11/01/2016
Life is not about winning and losing. It's not about obtaining and not getting. It's about love and respect. We get in the way of love and happiness. We are too selfish to love each other because of what we want. We have to sacrifice everything for others out of love and expect absolutely nothing in return but another's happiness. Imagine Jesus giving His life for everyone. He did it out of love. And I think He did it just so we could be happy. He wanted to show us that no matter how bad it hurt to beat Him and nail Him on the cross He still loves us, that sacrifice is love, and that love and sacrifice are what spark a good, healthy, and loving relationship. That day on the cross, I believe Jesus (God) willingly went to suffer so that He could show us how to have a loving and respectful relationship. No matter how much it was going to hurt him He did what His father had asked Him. Not what He wanted to do. It wasn't about Him. It was about us and His Father's plan for Him. He served even though it was not in His human nature to. He did it because His Father asked Him to. I also think He did it because He wanted nothing more than to have a relationship with us. How can we not love Him after what He did for us. He gave the ultimate sacrifice. Out of love and a longing for a relationship with us, he gave His life. I need to set aside my schedule, plans, and wants to accommodate those who are closest to me and start sacrificing myself no matter how much it hurts me. In return I will be happy because bringing joy to those I love is what life is all about. Jesus proved this. Relationships are never ever about power but rather lack of power. We must become limited to serve putting selfish ambitions and motives aside and just let things and people be. It's okay that they do not act how we want them to act, it's okay that they don't meet expectations we shouldn't even set, and it's okay if things don't work out the way we want them to work out. If we truly love someone we love them right where they are. We let them change if they want to. If they don't want to we don't try to change them. We just love them more and realize if we are trying to change them we are only trying to fulfill something we desire. Love is selfless. We can't make love about ourselves. The only way to love ones self is to love another. For if we love to only please ourselves we are missing God. Gods love is the only way we can truly love ourselves because He teaches us that love is a relationship. A relationship with Him. We can only love ourselves properly by communicating with God. If we love and know Him, He fills us with His love. So love for ones self is God given obtained through a relationship with Him. It's not something we can give ourselves. It's not something we can acquire on our own. Love is given. It has to be given to us. And in order for us to keep it, we must give it away to all of Gods children all of the time. If not, we lose it and become hurt. Outside of Gods will is where we land. Apart from God. Lonely and sad. Until we talk to Him, ask Him for the strength and knowledge to love those that hurt us, and allow Him to fill the hole we selfishly put in another and ourselves. He fills us up so we know how to fill others. Truly, truly love your neighbor. That's how we show Hod we love Him. It's not the things we do. It's why we do the things that we do!!