06/25/2019
D. Bruce Howell
THE SUTLER’S WIFE
History does repeat itself, particularly on occasions of love and marriage. Female companionship was sparse in frontier settlements and Fort Gibson was no exception. So when 25 year old Sarah Nicks was widowed and also rich by standards of the day, the courting rush was on. According to Washington Irving, who visited Fort Gibson in 1832, “one quartermaster serenaded her so often and so vigorously that he disturbed the sleep of persons on the post.” There will be more about her courtship later.
Colonel John Nicks was her recently deceased husband. After 13 years in the service of his country, Nicks was discharged from service in 1821 as a result of the military downsizing following the war of 1812-15 with England. As a civilian, he almost immediately obtained the appointment as sutler for the 7th Regiment at Fort Smith. Sutlers are licensed civilian merchants who sell non-military goods, commodities like to***co, coffee or sugar to troops. Frequently they also offered other amenities such as card games, alcohol and prostitutes.
Nick’s business as sutler at Fort Smith was quite successful and partially because of that he was elected to the Territorial Legislature of Arkansas and served two terms representing Crawford County. He was so popular that before the treaty with the Western Cherokee in 1828 when the area around Sallisaw was still part of Arkansas, the county seat of Lovely County was named Nicksville in his honor. Today, Nicksville is the site of Dwight Mission.
Obviously, John Nicks was “on a roll,” and July 13, 1824 the 50 year old Nicks married 18 year old Sarah Price Perkins. The nuptials were presided over by the Reverend William Vaill, founder of Union Mission. It was also at this time Nicks and his new bride moved to Fort Gibson where he became a partner with John Rogers. Rogers was a prominent citizen, known to be the last chief of the Western Cherokee. In addition to his responsibility as sutler, in 1827 a post office was established at Fort Gibson and Nicks was named postmaster.
But beyond the success and obligations of his business, life was dull at the fort and John and his friends frequently engaged in their two favorite pastimes, drinking and gambling. During at least one 4th of July banquet no less than 13 toasts were given. Poker parties occurred frequently and sometimes lasted for days. On at least one occasion, Nicks returned after a three day binge and attempted to crawl through a window into his bedroom but was commanded to throw up his hands. Sarah was sitting in bed with a gun leveled at her husband and demanded that he “explain his conduct in sneaking into her bedroom like a thief.”
Either the combination of gambling and drinking or the strain of married life was just too much for Nicks because after a ten day bout with pneumonia he died December 31, 1831 at the age of 57. But now while the young Widow Nicks was suddenly available to suitors, there was more to add to her appeal. Within days following John Nicks’ funeral, the commander of Fort Gibson appointed the grieving Sarah as sutler “at least until such time as she may dispose of her husband’s goods.” Not only was her personal wealth expanded but so was her status. By this appointment, Sarah Nicks not only became the first woman to hold a position in the United States Government, inadvertently she also became the first business woman in what would become the state of Oklahoma!
Naturally the race was on for the hand of this plump but attractive and wealthy woman. Just as Washington Irving, Sam Houston took note and on one occasion wrote how wives of the officers at Fort Gibson envied the courtship of the Widow Nicks because of their own rather lonely lives. These observations among the elite continued for the next four years as suitors came and went. But ultimately it was over. Retired Colonel Robert Stuart Gibson, a merchant and now post master at Fort Gibson won her hand.
Although successful at business, apparently it didn’t apply to marriage for Sarah. Her second husband died ten years later at the age of 45. Further suitors either declined in numbers or were ignored and she lived out the remaining years of her life at Fort Smith where it had all started. Despite her notoriety as a “femme fatale” and status as “first woman,” fifty six year old Sarah Nicks Gibson died in 1862 alone. She is buried in the National Cemetery at Fort Smith among the soldiers with whom she spent most of her life.
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