05/26/2026
This spring, we added several new parts to the kid's time program. One is a weekly drum group, where our instructor Howard teaches the children traditional drumming and songs. But the program is about more than music. The relationship Howard builds with the children is what makes it so meaningful. The kids time staff prepares a meal for everyone and joins Howard and the children in drumming and singing.
Another new program brings in an elder to help the children make and sew ribbon skirts. These skirts are worn for ceremonies, and we are excited that the girls will have theirs ready for the powwows this summer. But again, the value goes beyond the sewing itself. It is about having someone share stories, show interest, and remind these children that they are seen.
If they could, many of the children would be at our building seven days a week. They come not only for food and activities, but because they know we care about them. Our staff listens to them, supports them, and helps them build basic life skills. Earlier this year, Patty taught the children how to make chocolate chip cookies from scratch, and they loved it—though I was disappointed not to get any cookies myself. We have also taught them how to make fry bread and are helping them learn basic cooking skills. But as with the drumming and the ribbon skirts, the real value is not just the activity. It is the time and care that help these children feel seen, heard, and welcomed.
