SexPositive Portland

02/01/2026

Ellecia Paine is back from Polytopia for a one night workshop!!!

https://www.s*xpositiveportland.org/events/11843

Ellecia Paine, the voice behind "Nope! We're Not Monogamous," for a down-to-earth session where we'll explore how jealousy can actually boost your desire and intimacy in non-monogamous relationships. I'll share my own story of wrestling with jealousy, finding self-love, and realizing that those intense, green-eyed feelings can be just as thrilling as they are terrifying.

10/03/2025

Karaoke party, tomorrow night, October 3rd. 7:30 - 11:00 pm. Details in the event page: https://www.s*xpositiveportland.org/events/11413

09/18/2025

After Saturday’s big show, let's dance with DJ NihtCat 🎶✨

From world beats to club grooves, she’ll take us on a journey from the cellular to the soullular. Come move, sweat, and lose yourself in the LOVE! A few tickets are still available for Polytopia! https://www.s*xpositiveportland.org/events/10463

09/17/2025

09/11/2025

We’re thrilled to welcome Portland Leather Alliance (PLA) as a proud sponsor of Polytopia 2025! 🎉

PLA has been a cornerstone of Portland’s kink, leather, and B**M community for years—creating safer spaces, supporting education, and celebrating authentic expression. Their dedication to connection and consent makes them a perfect fit for Polytopia’s vision of s*x-positive community.

Let’s give PLA a big thank you for helping make Polytopia happen! 💜

09/04/2025

Getting SWAG ready for with custom identities buttons! These will help us all connect more at the conference! Do you have your ticket yet? Just a few left! ***er

08/25/2025

We're excited to announce our new sponsor for

08/21/2025

Our Polytopia Saturday night stage is bursting with talent, heart, and a touch of the unexpected. Join us for a night of music, movement, and unforgettable performances featuring:

Betsie Heart
Gracing stages across the globe and charming hearts along the way, Betsie is a q***r, 2nd generation Mexican & Filipino American Variety Performer bringing theater, dance, circus, burlesque, and fire to life. From aerial artistry to vintage flair, she’s ready to dazzle and ignite your night.

Jason Tate
A master of “Y’allternative” vibes, Jason blends Americana soul with raw lyrics about love, loss, and the wild ride in between. With a career spanning decades, his music is heartfelt, funny, and just the right amount of twang.

Adrian Martin
Q***r activist, sx worker/content creator, and professional musician, Adrian brings a powerful presence that’s as real as it is raw.

Sassafras Patterdale
An acclaimed q***r and leather author whose works have traveled the world—from The New York Times to Berlin bookshops—Sassafras’ storytelling leaves an imprint wherever it lands.

Menage Ah T***s
Portland’s own musical comedy trio, blending wit, whimsy, and a splash of the outrageous. Expect laughter, mischief, and maybe a snort or two.

Come for the show, stay for the magic - The only way to go is by getting your ticket for Polytopia!!! www.s*xpositiveportland.org/polytopia-2025

08/20/2025

It’s that time again! Whether you’re new to the scene or one of our favorite familiar flirts, join us for our monthly SPP social.
Whether you're a seasoned sweetheart or just dipping your toes into the s*x-positive pond, this is your chance to mingle, laugh, and connect—in a setting that’s as relaxed as it is radiant.
🧺 What to Expect:
A sweet blend of unstructured socializing and playful ambiance:
🌿 Bring a blanket or lawn chair
🍓 Bring a treat or drink to share (if you can—no pressure!)
🎶 Ambient music, a sprinkle of flirty icebreakers, and cozy summer vibes
💃 Fabulous outfits encouraged. Barefoot frolicking optional—but appreciated.
✨ The Vibe:
Casual. Flirty. Effortless—just like your favorite Saturday morning hair.
Bring your best picnic game: snacks, bubbly water, or whatever’s calling from your fridge (maybe not that Tupperware). And if you come empty-handed? No sweat. Your presence is more than enough. 😉

https://www.s*xpositiveportland.org/events/10780
Social: 🧺 A Flirty Picnic Summer Hangout🌞 - S*xPositive Portland (SPP)

08/20/2025

Join us for an interactive workshop on creating safer s*x and more pleasurable connections through awesome communication!

"The Talk" has taken many forms with many names over the years, with frameworks for navigating safer s*x and healthy boundaries including Evelin Dacker's "STARS" & Reid Mihalko's "Elevator Speech", among others. This class builds upon skills learned using these tools, and offers an updated framework created by and for our S*x Positive community. You can use The Pleasure Talk in your own relationships, at our events, and anywhere you find yourself in intimate connections with others.

https://www.s*xpositiveportland.org/events/11274