BCC Kingdom Families Ministry

10/12/2025

This is the reality. If you don’t provide your son with accurate information about his budding sexuality, social media, the internet and his friends will fill the void. Compared to the truth from the Bible and trusted sources of wisdom like you, those options will fail your son every time.

As parents, one of our most sacred callings is to guide our sons well — especially during the messy, awkward, powerful season of puberty. It isn’t just about explaining body changes; it’s about pouring into their hearts, building character, and helping them become young men who honor God with integrity and love.

10/08/2025

Every one of your kids ought to have several very clear jobs. When you give them responsibility, they grow in confidence. They discover they’re capable.

More on how to parent with intention: https://livingontheedge.org/2021/11/15/intentional-parenting/

10/06/2025

FMSC volunteer. This group is serving PANAMA 10.04.2025

09/27/2025

“The key is to understand that our children don't belong to us—they belong to God. Our goal as parents must not be limited by our own vision. I am a finite, sinful, selfish man. Why would I want to plan out my children's future when I can entrust them to the infinite, omnipotent, immutable, sovereign Lord of the universe? I don't want to tell God what to do with my children—I want Him to tell me!”
― Voddie T. Baucham Jr., Family Driven Faith: Doing What It Takes to Raise Sons and Daughters Who walk with God

Thank you Voddie Baucham, for your earnest ministry and heart for not only the Lord, but our families. Rest in peace.

09/22/2025

If you don’t see your mate’s deep flaws and weaknesses and dependencies, you’re not even in the game. But if you don’t get excited about the person your spouse has already grown into and will become, you aren’t tapping into the power of marriage as spiritual friendship. The goal is to see something absolutely ravishing that God is making of the beloved. You see even now flashes of glory. You want to help your spouse become the person God wants him or her to be.

When two Christians who fully understand this stand before the minister all decked out in their wedding finery, they realize they’re not just playing dress-up. What they’re saying is that someday they are going to be standing not before the minister but before the Lord. And they will turn to see each other without spot and blemish. And they hope to hear God say, “Well done, good and faithful servants. Over the years you have lifted one another up to me. You sacrificed for one another. You held one another up with prayer and with thanksgiving. You confronted each other. You rebuked each other. You hugged and you loved each other and continually pushed each other toward Me. And now look at you. You’re radiant.”

09/20/2025

Today, many of our children stand on the other side of what feels like an endless chasm of different beliefs, values, and decisions. If our convictions are rooted in the love of the Gospel and Christ's righteousness, we can stand firm in them. "Let all that you do be done in love." (1 Corinthians 16:14).

- Listen in order to understand.
- Don’t criticize things your child can’t change, such as learning ability, physical agility and appearance.
- Don’t use physical violence, yelling, or coercion.
- Stick to one issue at a time.
- Believe the best until guilt is proven.
- Concede when you’re wrong.
- Ask forgiveness when necessary (even when your disrespect was instigated by his or hers).

Remember that you cannot control your child, but you can be firm in your convictions when they are expressed with love.

09/20/2025

Life in the womb depends on a system so precise that even the smallest error would be fatal. One such example of this is the placenta.

In the womb, the placenta takes on nearly every vital role for the baby—acting as lungs to bring oxygen, kidneys to filter waste, a liver to process nutrients, a digestive system to provide food, and even an immune shield. Yet, in this delicate system, the baby’s blood and the mother’s blood never actually mix. If they did, the mother’s body would attack the baby’s blood as if it were an invader. The placenta perfectly manages this separation, protecting life until the moment of birth—when its mission is complete and it’s no longer needed.

This system has to be exactly right. If the blood mixed even slightly, if the barrier failed for just a moment, the pregnancy would end in tragedy. The placenta’s timing, function, and design show how it was carefully created for life to be possible.

09/18/2025

09/16/2025

Granting love and attention to your kids goes a long way toward establishing a stable atmosphere at home. But the best way to foster security in young hearts and minds is to cultivate your relationship with your spouse.