11/10/2026
This week we bring you and update from a local « veteran« foster family who have been in the trenches for more than two decades. Here is a description of their crew.
Our family recently grew to include nine children, with a span in ages of 22 years. While we had closed our file and decided that the foster care era of our lives was complete a few years ago, Someone had other ideas, and here we are!
We are at the age and stage of life where most of our friends are enjoying leisurely retirements and visits with grandchildren. We are still juggling school schedules, appointments and extracurricular activities of a family with a wide range of physical and behavioral health needs, reminding ourselves that it’s better to wear out than rust out!
Beyond the obvious demands that come with raising kids, foster care brings a whole other parcel of requirements – never-ending paperwork, daily communications with county caseworkers, agency caseworkers, therapists. Make sure that your clearances are updated and submitted! Please send me a copy of your vehicle’s insurance card and registration! Did Johnny see the dentist this month? Please send me a report on the proper form! Can we come for a visit tomorrow at 2:00? Remember that your training hours are due at the end of the month! Can we reschedule Thursday’s therapy session?
Caring for children who have come from hard places is challenging. Caring for children who come from hard places while also navigating a broken system is sometimes overwhelming. It’s been said that foster families don’t quit because of the kids. They quit because of systemic burnout, administrative burden and a lack of institutional support.
The support and encouragement of those who understand the struggles of foster care and adoption is essential. Words of affirmation and grace in the struggles from those in our circles keep us going. And seeing the growth and success of the children we love assures us that we are exactly where we were meant to be.
Let’s pray for God to give this amazing family strength that is needed for each day and the ongoing demands. Let’s also pray that He would call more families to join in this amazing but often exhausting work of loving and caring for children from hard places.