01/31/2026
From Dana Reeder Garcia.
It’s with a broken heart I share that Tony passed away peacefully at home, with Cooper and me right by his side, after his brave battle with colon cancer.
I don’t have the words to fully describe this loss. Tony was my best friend, my soulmate, my safe place, and myTo strength. He was one of the most passionate, loving, and courageous men I’ve ever known. His laugh, his kindness, and his unwavering spirit changed everyone who had the privilege of knowing him. He taught me how precious life is and how deeply we are capable of loving.
While my heart feels shattered, I find comfort in knowing that Tony is no longer in pain and is finally at peace. His love, his light, and his legacy will live on in all of us forever.
Many of you have asked what you can do to help. What would truly mean more to me than I can put into words is hearing your memories of Tony. A favorite story, a photo, a moment that made you laugh—any glimpse into how he touched your life would be a priceless gift.
A Mass in honor of Tony will be held on February 22nd at 5:00 p.m. at Saint Gregory the Great Catholic Church, located at 11451 Blue Cypress Drive, San Diego, CA 92131.
For local residents who would like to help by contributing to a meal train, please reach out to [email protected].
Thank you, from the bottom of my heart, for your love, your prayers, and your kindness during this incredibly difficult time.