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02/26/2024

"We are created in Christ to do good works." – Ephesians 23:10

You are created in Christ to do good works. Even in your sorrow, you can still be kind and compassionate towards others and yourself. As you navigate the depths of loss, let yourself channel your pain into acts of love, service, and healing. Embrace the opportunity to honor your loved one's legacy by spreading goodness and making a positive impact in the world, knowing that their spirit lives on through these acts of love.

02/23/2024

"The why came, in part, when I was serving on my church board at the time of my husbands’ death. I became the go-to person for widows and their families as they planned a funeral for their loved one. Most of them were unprepared for the emotional and financial aspect of planning a funeral. In many ways even harder was how to move forward with their lives in the absence of their life partner.

I had first-hand knowledge in that area. When my husband died 16 years ago, I was filled with so many mixed emotions, feelings, and thoughts. After thirty-three years of a wonderful marriage, I now had to walk alone, without the benefit of being able to lean on my husband for support. Grief is real, VERY real and at times the sorrow seemed overwhelming. Knowing that the happy times I shared with my love were now memories; even the times that weren’t so happy made us stronger in our commitment to each other…these became a foundation for MOVING FORWARD.

Everyone handles loss in their own way. We end up at varying crossroads. After my husband’s death I felt pulled in many different directions. I still had a family to care for. My mother was suffering from Alzheimer’s. There was still a business to run, properties to manage, commitments to keep. Now I was faced with a new normal. Who am I and where am I going, and what the heck do I do with the rest of my life became a mantra I asked myself daily. As my heart began to slowly wake up to a different life, I also became aware that several months had passed..."

Read More at https://widowsworld.com/blogs/why-and-how-did-you-start-widows-talk/

02/21/2024

“From now on, brothers and sisters, if anything is excellent and if anything is admirable, focus your thoughts on these things: all that is true, all that is holy, all that is just, all that is pure, all that is lovely, and all that is worthy of praise.” — Philippians 4:8

Amidst the pain, it is often helpful to shift your focus to the good. By intentionally redirecting your thoughts, we can find moments of comfort and inspiration, allowing room for healing and growth. Remember to hold onto the goodness that remains, honoring your loved one's legacy, and seeking beauty amidst the pain.

02/19/2024

Grief is emotional and physical. You feel and lives through your emotional, physical and spiritual being. Respect what your body is telling you. Treat yourself as you would a good friend.

Source: Vitas Healthcare

02/16/2024

"Our mouth was filled with laughter, our tongue with shouts of joy!" – Psalm 126:8

In your darkest days of grief, laughter, and joy can still find a way to seep through the cracks of your sorrow. While it may feel impossible to imagine, moments of lightness and joy can still arise amidst the heaviest of sorrows. These moments are precious and should be cherished. As you navigate the complex emotions of loss, may you hold onto the memory of your loved one with a mix of both tears and laughter. Embrace the joy when it comes, knowing it is a testament to the depth of love that still exists.

02/14/2024

"We had not been married long but I knew the Saturday work routine: yard work of raking, mowing, and trimming. The two children were busy raking up all the blossoms that had fallen on the ground from a half dozen 30-foot camellias that lined the front yard. A messy job, but one they could handle. My husband had completed the mowing and was now hosing off the yard and the driveway when I entered the scene. I walked down the driveway admiring how nice everything looked, making a comment in a laughing tone: “Good job! Nice work! So glad you didn’t need MY help.” With that my husband turned from squatting position and sprayed me from head to toe, laughing his head off. The kids didn’t know what to do! Laugh along with their father, or run just in case they were next? Let alone they had no idea what I might do or say. I was absolutely soaked. I started laughing. Then we all laughed together. I did, however, issue a warning that retribution would be forthcoming.

Indeed, it came one morning when my 6’4” handsome man entered the kitchen with a teasing remark. I just happened to be at the sink rinsing dishes. Big mistake on his part; and perfect timing for me, as I saw my opportunity to get even. I turned toward him and sprayed him with the faucet wand. “Gotcha!” Oh, it was fabulous!!! He was totally stunned and sputtering. The children were still sitting at the counter and witnessed the whole event holding their breath, until my gentle giant started laughing with a smile on his face “Oh, it’s not over,” he said as he gave me a big kiss and a wet hug. I had the feeling of security now that the score had been settled. I mistakenly dismissed the “Oh, it’s not over...”

Read More at https://widowsworld.com/blogs/fun-stories/

02/12/2024

“Listen to my request for mercy when I cry out to you, when I lift up my hands to your holy inner sanctuary.” — Psalm 28:2

At your lowest points, God is still there. He listens when you are happy, when you are sad, and when you’re experiencing every feeling in between. Lean on Him when times get rough for comfort and sanctuary.

02/09/2024

How can you embrace the closure of past chapters in your life and move forward into new and challenging experiences despite the hurtful and discouraging moments along the way?

Embracing the closure of past chapters in your life and stepping into new and challenging experiences can be a daunting journey. Especially when confronted with hurtful and discouraging moments along the way. Lean on your faith, as it will be your guiding light through the shadows. Trust that there is a bigger plan unfolding and that God is with you every step of the way. So take a deep breath, gather your strength, and know that you are never alone.

02/07/2024

When you feel stronger, you should think about getting your legal and financial affairs in order. For example, you might need to:

- Write a new will and update your advance care planning.
- Look into a durable power of attorney for legal matters and health care, in case you are unable to make your own medical decisions in the future.
- Put joint property (such as a house or car) in your name.
- Check on changes you might need to make to your health insurance as well as to your life, car, and homeowner’s insurance.
- Sign up for Medicare by your 65th birthday.
- Make a list of bills you will need to pay in the next few months, for instance, state and federal taxes and your rent or mortgage.

Source: National Institutes of Health

02/05/2024

"Write the vision, and make it plain upon the tables, that he may run that reads it" — Habakkuk 2:3

This verse provides powerful guidance during your grieving journey. Take a moment to reflect, write down your vision, and make it clear and plain. Through this process of reflection and contemplation, you can find a deeper sense of clarity and purpose as you move forward from loss. You can use your vision to inspire you, to remind you of your loved one's legacy, and to guide you towards new and meaningful directions. Writing the vision helps you to stay focused, to stay on course, and to move ahead in the marathon of grief with resilience and strength. May this verse be a source of encouragement to seek hope and direction during your journey.

02/02/2024

"My storytelling started as a child. I entertained myself by making up stories about the things I saw or experienced. Oftentimes I simply enjoyed making up pretend stories. I would then tell them to my mother and my grandmother. Later in life I found that putting my memories and thoughts on paper, (journaling is perhaps a better word) brought reflection, enjoyment, and many times laughter out loud. This echoed in my heart and brought a smile to my face. For a good part of my life prior to becoming a widow, I had been a motivational speaker. I did this both professionally and for charity organizations. I typically used storytelling as the format, using materials that would lead to a positive, encouraging, inspirational ending; or I would leave the audience with a challenge.

When my husband died, I realized that journaling was undoubtedly for me the most therapeutic and cathartic way to release my sadness and pain. It also helped to remember and write about the happy times. Those memories lifted my spirit. It was an easy transition when I was to share some of my writings.

I published my first book, Miracles – Burdens Bring Blessings. The content was taken from my journals about how the Lord had watched over me and protected me my whole life. The intent was to encourage and inspire others to live life unafraid and to the fullest. It’s important to know and believe that the Lord always has your back..."

Read More at https://widowsworld.com/blogs/let-the-stories-begin/

01/31/2024

"You have kept count of my tossings; put my tears in your bottle. Are they not in your book?" — Psalm 56:8

God knows. This verse serves as a reminder of His tender presence as you navigate the depths of loss. He sees every tear you shed, counting your every restless night and cherishing your every memory. Your tears are not forgotten; they are recorded as a sacred testament to your profound love and ongoing relationship with your loved one. With every tear, you are reminded of life's beauty, impermanence, and preciousness. May this knowledge bring peace, comfort, and a deeper connection with God.

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