01/31/2022
I believe that deep down, all horses seek peace and connection.
We don’t know exactly what happened to Walberga before she came to the rescue but her behavior revealed a deep distrust of people and defensiveness to being approached or touched. She would pin her ears habitually and threaten worse, I didn’t let participants work with Walberga at first as I was concerned for their safety!
I worked with Walberga myself, demonstrating for participants how to move through triggers and resistance to help her feel more calm and safe, hoping that one day she might realize she could actually enjoy being touched. Each week brought steady improvement.
Due to a run of bad weather and other obstacles we had several weeks that our group did not meet. Finally today we were able to return and Walberga was waiting for us at the gate. She seemed genuinely happy that we were there and we were amazed at how easy she was to work with. Walberga has a special friend who started coming to MP to bring her daughter, but soon joined us in working with the horses. I showed her some touch techniques that I felt would be helpful and soon look over to see a sight that had my heart absolutely melting! Walberga was snuggling her friend in the most loving way, clearly at that moment any defensiveness and hostility had been replaced with trust and affection.
Success in a program like this doesn’t come from grandiose accomplishments, it comes in the small moments of transformation and shared happiness. We are still working on Walberga’s triggers, they didn’t magically evaporate at once, it is a process not a quick fix.
That is what this program is about, learning the process and how we can use it in all situation so it gets easier each time life seems to pin its ears and threatens to bite. How can we stay calm, move through, and create peace for ourselves and those around us?
These horses are amazing teachers and give us many opportunities to practice. When a horse like Walberga gives you a snuggle you know have done something right 😊