06/23/2026
2025 and 2026 have felt like years of navigating a maze.
I fought battles within myself. I fell short in relationships. I spent so much of my life being the glue that held everything together, allowing others to lean on me while I carried the weight of everyone else's needs.
I worked, sacrificed, provided, and poured into people I loved. I tried to keep promises, traditions, and family patterns alive, not realizing that when life changes, the puzzle pieces change too.
I've been a "yes girl" for most of my life. I convinced myself that saying yes kept people close. I worried about everyone else's feelings. I held on tightly to people who had once been there for me in my darkest moments, believing that if someone showed up for me once, I owed them forever.
Today, at 41 years old, I finally understand something that has changed everything:
We don't get time back.
It's okay for me to live.
It's okay for me to enjoy life.
It's okay for me to choose myself.
It's okay for me to become who God created me to be.
For so long, everything I worked hard for, I gave away.
But from June 2026 to June 2027, I'm doing something different.
This season is about Nakenya.
It's ME vs. ME.
Everything that was meant for me, I'm reclaiming. Everything I was supposed to have, I'm working toward getting back.
So when you see me growing, healing, smiling, traveling, building, and thriving, don't mistake it for showing off.
Understand this:
THE RELEASE IS NOW.
I'm keeping God first as I step into this season of restoration, healing, and receiving what belongs to me.
If you knew me, then un-know me.
The wounded little girl I once was is no longer leading my life.
She is healed.
And now, I am becoming.
