The Lilavena Sanctuary: Foundation for Women & Earth

The Lilavena Sanctuary: Foundation for Women & Earth Lilavena Sanctuary is a nonprofit initiative dedicated to creating eco-beneficial sanctuaries for mothers, and children.

Through gardens, food forests, and community care, we provide nourishment, safety, and regenerative support.

04/20/2026

Women have been feeding children for hundreds of thousands of years for free.

Otherwise we would not be here.

Formula is 140 years old.

The species in 300,000 years old.

That means the nearly every human that ever survived on this planet was breastfed.

For years.
For free.
Zero accolades required.

Women have the biological instinct to feed people. If the collective mothers of the world ran it, every child would eat.

But as long as the system is male dominated. Some children WILL starve.

Because unless he’s Jesus himself — men typically do not care to feed children unless the child is branded with his abstraction of choice.

Their surname, their skin color, their flag, religion, lives within the bounds of their imaginary squiggly line on the ground.

And last but not least — Unless a woman is there to sexually gratify him and tell him he’s a good, good boy.

This is the ONLY species where the males position themselves as RIVALS for the nourishment of the very offspring, extract it from the earth, gatekeep it and give it back to women and children for a fee or sexual gratification.

And I think it’s time for women to unlatch the fu***ng tit from these men. And become directly sourced from the abundance of the ground itself — like we once were.

04/17/2026

I don’t think women should have to:
A ) Sleep with men
B ) Work for men
C ) Or pay taxes to male dominated systems to merely survive

Men: “sounds like misandry to me”

Oh you delicate little flowers, you.
Bless your hearts.

04/17/2026

The UN says that we are 50 harvests away from having fully depleted the soil and unable to grow food.

We could have enriched soil everywhere, if we’d grown for sustainability rather than profit and infinite growth at all costs.

What is the root cause of this?

A ) The Devil
B ) God
C ) Eve
D ) Single moms
E ) Women opening their legs
F ) Women closing their legs
G ) Wh**es
H ) Declining birth rates
I ) Lack of prayer
J ) Shareholders didn’t make enough money
K ) The civilization men built
L ) ______________

04/16/2026

I’m not a fan of quantitative metrics.

We have roughly 8 billion people on Earth.

Rather than intentionally trying to increase that number by any means necessary. 📈

Let’s slow it down. 🤚🏼

Why don’t we do a qualitative check on how those people would rate their lives on a scale of 1 to 10? ⭐️

Especially the women.

Since after the point of fertilization, they are the ones that will be doing 100% of the labor of gestating, birthing, nursing, early education and caring for any children that come into this world.

So how happy are they?
How well resourced are they?
How well respected are they?
How safe are they?

Hmm…

Happy wife?
Happy life?

Or

Happier women?
Happier world?

03/30/2026

It is my forever philosophy that every child should eat, and every child should be safe, but not every man should have access to women.

You want to disparage women on government assistance?

I’ll make it my mission to ensure that they have land to grow their own food. 🤍🌱

03/28/2026

The word feminist is often used as a weapon.

I don’t want to attempt to force myself into any mold a man designed for me.

I never wanted a seat at any table they built.

I am quite simply a woman who possesses an uncolonized mind.

And it is time for women to once again, build our own damn table.

Because the table men want us to beg for a seat at is rotten, and on its last leg.

Time to compost it.

03/25/2026

Men created a system for men, that is lead by men, and they make up 98% of the violent criminals within the system they created for themselves.

And within this system they can be PAID top dollar to carry out immoral and nefarious acts and to destroy nature to ultimately buy women who are purposely more economically disadvantaged.

And say

“so 😌 was I a good boy that did a good thing?”

And they are like:

“Yeeeeah, babe. Super cooool” 🤐🫥

So clearly it’s not working. 🤨

If women had food sovereignty, men would know how women truly think and feel.

And it’s very important that they do.

03/08/2026

The dominant religions of the world have long functioned as moral laundromats for male desire.

They absolve men of nearly any violence or sexual desire they can possibly conceive.

At the same time, they cast women as subordinate, suspect, tempting, corrupt, and unfit to author truth.

So within these frameworks, whatever a man wants can be rationalized.
Control.
Possession.
Access.
Obedience.
Silence.
S*x.
Dominion.

And whether a person is formally religious or not, it hardly matters now.

Our institutions were still shaped in the image of these books.

The Bible.
The Quran.
The Torah.

Their architecture lingers in the law, the family, the economy, the state, the school, the workplace, the court.

The pattern is old and terribly consistent:

Men judge.
Men gatekeep resources.
Men behave as they please.
Women submit.
Women are blamed.
Women are distrusted.
Women’s knowledge is downgraded, mocked, erased, or called dangerous.

This is how you create a cultural monolith where men are almost never required to reckon with themselves.

Only to defend each other.
Only to rename domination as leadership.
Only to call female resistance bitterness, madness, sin, or rebellion.

And so the most intelligent thing women can do is stop treating men as moral authorities.

When women follow men endlessly, corruption multiplies.

History has proven that enough.

When men listen to women, redemption becomes possible.

Not guaranteed. Possible.

Because women have never been the great destroyers of life.

We have been the ones forced to keep life going in the aftermath of male appetite, male warfare, male hierarchy, and male delusion.

So no, women do not need more instruction from men.

Men need interruption from women.

03/06/2026

There are so many ways to contribute to change, what matters most is finding what you're good at, what brings you joy, and what you can sustain. Not everyone needs to be on the front lines. Some of the most powerful forms of activism happen behind the scenes: caregiving, educating, making art, moving money, creating safe spaces.
If you want to be in this for the long haul, pace yourself. Activism is a marathon, not a sprint. But it’s also completely valid if you can only show up occasionally. We need every act of care, every voice, every hand. There’s no single "right way" to help—there’s just showing up in the ways that feel true to you.
I don’t believe activism should be rooted in martyrdom. I believe it should be rooted in love: love for people, for justice, for future generations. A love that’s committed, messy, joyful, and enduring. And real love doesn’t come from shame. It’s not about punishing yourself for what you should be doing—it’s about showing up in ways that nourish both you and the movement.

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Up next on our events calendar ✨

Meetup in Mexico City — March 4

Unlearning Hierarchy workshop Part 2 (Praxis) — March 8,

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