultivating Leadership in the ElderGarten

So learn from this and understand true values.
I who tell you have wintered into wisdom.
-Hrothgar in the Seamus Heaney translation of Beowulf

A Cyber Circle of Trust® for Nurturing
the Power of Leaders as Elders with Sally Z. Hare and Lori Yadin

Wednesdays: May 6, May 20 and June 3, 2026 2-5 pm ET on Zoom

We have more old people on the planet than ever before, but fewer Elders.
--Sally Z. Hare

You are the One we’ve been waiting for, and we invite you to self-discern if this speaks to you at this time in your life.

There is no particular age at which we become an Elder, but if we don’t begin the journey early enough, we will find ourselves doing remedial work at the end.
We have more old people on the planet than ever before, but fewer Elders. Elderhood is not an age or a stage; rather, elderhood is the work of naming and claiming the value of learning for a lifetime and living with attention and intention.

Ideally, we enter The ElderGarten as a young adult in intergenerational relationships with mentors who serve as role models.

Founder of the Benevolent Community Initiative, Lori Yadin envisions the leaders we need for today’s world as Elders. As she has created her dream for Benevolent Community during her ElderGarten Fellowship, Lori realizes that kind of leadership could be cultivated in the ElderGarten.

Lori is an experiential educator and leadership coach, and
Dr. Sally Z. Hare, lifelong teacher-learner, both Circle of Trust® facilitators, invite you into this space to explore the idea of the lifelong journey towards becoming an Elder and cultivating leadership through that lens.

Elders are defined differently in different cultures, but too often, in our dominant culture, it is a negative term. Join Lori and Sally to reclaim this word, this concept, as being about integrity, not age.

Connecting soul and role as Elder is integral to living life undivided, but we have to see Elders before we can be them. Elders have become an endangered species. We must commit to creating space in which we can recover this imperiled treasure, indeed BE this treasure, so necessary to the survival of the Planet.

“if only we’re brave enough to see it.�If only we’re brave enough to be it.”
-Amanda Gorman


THIS RETREAT IS FOR YOU IF: You have some understanding of the power of reflection and innerwork-- and now want to go deeper in your own inner work to nurture leadership skills through the lens of Elder

This three-retreat series invites people into time for reflection, time to hear their own Inner Teachers; time to notice their life’s experiences thus far and to find meaning; time to understand the need for Leaders to lead from the role of Elder.

ZOOM RETREAT SCHEDULE
May 6, Session 1, 2-5 pm ET: Leading with Integrity : Embracing the Journey of a Lifetime

May 20, Session 2, 2-5 pm ET: The Space Between: Noticing and Naming and Nurturing

June 3, Session 3, 2-5 pm ET: We Lead Who We Are: Taking Our Inner Selves into the Outer World

Registration cost for the 3-retreat series is $149.
To register, please
Email Lori at [email protected] to receive a registration form.

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